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reactions to rope - 7/8/2008 2:10:24 PM   
brat4fun


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Status: offline 		I was talking with my Sir this morning about my reaction to the Shibari chest harnesses and rope corsets that I've been in lately.  I seem to get very relaxed, almost sleepy, when I'm in rope.  The gag that he placed me in last night seemed to compound that.  I could breathe just fine... couldn't take a deep breath, but I could get full regular breaths in just fine... even with the gag.

When we were just sitting there watching TV on the couch, I was very sleepy... but very easily aroused.

I'm just wondering what other people's reactions to being bound are.

Anne
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RE: reactions to rope - 7/8/2008 2:12:25 PM   
firstslaveca


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Status: offline 		rope makes me feel safe, its like a continuous embrace. makes me feel very secure.

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/8/2008 2:14:12 PM   
simpleplan2


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Status: offline 		There's nothing like being tightly bound, struggling and then realizing that you cannot escape and just giving yourself to the rope.  Yes, it does feel very secure.

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/8/2008 2:41:51 PM   
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rope makes me angry...really 'red mist' angry.  Dunno why, it just does.  And that's also very hot...lol

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/8/2008 3:09:49 PM   
LilGnome


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Status: offline 		more please?  hehe, love it!  same thing often sleepy, and depending on the tie, i never want it to come off.  

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/8/2008 3:34:59 PM   
leakylee


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Status: offline 		you know it depends on what is happening. sometimes i want OUT. there is this little thumb trick that lets me out of most wrist restriants. the more primal (i guess that would apply) i become the more i fight it, but that is also in an altered state of mind. mid to high orbit..

in low orbit, or my normal self i find that small space with ropes. kinda like i do with cages, closets, or anything that is going force me and my brain inward. not external force per se, but internal.

hope that makes sense.
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RE: reactions to rope - 7/8/2008 3:48:26 PM   
softness


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Status: offline 		Depends on the context .. and the person putting the rope on ... and what other bits of kit are out at the time.

I have been bound before bed .. and slept heavy and safe ... was lovely

Then just recently .. this evil bastard tied my wrists together so tight I thought I was going to lose a thumb ... and I admit i might have had justa  small panic

in my defense He was holding a very large cricket bat at the time

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/8/2008 10:10:41 PM   
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Comfortable.  Safe.  Controlled.  Now, there are times too when it is annoying like having to drag 50 feet around with you when you are literally tied to the apartment for the day while Master is at work.  That was annoying cause the dragging and the dang knot that held me to the rope kept coming undone and I had to redo it. 

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 1:29:57 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		How does it make me feel ? warm , safe secure , relaxed , as waynes world would say SHWINGGGGGGG .. Sure it can be made uncomfortable yet i still say thanks and awee were done already - then she retorts " its been 4 hours " . very trace like i say thanks .I always seem to sleep better after an exchange be it with rope , or mumification depravation ,ok this could get to be a  long list so i shall stop there  but i do know what your saying in regards to rope tie luv . good post great responces !

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 2:53:47 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		Bondage is my kink.  Part of that is the feeling of security, like swaddling, an embrace.  i don't get sleepy, but i can feel very relaxed.  For me, it's not only rope, although there is something special about the pressure points of a nice rope bra or body harness.  Mmm mmm mmmmm!

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 3:42:01 AM   
Focus50


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quote:

ORIGINAL: brat4fun

I was talking with my Sir this morning about my reaction to the Shibari chest harnesses and rope corsets that I've been in lately.  I seem to get very relaxed, almost sleepy, when I'm in rope.  The gag that he placed me in last night seemed to compound that.  I could breathe just fine... couldn't take a deep breath, but I could get full regular breaths in just fine... even with the gag.

When we were just sitting there watching TV on the couch, I was very sleepy... but very easily aroused.

I'm just wondering what other people's reactions to being bound are.

Obviously I don't know you but what you call "relaxed" sounds a lot like sub-space, from your description and circumstances.
 
I love rope - it is the embodiment of controlling another person.  Cuffs make for expediency and even a "headspace" fashion accessory around the home but rope *IS* bondage. 
 
Probably every sub I've known automatically associates rope with control and loss of choices etc and some have been a little difficult to tie because they start zoning out (prematurely) as the bonds tighten.  That can be annoying, especially if I'm tying something intricate - but not in a bad way....
 
Focus.

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 8:30:31 AM   
brat4fun


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ORIGINAL: Focus50
Obviously I don't know you but what you call "relaxed" sounds a lot like sub-space, from your description and circumstances.
 
I love rope - it is the embodiment of controlling another person.  Cuffs make for expediency and even a "headspace" fashion accessory around the home but rope *IS* bondage. 
 
Probably every sub I've known automatically associates rope with control and loss of choices etc and some have been a little difficult to tie because they start zoning out (prematurely) as the bonds tighten.  That can be annoying, especially if I'm tying something intricate - but not in a bad way....
 
Focus.


I wouldn't really know, Sir.  I haven't ever been in a position where I could say "yes... that was subspace".  Looks like my Sir and I will have to do some more exploring with this.  All I really know is that I loved every minute of it! 

Anne

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 10:41:24 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Oh bondage i just love it.  Something about being helpless while Master can do whatever he wants( as usual) and i am unable to stop him (not that i would anyway)  is a huge turn on for me.  Whenever he releases me it like  you don't have to do that but if he wants to nothing i can say about it.

Matt's littleone

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 10:45:11 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		brat > try filming one of your sessions to view yourself  outside of the state of being while in ropes , when i did it for the first time i was like who is that  lol . It was like one of those outside looking in observation moments . 

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 11:21:22 AM   
brat4fun


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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

brat > try filming one of your sessions to view yourself  outside of the state of being while in ropes , when i did it for the first time i was like who is that  lol . It was like one of those outside looking in observation moments . 


Ooooooh... now there's a thought.  I wonder if Sir has a video camera.................. *evil grin*

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 12:20:25 PM   
DarkVictory


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quote:

ORIGINAL: softness

Depends on the context .. and the person putting the rope on ... and what other bits of kit are out at the time.

I have been bound before bed .. and slept heavy and safe ... was lovely

Then just recently .. this evil bastard tied my wrists together so tight I thought I was going to lose a thumb ... and I admit i might have had justa  small panic

in my defense He was holding a very large cricket bat at the time


It is NOT a cricket bat.  It's actually this very small and perfectly safe 1 1/2" thick seasoned oak paddle, about 24" long and no more than 5" across.  Why, a cricket bat would border on scary.

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 3:03:43 PM   
softness


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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 5:13:46 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		I love implements that can have a wide range of sensations and reactions and rope is most definitely one of those.

I use a very high end sailing rope that is very soft and supple and looks like black velvet with subtle hints of red.  Slowly dragging it over some one's skin as you bind them is the soft touch of a caring lover, cinched harshly it is the bite of a sadistic bastard, wrapped beautifully around someone it gives the appearance of their being a sensual gift, or a helpless victim about to have their ass violated and used with nary a thing they can do to prevent it.

I will never forget the first time I did rope bondage on someone, I did a classic simple Japanese rope dress and the analness of the symmetry as well as her reaction to being bound evoked evoked a reaction from me that made me fall in love with it. 

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 5:21:48 PM   
DarkVictory


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ORIGINAL: softness

which is why You want me to buy one ... right?




Yes.

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RE: reactions to rope - 7/9/2008 6:43:43 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		Would you two get a fucking room, preferably room 69 down the hall where I have a two way window and tons of popcorn for the rest of us.

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