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Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:05:27 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		I question mainly for the women.  Do you ever come close to orgasm and then not know if you had one or not?  (This seems more common with little or no clitoral stimulation.)  Men typically ejaculate, so even if it wasn't a great orgasm they still know they had one.  I'm just wondering if anyone else sometimes wonder if they really had an orgasm or not.
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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:08:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		not personally, though not every orgasm is a huge, mind blowing omg i can't catch my breath or think, kinda thing.  There are times when i have very small orgasms that still feel good, but do not even come close to matching the intensity of other times.   i have always known when i had them though. 



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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:14:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		My opinion is that if you don't know whether you had one or not then you probably didn't, but maybe it's different for others than me. Hmmmm how would you know if  you had one or not if you can't tell?

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:17:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		no, i always know, it is more common for me not to have one than to have one, so i am always aware

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:25:01 PM   
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My opinion is that if you don't know whether you had one or not then you probably didn't,


Ditto, minus the "probably." LOL!!


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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:26:28 PM   
Oureverydesire


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Status: offline 		Sadly I've never had one.


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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:27:23 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		I have never had an orgasm during intercourse , only from masturbation.

Those can vary wildly from feeling like I'm at the top of a roller coaster then woosh down, then up, then down, kinda like waves.  There can be just one woosh or a few or even more.  I don't know but I guess that's multiples? 

But besides the roller coaster kind of orgasms, I get lighter ones that I like to describe as the ooo like hitting a dip in the road.  That's probably a terrible description, but the best I can come up with.

Sometimes I come close then lose it, which can be frustrating.

But I always know when I've had one, even if it's just a tiny blip on the radar.

I so envy women who can orgasm easily. 

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:33:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sometimes it is such a small blip it's hardly noticeable, but I pretty much know if it happened.  There are times when it doesn't happen no matter the stimulation.

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:44:23 PM   
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Sadly I've never had one.




Have you tried masturbating with a good vibrator?

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:54:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		I second that. My first ones were self-induced and I rarely orgasm through regular intercourse as well. But if you use a toy and learn yourself, you and go a lot further with sexual sessions with another. 

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:56:49 PM   
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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 1:57:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		The wind blows...I orgasm.  The sun is hot and shining...I orgasm.  I remember a past hot adventure...I orgasm.  I read a great story...I orgasm.  I masturbate...I orgasm.  Another masturbates me...I'm forced to orgasm.  I perform fellatio...I orgasm.  I have sex...I orgasm.  I get flogged...I orgasm.  My hair is pulled...I orgasm.  I get bitten...I orgasm.  A deep voice in my ear...I orgasm.  There are a whole bunch of other ways it happens..these are just the top ones. :)  My friends wonder why I have so many panties...they are having to be changed constantly!

It took years to get to this level...the best thing to do...mentally...just let go...and feel...don't think...stops an orgasm everytime(except when there is a medical problem).

My suggestion - Hitachi Magic Wand - and attachments too - just a lovely friend to have in my honest opinion - to begin a fabulous journey of....ohhhhhhhhhhh myyyyyyyyy ggggooooodnnnneeesssssss!!!

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 2:02:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Gleegal67

The wind blows...I orgasm.  The sun is hot and shining...I orgasm.  I remember a past hot adventure...I orgasm.  I read a great story...I orgasm.  I masturbate...I orgasm.  Another masturbates me...I'm forced to orgasm.  I perform fellatio...I orgasm.  I have sex...I orgasm.  I get flogged...I orgasm.  My hair is pulled...I orgasm.  I get bitten...I orgasm.  A deep voice in my ear...I orgasm.  There are a whole bunch of other ways it happens..these are just the top ones. :)  My friends wonder why I have so many panties...they are having to be changed constantly!



Oh goodness! I want to play with you!! LOL!


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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 2:09:30 PM   
Oureverydesire


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ORIGINAL: proudsub

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ORIGINAL: Oureverydesire

Sadly I've never had one.




Have you tried masturbating with a good vibrator?


Oh yes, I've tried everything, including most of those that are "taboo" on this messageboard!!

Nothing, not a blip on the radar.

Just have to settle for a big bar of chocolate and QVC I guess.

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 2:15:30 PM   
Gleegal67


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ORIGINAL: MistressSybella

quote:

ORIGINAL: Gleegal67

The wind blows...I orgasm.  The sun is hot and shining...I orgasm.  I remember a past hot adventure...I orgasm.  I read a great story...I orgasm.  I masturbate...I orgasm.  Another masturbates me...I'm forced to orgasm.  I perform fellatio...I orgasm.  I have sex...I orgasm.  I get flogged...I orgasm.  My hair is pulled...I orgasm.  I get bitten...I orgasm.  A deep voice in my ear...I orgasm.  There are a whole bunch of other ways it happens..these are just the top ones. :)  My friends wonder why I have so many panties...they are having to be changed constantly!



Oh goodness! I want to play with you!! LOL!



I'm a gal full of glee for a reason...just y'all know instead of the rest of the world why I'm laughing and giggling all the time! :D

My goodness Bella...what a lovely offer!

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 2:16:46 PM   
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Do you ever come close to orgasm and then not know if you had one or not? 


no.  it is one or the other.
 
they vary in frequency, intensity, duration and inspiration...but reaching that point, or not, hasn't been a mystery since this slave hit puberty.

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 2:17:39 PM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: Oureverydesire

Sadly I've never had one.

 

A female urology specialist might be able to help. Have you seen one?

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 2:18:14 PM   
tenderplant


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Status: offline 		I read some place(I forget the website) that more women orgasm through clitoral stimulation than vaginal intercourse. I thought something was wrong with me when I couldn't achieve an orgasm through vaginal intercourse.
I know when I have had one :)

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 2:37:07 PM   
Mercnbeth


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...I so envy women who can orgasm easily. 


count your blessings...for there are two sides to every coin.
 
as one who does, this slave used to envy women who didn't so easily, who could explain it with a sexual situation, or it happened so rarely.
 
she envied the slow build-up, the prolonged excitement and foreplay, not to mention the various toys...and imagined it would be a very sensuous experience.
 
she envied women who don't have to hide the fact from their fellow passengers that they are orgasming from the  car ride.  she envied women who don't orgasm for no particular reason at all.  she envied women who rode horses and motorcycles---without orgasm.
 
imagine being "afflicted" with the female version of "premature ejaculation"---in mutiples...like as soon as he LOOKS at it, or maybe puts it in and strokes twice, it's over..and over...and over...to exhaustion.  it has dissapointed many a vanilla man, in this slave's experience.
 
thankfully, Master accepted her "affliction", took this slave under His wing and has been more than willing to work with this slave to hold out as long as she possibly can, to have the experience of some sort of "build-up"...and she no longer envies those who don't cum when the wind blows their skirt up...or out of the blue for no reason at all, either!

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RE: Female Orgasms - 7/11/2008 2:39:18 PM   
Oureverydesire


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: Oureverydesire

Sadly I've never had one.



At 18 this is extremely common. Due to hormonal fluctuations that don't settle down until sometime in your mid to late 20's.

However, a female urology specialist might be able to speed up the process.


Unfortunately Godesslola is now in her mid-fifties!!

If I'm honest its this basic unfulfillment that has lead me to this lifestyle.

Quite sad really.

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