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chamberqueen -> Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:26:38 PM)

Ok, I've heard from people who know exactly what an orgasm is.  Has anyone ever faked one to please their Dom/Master?



ProtagonistLily -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:28:09 PM)

Of course.

PL



BlackKnight -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:30:04 PM)

yeah, to make the girl feel better about herself, back when I was vanilla.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:30:09 PM)

I sense a trend in your line of questioning this evening...[&:]  Is everything okay?

I have never faked an orgasm, ever.  It just doesn't occur to me.  The thing that just slays me is that a lot of the time, unless I am in the OMG quasi-petit-mal throes of something really intense, men often have NO idea if I came or not.  Even men who should know better.  Most of them are just not that into the signals, I think. 

Would I fake it?  No.  It would just be the tackiest kind of flattery IMO. 



Huntertn -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:30:32 PM)

LOL..hell even us guys can fake that...snickers...



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:30:49 PM)

Since I'm on the D side, the answer would have to be no.  However, I have faked an orgasm for other reasons.



coupleowl -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:36:53 PM)

Yes. Once, but those details are mum. 



NeedingMore220 -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:39:01 PM)

Once in the past - when he counted down and I was supposed to cum magically without his doing much to inspire me.  I shoulda gotten the Golden Globe for that one.



KneelingSilently -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:39:35 PM)

The longer I go at it the more... numb I become down there and the harder it is for me to ejaculate. So yes, I did fake one once because she really wanted me to cum but I was just at it for so long that I couldn't anymore. I would like to think that I wouldn't do it again, though. For some that may be too much information and I apologize for that.



MissIsis -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:41:24 PM)

D/s or not, of course.  Is there really anyone who hasn't?  Faking orgasms prevents hurt feelings.  Of course, if faking them is always what one has to do, it is probably time to come clean, &/or get out. 



christine1 -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:41:24 PM)

no i've never faked it with a Dominant, but i faked it all the time with my ex husband. [;)]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:51:19 PM)

You ladies are just darn nice people, that's all I can say!!



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:53:33 PM)

Nice had nothing to do with it, for me.  I just wanted him to be done.  I haven't had to fake it since I met my beloved Spyder.  [:D]



kiyari -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:53:54 PM)

Fast Reply:

Never.

I am largely Vanilla,
yet 'faking it' aka "stroking my partner's ego undeservedly"
has never been ...what, an interest?

When I have gotten the sense that my partner has 'achieved' 
what they (in their self-absorption) had sought,
well, then (presuming that I still cared), such has sufficed for me as well.

Meaning: my partner's satisfaction was (genuinely) mine as well.

Of course, such relationships were already in their death-throes.

Oh, and just as an fyi or tmi: I *AM* orgasmic.



kiyari -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 6:56:35 PM)

Damnation and so true!!!

When I was married, it was sooo just as you describe, sheesh!

Well, apart from my faking an orgasm... my then spouse needed no such 'feedback'.

Bleh



afterforever -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 7:03:42 PM)

Never, and I like to think I never would. I wouldn't pander to a guy's ego like that. Possibly helps that I never had any vanilla/awkward teenage relationships, and my Master was always very clear on the subject of faking it.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 7:06:02 PM)

There are worse things than undeserved stroking of the male ego...I've fallen asleep on a couple of guys. 
 
[sm=angel.gif]



Wiseprotector -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 7:07:34 PM)

I fake foreplay



velvetears -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 7:11:18 PM)

FR

Yes but it was done for self preservation lol.  i was overstimulated and the dom just wouldn't accept that it wasn't gonna happen.  It got to the point that it was getting almost painful and he thought he could push me past it. 

The problem with that is you create a lie and are stuck with having to live with that lie.  i didn't continue much longer with that dom but if i had i would have had to fess up eventually when the same situation happened or fake another one.  i don't like be deceptive and decided if it did i would explain the situation. Never had to and would never fake another one again. 



WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Anyone ever fake an orgasm? (7/11/2008 7:12:57 PM)

I used to fake orgasms, in my younger days.  Before I actually HAD an orgasm and learned how great they were.  Now it just seems sorta counter-productive.  Sort of reminds me of when we first told my mom her apple pie was delicious.  Every holiday after that, we were forced to eat those damn apple pies, and smile doing it.   I've only ever had one Dominant in my life - and I never faked orgasms with him.  I didn't have to.  He had a Hitachi (Purrs). 



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