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dcnovice -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/18/2008 8:59:14 PM)
<fast reply> I take it I'm the only one on the thread who's ever eyed someone longingly and thought, "Nothing upstairs, but what a staircase!" Not an original line, alas.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/18/2008 9:01:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddyLongStroke Finally, being of superior intellect (as you well know and have vouched for), I believe that I would have no problem "enlightenting" someone that might be not up to my level. psst.. Mr. superior intellect... c u tomorrow.. lol

HardToTame -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/18/2008 9:38:41 PM)
how do you define intelligence though? I mean really? Some people are smart in some areas and dumb in another. Everyone is a superstar in their own field. You might not be the best at English grammar, but you might be able to build a house. You might not be able to build a house but might be a master chef. I think in all areas, we're going to judge people as un intelligent if their intelligence doesn't resonate in our own. I think even illiterate people have something constructive to offer. How do we define stupid? Is it lack of common sense? How?

KMsAngel -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/18/2008 10:20:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch I know that you are not sitting there with a straight face right now.. You seriously need a snack dude... see, I let the other stuff slide [:)].. not saying a word.. that's alright bsb, i hurt my elbow when i fell on the floor laughing. i did it for both of us darlin! in my experience, people of superior intelligence don't go around bragging about it, either. people come to know fairly quickly who is and who just says they are.

steviemichael -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/18/2008 10:53:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Hmmmm.... I prefer men who understand syntax. darn sighs This system took as its basic premise the assumption that language is a direct reflection of thought processes and therefore there is a single, most natural way to express a thought.cough !

hardbodysub -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/18/2008 11:12:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: steviemichael quote: ORIGINAL: MsStarlett Hmmmm.... I prefer men who understand syntax. darn sighs This system took as its basic premise the assumption that language is a direct reflection of thought processes ... Gee ... for your sake, I hope not! [edited to correct typo]

boyforyouruse -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/18/2008 11:26:20 PM)
One of my mothers friends is married to a French man. He has only been speaking English about 3 years. I'm quite certain that if he typed something out here on CollarMe his syntax would be wrong. Nevertheless he is intelligent, witty and funny! Syntax isn't everything -- if the meaning comes across, does it matter?

SimplyMichael -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 1:32:41 AM)
I can't fuck stupid women, no matter how hot, not matter how nasty they are, if their brains are mush, so is my cock. Now a woman with brains, oh that is another story! A woman who can match wits with me is a HUGE turn on and can overcome a lot of physical "unattractiveness". Just like if someone is mean or inconsiderate of other people, HUGE turn off, however, seeing someone stop to pick up a piece of trash can turn someone from a hot fuck into someone with whom you could spend eternity. Yeah, I will take brains over beauty any day, but find both of those in ONE woman, and OH YEAH!

HardToTame -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 1:39:52 AM)
im too shallow to say no to a shiny peice of pie.

drivenintosin -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 11:04:04 AM)
intelligence != knowledge. intelligence + knowledge = smarts. smarts + experience = wisdom. intelligence is measured on permutations of observations. One must have some knowledge (i.e. learned facts) to make use of intelligence and the opposite is also true. one metaphor to explain observed intelligence between two people is the viewing of tv commercials on tvs. You can quantify the difference of tvs from the greater one down to the lesser, but not the other way around. this should answer many of the questions on this thread. for the original post, ego is a major factor when discussing kink. Without it, there would be no distinction of dom & sub. There would only be hollow tasks. Ego creates emotional currency which is referenced in terms like TPE (total power exchange). Subs get off on losing this energy; a sexual suicide if you will, that frees all needed attempts of conflict which arise from defending opinions. Doms enjoy the fight and their conquests reward them a well being derived from an environment under their control. for the original question, is it really a high level of intelligence you see with the majority of subs? Or is it just attention to detail or some other quality that may be masking as intelligence? PS- good grammar and syntax reside on a diminished returns scale - vapid taskmasters need only apply to the top ranks

ElanSubdued -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 1:59:00 PM)
dcnovice, quote: I take it I'm the only one on the thread who's ever eyed someone longingly and thought, "Nothing upstairs, but what a staircase!" This is easy to answer. Of course, "yes". But, this is like snacking on junk food. It satisfies the immediate hunger. The aftertaste (though) is a bummer and it leaves one wanting something much more fulfilling. These days, like snack foods that aren't good for my body, I just avoid. Actually, I never was much a promiscuous whore. I'm a more slutty, kinky, loyal, committed, non-promiscuous pervert now than I ever was freely whorish when I was younger. Elan.

ElanSubdued -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 2:01:33 PM)
SimplyMichael, quote: I can't fuck stupid women, no matter how hot, not matter how nasty they are, if their brains are mush, so is my cock. Hmmm. Please see my previous reference to "snack foods" when replying to dcnovice. quote: Now a woman with brains, oh that is another story! A woman who can match wits with me is a HUGE turn on and can overcome a lot of physical "unattractiveness". Just like if someone is mean or inconsiderate of other people, HUGE turn off, however, seeing someone stop to pick up a piece of trash can turn someone from a hot fuck into someone with whom you could spend eternity. The language you've used is different than I might have, but essentially I'm in agreement with you. Oh gee. I'd better fess up. ShaktiSama, LadyHibiscus, Venatrix, MySweetSubmssive, LadyPact, and others have all called me sassmonkey (or similar terms in an endearing way) for my submissive yet proactive, communicative, direct approach. It's entirely possible I may have written exactly as you did. :-) Elan.

ElanSubdued -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 2:06:57 PM)
Aidan, quote: So, I'm a talker. If I like somebody, I want to be able to converse with them a lot. So if I meet a woman who's very physically attractive, and when she opens her mouth and sounds like Master Shake from Aqua Teen Hunger Force, I am suddenly less inclined to want to do anything sexual with her and more inclined to want to vacate the area before I drive my thumbs into her eyes. Or even better, have her leave. (snip) So yes, I find intelligent women attractive. Give me a "plain" or "ugly" genius over a pretty face with the intellect of a casaba melon any day. Ditto. :-) Elan.

DaddyLongStroke -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 2:11:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KMsAngel quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch I know that you are not sitting there with a straight face right now.. You seriously need a snack dude... see, I let the other stuff slide [:)].. not saying a word.. that's alright bsb, i hurt my elbow when i fell on the floor laughing. i did it for both of us darlin! in my experience, people of superior intelligence don't go around bragging about it, either. people come to know fairly quickly who is and who just says they are. Now Angel.....I am definitely not a chest thumper. But I did say what I said because BSB lets it be known all the time how smart she thinks I am. And if she tells you otherwise, just ask the younger members of her extended family. I have witnessed her tooting my horn. LOL

SunNMoon -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 2:20:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive FR Intelligence, and an open heart, is my aphrodisiac. Mss I couldn't agree more.

ElanSubdued -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 2:27:54 PM)
MySweetSubmssive and HagiaSophia, quote: HagiaSophia: FetLife has a great fetish - sapiosensuality. That's mine. Intelligence is hot. MySweetSubmssive: Oh, oh, OH, OHHHHHHHH! vocabularygasm (snip to next post) Intelligence, and an open heart, is my aphrodisiac. Oh! I missed this. Absolutely! Elan.

MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 2:32:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SunNMoon quote: ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive FR Intelligence, and an open heart, is my aphrodisiac. Mss I couldn't agree more. If I could get this as a bumper sticker, I'd put it on my car in a heartbeat. Mss

LaTigresse -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 2:55:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HardToTame how do you define intelligence though? I mean really? Some people are smart in some areas and dumb in another. Everyone is a superstar in their own field. You might not be the best at English grammar, but you might be able to build a house. You might not be able to build a house but might be a master chef. I think in all areas, we're going to judge people as un intelligent if their intelligence doesn't resonate in our own. I think even illiterate people have something constructive to offer. How do we define stupid? Is it lack of common sense? How? For ME, intelligence and stupidity are measured by IQ, not knowledge. Also, common sense. IQ and common sense means a person can learn. They simply may have not attended college, or had the opportunity to learn. I would rather be with someone that has little formal education but is intelligent than an over educated idiot. The latter I see all the time.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 9:15:01 PM)
In most cases intelligence is a matter of opinion, as is attractiveness. [;)] ____________ "Don't assume I'm stupid just because you lack the intelligence to understand Me."

drivenintosin -> RE: Do find intelligent women attractive ? (7/19/2008 9:37:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AcademyForSlaves In most cases intelligence is a matter of opinion, the rabid misuse of the term surely isn't

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