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Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 8:55:51 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Are there any Dominant men here that are attracted to, or have
had serious relationships with Dominant women?

I have noticed a few Dominant women here that state that they are
seeking a Dominant man.
I rarely notice profiles of Dominant males that state they are seeking
Dominant women.
 
Would any of you Masters consider a serious long-term, monogamous relationship with
a Dominant woman?
Inquiring minds want to know!

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 8:57:48 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Feel free to send them my way! Just a regular dominant guy, not some dude who wants to grovel in private, or thinks that I haven't met the right dom yet.

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 8:58:48 PM   
MzMia


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Feel free to send them my way! Just a regular dominant guy, not some dude who wants to grovel in private, or thinks that I haven't met the right dom yet.


I will do that, after I "screen" them, first.
lol

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 9:00:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Would any of you Masters consider a serious long-term, monogamous relationship with
a Dominant woman?

Yes.  (Though I do not identify as a Master.)


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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 9:00:33 PM   
Thadius


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Status: offline 		I can see how a woman that is described as dominant would be a perfect fit for a more dominant man.  They could actually bring out parts of each other that would otherwise go untapped.  I personally prefer strong intelligent women, and that is exactly what my slave is.  When we met she was still doing sessions as a fem-dom.  To each their own though.

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 9:03:19 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I think what MzMia (and me) are driving at is a DOMINANT WOMAN, not someone taking on a role, or interested in becoming a slave, and a dominant male partner.

I have to wonder, MzMia, wouldn't that mean that they would have to be poly to some degree, if they had submissives?

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 9:05:13 PM   
CruelDesires


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Status: offline 		I have explored relationships with Dominant women.  As a matter of fact, one of the first persons I met online was someone who did pro work and who introduced me to this wonderful world. I am attracted to intelligence as well as femininty.

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 9:06:37 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		I always wonder about that Francine.
I have seen Dominant couples that seek female submissives, so
that makes them poly.
I don't see that many Dominant couples that don't seek a 3rd, or are
not switches.

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 9:09:05 PM   
Thadius


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I think what MzMia (and me) are driving at is a DOMINANT WOMAN, not someone taking on a role, or interested in becoming a slave, and a dominant male partner.

I have to wonder, MzMia, wouldn't that mean that they would have to be poly to some degree, if they had submissives?


I just went with the literal meaning of her question, assuming that the woman was more dominant than others...  My answer would still stand, that I believe a good relationship would be possible and probably very beneficial to both, once they were able to figure out the "alpha" alpha for the various aspects of their lives together.  It may even to lead to some very interesting compromises between the 2.

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 9:11:57 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Would any of you Masters consider a serious long-term, monogamous relationship with
a Dominant woman?
Inquiring minds want to know!


I would consider a long-term relationship with a Dominant man, but not a monogamous one. Part of my fulfillment in life and spiritual makeup is having slaves and I cannot put that aside.

Master Fire

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/20/2008 9:19:23 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Hello MFM, I wonder how many Dominant couples stay together,
wihen neither partner is a switch, and without an additional  submissive
or slave?

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 2:49:05 AM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Would any of you Masters consider a serious long-term, monogamous relationship with
a Dominant woman?
Inquiring minds want to know!

A resounding No! 
 
Assuming this monogamous "Dominant woman" doesn't switch (and I certainly don't), what's left - a nilla relationship perhaps?  Waaaaay too exasperating for mine, which might explain why I tend not to be attracted to such women in the first place....
 
Focus.  

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 6:47:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		My previous partner was a dominant and while we had rough sex there wasn't much submission in our relationship, it was sort of just Klingon sex without any real power exchange.    I am currently flirting with a woman who is also a domme and she definitely wants to submit to me. BSB is certainly my equal although in our relationship she was submissive to me but we certainly didn't adhere strictly to any sort of role.  I remember fucking her one night while she had these glorious boots on and she started pressing the sharp heels against my nipples and that was clearly turning her on which was turning me on and since I like turning her on, I smiled and slipped one of those heels into my mouth and started sucking on it and thrusting harder and deeper and uhm yeah, that seemed to do the trick.

I don't care what label a woman wears, (although I do care if she wears boots!),  what I care about is how she makes me feel when I am with her.  So yeah, I like dominant women but I like strong women anyway, whether they are the slaviest slave or the most headstrong dominant.

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 7:52:31 AM   
Asmodeus


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Status: offline 		I've been in a committed, sexually monogamous relationship with my fiance' for about 7 years.  We are both dominants and I can't imagine a better relationship, in the physical, mental and spiritual sense.

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 8:02:44 AM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		It is nice to hear all the stories from Dominant men that have had
good and intimate relationships with Dominant women.
I am sure for many, it is a great and viable option!

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What's your favorite fetish?
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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 8:14:01 AM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		D/s is not the primary selection criteria for me for a mate.  I would absolutely not reject an otherwise good partner because she happened to be dominant.  Depending on the exact dynamic, it'd go vanilla or (less likely but still posible) I'd end up sub.  In fact, I have serious doubts whether I would actually want to be the dominant in another relationship.  This one kind of happened organically and we're enjoying it a great deal but that doesn't mean I'd necessarily seek to repeat it.

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 8:41:25 AM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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ORIGINAL: MzMia
Are there any Dominant men here that are attracted to, or have
had serious relationships with Dominant women?


I have just ended a 4 year relationship with a dominant woman.  Neither of us switched, and we had a wonderful, supportive, and caring relationship.  You can find our old couples profile here. (I suppose I should get rid of that.)

I am very much interested in finding, and somewhat actively looking for, a similar relationship.

Taggard


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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 8:54:59 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Sigh.  I was gonna hit on you, T, but no way can I compete with her! 

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 8:57:36 AM   
MzMia


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ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia
Are there any Dominant men here that are attracted to, or have
had serious relationships with Dominant women?


I have just ended a 4 year relationship with a dominant woman.  Neither of us switched, and we had a wonderful, supportive, and caring relationship.  You can find our old couples profile here. (I suppose I should get rid of that.)

I am very much interested in finding, and somewhat actively looking for, a similar relationship.

Taggard



Taggard, I always enjoyed looking at your couples pictures.
It is nice to hear you had a wonderful, supportive and caring relationship.
Two Dominant people........imagine the possibilities.


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What's your favorite fetish?
"My partner's whisper"--bloomswell

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RE: Dominant men that desire Dominant women? - 7/21/2008 9:04:09 AM   
TallDarkAndWitty


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ORIGINAL: MzMia
Two Dominant people........imagine the possibilities.


It really was quite wonderful...

In the end it broke down...well...for lots of reasons, but when it was good, it was amazing.

Taggard


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