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bottomboy81 -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 7:29:20 AM)

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In who's world is that socially acceptable?  Not in mine


Don't know what world you live in but I see it everywhere.




bottomboy81 -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 7:31:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissEnchanted

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nymphotropism
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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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And your rational is what?


That its a social acceptance for women to use the words "dickhead" or "pigs". But its not socially acceptable to use the words "cunt' or "slut" which is close to the equivalence of "dickhead and "pig". Name calling period is not socially acceptable towards women but it is for men.


Bottom boy,

This thread asked for a dommes view and I know you're not a domme.
Your generalities are incorrect assumptions and I hope you'll get off the "Ask a Mistress' threads. Almost every post you make is filled with the intention to slam women.

They have therapists that might be able to help you with that problem.

ME



LOL well being politically incorrect doesn't mean you need therapy, it just means I don't follow the majoity like sheep.




MissEnchanted -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 7:37:29 AM)

Well there are plenty of places to go where men who are misogynistic wolves can go. Please feel free to go over there.

These Ask a Mistress threads are intended for people who really want to learn and grow in a positive way as a sub or a Domme. We come here to make friends, get new ideas, help others or get our questions answered.
Since you are doing none of the above I am politely asking you to go where your opinions and generalities are welcome.

You are not just being 'politically incorrect' and you know it.







bottomboy81 -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 7:42:31 AM)

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Well there are plenty of places to go where men who are misogynistic wolves can go. Please feel free to go over there.


haha misogynistic wolve? Can you honestly say that about me when comparing my opinions to a lot of opinions from the dommes in the "ask a mistress" forum?

To me, this seems like a gathering for female chauvinist who are too weak to handle pro male opinions.




slvemike4u -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 7:47:21 AM)

MissEnchanted that would need to be one hell of a therapist!....For myself I read the ask a Mistress thread for the exact reasons you cited,and I can truthfully say as I read the responses from Dommes on this thread...I become more and more impressed with the majority of the Woman who post here...from a sane submissive I thank each and everyone of You....and as to the op ,your story certainly qualify's as wank material above and beyond that it has zip to do with any submission I would care to be a part of...just my opinion




Madame4a -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 7:50:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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In who's world is that socially acceptable?  Not in mine


Don't know what world you live in but I see it everywhere.



ahhh... luckily, I don't live in yours...




LaTigresse -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 8:05:45 AM)

I was thinking the exact same thing.




Bella1965 -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 8:10:43 AM)

G'morning all:


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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81
To me, this seems like a gathering for female chauvinist who are too weak to handle pro male opinions.

If you find it truly abhorrent, then why do you visit it on a consistent basis? You must be a glutton for punishment. Personally, I find your passive-aggressive behavior amusing as you're too ignorant to be taken seriously.

To the Ladies? Employ that Hide feature and he will cease to have any power over your reading preferences. Some HNG's can't be reasoned with and you only demean yourselves by attempting to correct whatever piss poor upbringing shaped them into the master baiters/masturbaters they've grown into.


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...


[:D]


Bella




thishereboi -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 8:13:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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And your rational is what?


That its a social acceptance for women to use the words "dickhead" or "pigs". But its not socially acceptable to use the words "cunt' or "slut" which is close to the equivalence of "dickhead and "pig". Name calling period is not socially acceptable towards women but it is for men.


I am not sure where your from but it's not acceptable where I hang out.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 8:16:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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And your rational is what?


That its a social acceptance for women to use the words "dickhead" or "pigs". But its not socially acceptable to use the words "cunt' or "slut" which is close to the equivalence of "dickhead and "pig". Name calling period is not socially acceptable towards women but it is for men.


I am not sure where your from but it's not acceptable where I hang out.


Because he hangs out in Another World, not ours!  [:)]




MissEnchanted -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 8:37:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Bella1965

G'morning all:


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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81
To me, this seems like a gathering for female chauvinist who are too weak to handle pro male opinions.

If you find it truly abhorrent, then why do you visit it on a consistent basis? You must be a glutton for punishment. Personally, I find your passive-aggressive behavior amusing as you're too ignorant to be taken seriously.

To the Ladies? Employ that Hide feature and he will cease to have any power over your reading preferences. Some HNG's can't be reasoned with and you only demean yourselves by attempting to correct whatever piss poor upbringing shaped them into the master baiters/masturbaters they've grown into.


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...


[:D]


Bella

Bella,

I asked him to leave. I don't have any misconceptions that I can 'fix him'. Blocking him removes his posts, however his posts are showing up all over the Ask a Mistress threads, so he is disruptive to many threads.



ME




MissEnchanted -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 8:41:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

MissEnchanted that would need to be one hell of a therapist!....For myself I read the ask a Mistress thread for the exact reasons you cited,and I can truthfully say as I read the responses from Dommes on this thread...I become more and more impressed with the majority of the Woman who post here...from a sane submissive I thank each and everyone of You....and as to the op ,your story certainly qualify's as wank material above and beyond that it has zip to do with any submission I would care to be a part of...just my opinion

Thanks for the kind words mike and have fun out there!
To the OP: There are sites that you can post that story on where it will be appreciated. I am on my first cup of coffee, so I don't remember the site name at the moment.
It is probably good wanking material for 'subs', however most Dommes will be turned off by it I think.

ME




boyforforcedbi -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 8:46:33 AM)

I am glad my story ended up sparking quite the discussion on numerous different topics. Fun to watch, absorb and learn from.




Lynnxz -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 8:51:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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In who's world is that socially acceptable?  Not in mine


Don't know what world you live in but I see it everywhere.


You can't count cheesy femdom porns... which I think is where you are getting all of your views from.




MissEnchanted -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 9:00:24 AM)

I looked at his profile. He is here to be a 'shit-stirrer'. Those are the words he uses.
I blocked, hid, noted and reported him.

ME




Leatherist -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 9:07:19 AM)

Clue here guy.
 
The women get sent tons of fantasies that male bottoms want to use them for, continually.
 
From hundreds and hundreds of self-serving, horny little geeks.
 
It would piss me off too, were I they. (Being a personage of worth, not a free facillitator for wank off material)
 
 Consider politely asking how they prefer to live life. Show an interst in a WOMAN, not just the little thing between your legs. It's amazing how much things can open up if you show a tiny bit of respect-and the willingness to listen, rather than just spout off because you have a stiffy and a keyboard.




MissEnchanted -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 9:15:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Clue here guy.
 
The women get sent tons of fantasies that male bottoms want to use them for, continually.
 
From hundreds and hundreds of self-serving, horny little geeks.
 
It would piss me off too, were I they. (Being a personage of worth, not a free facillitator for wank off material)
 
 Consider politely asking how they prefer to live life. Show an interst in a WOMAN, not just the little thing between your legs. It's amazing how much things can open up if you show a tiny bit of respect-and the willingness to listen, rather than just spout off because you have a stiffy and a keyboard.

*blowing a kiss your way*




Lockit -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 10:03:55 AM)

There are some who just like to stir up trouble and will get on any thread they can and bash women.  I think he is rather talented.  Knowing what all women think and how they speak.  I have never in my life called anyone, man or woman a dickhead or a pig... but what do I know... I am just one of those women! lol




ElanSubdued -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 10:09:44 AM)

bottomboy81,

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Name calling period is not socially acceptable towards women...


Oh contraire.  There are women who I call nasty names because I *like* them.  This is, of course, limited to women where this type of repartee works mutually between us.

By the way, I looked at your profile.  Nobody here will take you seriously with the attitude and negativity you're displaying.  There are some really nice dominants and submissives in this forum.  Take some time to get to know them before you pass wide judgments.  As for other people's kinks that are not to your taste, it's better not to comment on them.  If you're truly looking to meet someone, in my opinion, you make a far better impression stating who you are and what you're looking for in a positive, respectful way.  Leave out the pessimism and negativity.  Negativity wears poorly on everyone.

Elan.




LadyLou -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 10:26:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats

As in real life "forced" bi scenes, the Domme seems mostly superfluous: randomly injected, in an attempt to make it "not queer."




I agree, lol. I have come across a few mails in my inbox, (and male ‘subs’), that have fantasies similar to the op story. The women were completely redundant, and seemingly used as a conduit to justify the males homo/bi sexual urges. She was there as nothing more than a heterosexual representation of his homosexual ’inner voice’, and to absolve him of all responsibility for the urges he feels.

As for my thoughts on the OP; I am really not sure what most women are suppose to get out of being some kind of enabling vessel to deep seated homosexual urges in a man *they* supposedly desire, and want for themselves. I know there are a few women into it, but they are pretty sparse compared to those men who are into ‘forced’ bi.

Honestly, I don’t wish to sound mean, but I couldn’t read it all, definitely not my cup of tea. The bits I did read, sounded like common garden variety repressed homosexuality, and female objectification. You don’t need a female to make your sexual preferences ‘ok’. [:)]







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