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bottomboy81 -> RE: Wonder what a Domme thinks of this story (7/24/2008 7:38:52 PM)
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MissEnchanted that would need to be one hell of a therapist!....For myself I read the ask a Mistress thread for the exact reasons you cited,and I can truthfully say as I read the responses from Dommes on this thread...I become more and more impressed with the majority of the Woman who post here...from a sane submissive I thank each and everyone of You
Well good for you buddy, I am glad that I have differences that are able to see through the bull shit towards a lot of dommes on here. I am not labelling all.
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ahhh... luckily, I don't live in yours
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I was thinking the exact same thing.
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I am not sure where your from but it's not acceptable where I hang out.
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You can't count cheesy femdom porns... which I think is where you are getting all of your views from
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Because he hangs out in Another World, not ours!
Bingo! to the last one.
If you’re a lifestyler, hang around domme friends, or basically a politically correct woman or male (particularly sub), of course denial will only be a river in Egypt in your world.
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If you find it truly abhorrent, then why do you visit it on a consistent basis? You must be a glutton for punishment. Personally, I find your passive-aggressive behavior amusing as you're too ignorant to be taken seriously
I am here for someone like most or all of us. But not most women in this forum or not a hardcore lifestyler.
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To the Ladies? Employ that Hide feature and he will cease to have any power over your reading preferences. Some HNG's can't be reasoned with and you only demean yourselves by attempting to correct whatever piss poor upbringing shaped them into the master baiters/masturbaters they've grown into
I know its hard to handle the truth : P
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however his posts are showing up all over the Ask a Mistress threads
Holy moly, all over? I am too lazy to look at my history at the moment but I think I have only been in a few threads in the past few weeks. How many threads are there?
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From hundreds and hundreds of self-serving, horny little geeks
So what are you trying to say? If you’re a bottom and not a lifesyler, it means you are self serving?
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Oh contraire. There are women who I call nasty names because I *like* them. This is, of course, limited to women where this type of repartee works mutually between us.
That’s in the BDSM world which is mostly behind doors. I am talking about the real world. Work, vanilla social gatherings.
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By the way, I looked at your profile. Nobody here will take you seriously with the attitude and negativity you're displaying.
From a serious lifestyler POV, that would be the case. But most people who are switch or just basically bottoms or tops may see it in a different light. I am here and I put my self out there but I am not trying hard at the same time. I pretty much get straight to the point before having any involvement what so ever with a person. You have to admit that many dommes on this site try to put it over subs just because they are dommes. Meaning, they expect every sub to speak to them in a submissive manner which is a similar or same manner as of such in a commitment when there is no commitment or attachment what so ever.
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There are some really nice dominants and submissives in this forum.
Not going to disagree with that.
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If you're truly looking to meet someone, in my opinion, you make a far better impression stating who you are and what you're looking for in a positive, respectful way. Leave out the pessimism and negativity. Negativity wears poorly on everyone.
Then there is the hidden question, what created the negative outlook the first place? Maybe it took negativity from women to create negativity in this case.
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Well you seem to be offended by the male equivalent in the examples you gave, just reverse the roles, and you should gain some insight.
I am pointing out that women are negative towards “cunt” “slut” the first place but don’t seem to have the same insight towards “dickhead” “pig”. If women didn’t get offended by the words “cunt” “slut” I wouldn’t have a need to make a complaint about their shameless hypocritical two faced bigoted behaviour.
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I don’t think she called anyone that.
No she didn’t but I don’t particularly mean her. That aside, when you are judging every minute, hour, and day of her life, it may be a different story. You have to be blind if you can’t see the shameless hypocrisy amongst a lot of women out there when it comes to this situation. Not just some or a few.
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Do you have evidence that this assumption is purely attributed to one gender? If so, I would genuinely quite like to see it. I get your post was supposed to be domme bait, but seriously… dude, you gotta come up with something better than that load of old tripe, lol.
I was being half sarcastic but I do believe a lot of women have a double standard system going on. They may not see it this way. I may see it as a self serving bias.
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Actually, I never said anything about substituting "cunt" and "slut" for "dickhead" and "pig." I don't find any of those terms socially acceptable. Or sexy.
Good for you
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But I think the fact that we were just all shown a story using a liberal dash of negative words meant to describe women and their sexual parts proves that there's something of a problem in the scene in regard to casually equating females with inferiority.
Maybe that is true, I am not convinced either way. But the way a lot of women have spoken about the penis, even to me and not in a group conversation. Like comments such as “those pathetic things”… “pathetic things” or penises? You have to be in total denial if you have not heard this figure of speech in your whole life.
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You don't hear men calling women "dickhead" in order to make them feel diminished.
That’s because the word “dickhead” only discriminates men. What do you think it means?
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The difference is that calling men names meant for men is rude and crass: calling men names meant for women comes from a destructive and sexist ideology.
Bigotry is rude and crass and a sexist ideology when you think about it. Such as having a different view on naming calling towards men compared to name calling towards women. Why is it ONLY rude and crass and NOT a destructive sexist ideology when name calling is pointed towards men?
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