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corner training - 7/23/2008 1:03:56 PM

needingmoreluvin

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what is corner training

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 1:05:13 PM

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Sit in the corner until you figure it out.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 1:14:10 PM

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Think "Time Out" having to stand in a corner and stare at a wall is boring, uncomfortable, humiliating and gives the person being punished a great chance to reflect on there infraction. personally I prefer making my slave hold a ping-pong ball against the wall with her nose. Keeps her attention more focused.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 2:28:30 PM

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ooohhhhhhh - you are EVIL - evil i tell you!!!!!!

as if standing in the corner is not bad enough!

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 2:47:29 PM

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If I REALLY want to drive a point home, I make her keep her feet back from the wall so she has to lean forward and then hold her hands above her head, but without touching the wall. gets uncomfortable pretty quick.

My first sub was a self professed pain slut. so corporal punishment wouldn't be very effective. After going on about how much pain she could take, I told her that would be my preferred punishment and she never stepped out of line.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 3:15:19 PM

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ty to all that have replied

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 3:19:54 PM

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going to the corner store naked.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 3:55:37 PM

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Waste of time

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 3:57:12 PM

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Waste of time

maybe but...if a woman went to the corner store naked i bet the clerk would give her free booze and cigs.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 4:49:16 PM

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Waste of time

words right out of my mouth

Is it Chia that has "Stick me in the corner and I will just colour the walls!" as a tag line ?

fits me like a glove

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 5:42:22 PM

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Waste of time

Depends.

For many, yes, it is. I wouldn't call it "corner training" in my case, but there have been times he has had me hang out in a corner just to regroup. Typically I will have to kneel with my face to the floor, facing the corner, for a set period of time, although it is a rare occurrence. The idea behind it is to remove me from all distractions - TV, Radio, what I need to do around the house, oh look at that picture on the shelf and I wonder how that person is doing...etc. - and meditate on him, on me, on us...you get the idea. No phone, no computer, no outside influences. Just the floor at my face. With an ADD brain like my own, this is a way for me not to get distracted by outside forces and to simply be still, quiet, breathe and think.

There was a time, however, he was working and he put me in a corner, kneeling with my arms tied behind my back, until he was done. It was really relaxing for me to feel "put away" until he was ready to use me again. Well, except for me giggling and asking if he can come scratch my nose....

It works for some and not for others. Doing it with a purpose in mind makes it not a waste of time. Doing it with no agenda is...well...odd.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 6:07:36 PM

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Waste of time

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 6:21:02 PM

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Owned I agree- being put in the corner and being taught to self reflect is great, whether it's in a corner or in a hot tub.

But the concept of "corner training" blech.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 6:23:13 PM

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Owned I agree- being put in the corner and being taught to self reflect is great, whether it's in a corner or in a hot tub.

Well hell...if there's a choice, I'll take the hot tub, please!!!

(but then I'll just get distracted by the swooshing water...heh)

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But the concept of "corner training" blech.

Since I don't really know what "corner training" is, I'll give you that.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 8:00:35 PM

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It sounds like what one would do with puppies to be honest although I admit I do like Diphon's ideas.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 8:13:47 PM

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Waste of time

Agreed.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 10:10:06 PM

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Waste of time

LA, it isn't often I disagree with you but I have to disagree strongly. I think there are some very well balanced submissives who not only deserve some corner time but that having the strength to send them into the corner, to dispense with them, can be a highly effective form of enhancing the power exchange. The "it will be my way or else" thrust behind it, if done well and respectfully, can be a useful tool but like all tools, one must know when and how to employ it.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 11:25:28 PM

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For all who agreed with the "waste of time" sentiment, how many have said something along the lines of "telling a submissive they've failed you, or giving them a look of disappointment is the most effective punishment a dominant can give" ?

Corner time would kill My Pet from the inside out.

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RE: corner training - 7/23/2008 11:35:41 PM

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Diphon, that's BRILLIANT. If I ever need to use a punishment again ('if' because I'm dating a 'nilla right now, she rocks and I'm thinking long term...) but if I ever do then that's what I'll do.

Plus, I now like corner training even though it's never crossed my mind before simply because LuckyAlbatross doesn't like it.

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RE: corner training - 7/24/2008 12:15:29 AM

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Waste of time

maybe but...if a woman went to the corner store naked i bet the clerk would give her free booze and cigs.

Wah00! Then I will def be makin' a trip TONIGHT!

Actually.. *shakes belly jiggle* Nevermind...

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