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RE: Are you looking for a relationship, or just a sub? - 7/30/2008 8:57:41 AM

Dnomyar

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Most of this post is to wordy for me. Is there a condensed version of it somewhere.

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RE: Good Profile and how I found my soul mate - 7/30/2008 2:39:58 PM

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pixel is open, loving, generous, kind, tactful, intelligent and much, much more and to hear him being presented as less, is difficult to witness and refrain from commenting on.

Thank you Ma'am, I'm deeply honored by the sentiments you've expressed.

Now, can we all go have some fresh strawberries with whipped cream or popcorn with hot butter and make nice?

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RE: Good Profile and how I found my soul mate - 7/31/2008 4:48:11 AM

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pixel popcorn and hot butter. Bring it on.

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RE: Are you looking for a relationship, or just a sub? - 8/1/2008 2:04:30 AM

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While I love being able to dominate men on a regular basis, having to be in charge of my husband's every move would exhaust me. I am in a relationship with a person who allows me to play freely, as long as I'm careful about body fluid exchanges. Different people want different things in relationships, but I wouldn't want to be with someone I had to reign over all the time. I know many people who are into that, and some who've found it on this site.

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RE: Are you looking for a relationship, or just a sub? - 8/1/2008 4:11:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: rc4otkVA

While I love being able to dominate men on a regular basis, having to be in charge of my husband's every move would exhaust me. I am in a relationship with a person who allows me to play freely, as long as I'm careful about body fluid exchanges. Different people want different things in relationships, but I wouldn't want to be with someone I had to reign over all the time. I know many people who are into that, and some who've found it on this site.

Micromanaging a sub would have to be a lot of work and as a submissive, I'd certainly not want to be micromanaged as I feel I have far more to offer a domme than that in the way of carrying out any assignments she'd want done. I personally don't get what a woman would get from that kind of relationship. I'd think she'd want a submissive to make her life easier and not to make it more work!

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RE: Are you looking for a relationship, or just a sub? - 8/1/2008 8:42:43 PM

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pinnipedster,

Never give up is my first thought, since you asked, although I may have a few ideas to share with of of what has worked for me. Surprise, surprise...

I look in a relaxed kind of way for play partners, and relationships of every kind.

I like to have a few eggs out there, and not in one little ol' basket.
I have bdsm friends, sometimes we play, sometimes we don't, but we always have fun being connected. I have been in love spiritually, mentally and physically, in lust or in full Domme kinky-land and I am happiest when all that happens with the same person.
However, I don't expect it to, and enjoy who and what is here and now. That has been the key to my happiness over the last several years.

We can have it all one day and not have it the very next.

I appreciate people for what they have to exchange in terms of energy, experience, knowledge, and I don't like to have my time wasted, so I do what I want. There is a lot of freedom in that, and growth.

Just get out there and have some fun, and I think I'll take my own damn advice...and go have some fun. Good luck and happy trails.

ps: After looking back over this thread a little, I perved p's profile.
What a wonderful profile! Very open, honest, concise. Way to go p!

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RE: Are you looking for a relationship, or just a sub? - 8/2/2008 6:37:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Most of this post is to wordy for me. Is there a condensed version of it somewhere.

When you find it... send me the link.

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