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antipode -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/10/2008 9:40:50 AM)
Perception. Or sometimes Purrception.

Nitefalls1000 -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/10/2008 11:15:46 AM)
you got me Nite

AnnaOfAramis -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/11/2008 4:17:34 PM)
Greetings, There will always be many answers on this one and a lot of arguing, lol! So all I will attempt to do is to list what I look for in any one I would consider as dominant to me: honor integrity purposefulness leadership personal strength of character morality honesty responsibility There are probably some I've missed, but those are a few of the biggies for me. Well wishes, anna

MasterAramis -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/12/2008 8:29:55 PM)
quote: true Dom I know I am a little late to this party, but having been in the lifestyle for about 20 years ( not that it makes much difference, it's not about your time in, but what you have accomplished ) and this question has come up a lot. First, there is no such thing as True Dominance because what is True for you may not be True for me. It is all in the eyes of the beholder. Speaking of beholder, if you have truly enslaved your captive, then in my opinion you have reached Mastery Nirvana. In closing remember that it's not always about the end result, but it can be about the journey.

mastervalentine -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/12/2008 8:31:34 PM)
... points at signature, smiles and bids all posters a good day.

CruelDesires -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/13/2008 8:02:10 AM)
Nononono. True Doms got the razzle dazzle.The heebie jeebies.The sultry smiles and raised eyebrow look. The biggest whips and the boots with chrome tips. The really tight shirts and the pouting lips that flirt. The pointing fingers of doom and laquered hair of gloom. Mascara on the eyes and really muscular thighs. Big fat diamond rings and other flashy blings. Rolls of one's wrapped in ten's and vanilla wives who are annoying hen's. Should I keep going on? Okay. That was bad, back to your regularly schedule program..[&o] C-D

MasterAramis -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/14/2008 5:45:56 PM)
quote: Ignore the silly poseurs and wankers who have so far responded, they know nothing of what makes a dominant really and truly a dominant and not just another person getting their rocks off playing at BDSM. A true and noble dominant is one who has a penis smaller than his pinky, a pick up truck you need a ladder to get into, and has two HUGE trunks full of toys he takes to parties. He doesn't' wait to get his way, he yells and screams and demands what is his proper due. Fake dominants imagine that the mere lowering of their voice can enforce their will, that an arched eyebrow could freeze a woman in her tracks, that a single word, uttered slowly and with menace could make a woman's blood run cold and nether regions rage with fire....nah, them fuckers are just dreamers, look for the big truck and 20 gallon hat! SimplyMichael, I missed your post the first go round. This is way too funny. This is right up there with the "Must be a redneck joke!. This should go in the humor section. Thanks for making me laugh. I needed it. Aramis

mstrfckmyasshrd -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/14/2008 6:35:52 PM)
i think a "true dom" is different for everyone..."true" to me is different than to someone else...it is the person who i give my soul to, who cherishes that gift and who i know would never shit on it.... for me, i had one who i considered at one time in my life my "true dom", he is the one that when i heard is voice my soul ached to be with him, when i felt his touch my body melted that i was with him and he was my everything...notice there is a was...i wont settle for someone that lies no matter how much i think they are the true one for me...that is "true" for me...

clearshooter -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/15/2008 9:14:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelslave77 a "true Dom" is the one that has the "weal sub" Seriously a Dom is true if he makes you happy and you work well together, everybodies idea of D/s is different and quite often if someone disagrees with how you live then you get branded a fake or a freak Very nicely said. Many D/s relationships don't work out because we don't know our own expectations of the other person. It's important that we know ourselves and what it is we want from our relationship with another be it vanilla or D/s.

XaviersXian -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/15/2008 4:46:36 PM)
greetings to all, The confidence to know who you are, and to not apologise for it. Knowing that you will be judged by your actions, not what comes out of your mouth. The ability to watch, listen and learn, regardless of how much you think you already know. There is always something else to learn, and another perspective to ponder. I think this applies to everyone, regardless of their chosen path. well wishes,

bdsmmasternfl -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/15/2008 5:44:58 PM)
true dom is a 1b of turkey beef , soy, and sasquatch

Jeffff -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/15/2008 6:58:19 PM)
A certificate of authenticity The Board of Registrars

ResidentSadist -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/15/2008 10:39:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 I'm a fake dom. (There ya go, SS, you can check that one off the list.[;)]) I knew I liked you for a reason.

Leatherist -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/15/2008 10:43:01 PM)
Who the hell cares anyhow? If the bitch with the red ass who is ramming her asshole down on my cock thinks I'm the hottest thing going-isn't it kinda moot at that point? [:D]

hopelessfool -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/15/2008 10:44:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist Who the hell cares anyhow? If the bitch with the red ass who is ramming her asshole down on my cock thinks I'm the hottest thing going-isn't it kinda moot at that point? [:D] Can I volunteer?

ResidentSadist -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/16/2008 2:23:07 AM)
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LaTigresse -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/16/2008 4:04:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist Who the hell cares anyhow? If the bitch with the red ass who is ramming her asshole down on my cock thinks I'm the hottest thing going-isn't it kinda moot at that point? [:D] But.........that would put her on top and you on the bottom!?!?!? FAKERRRRRR! I'm telling!

Nitefalls1000 -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/16/2008 4:51:08 AM)
The same qualities that make a "Real man" make a "True Dom". Love, Honor, Integrity, Respect, Compassion.

aislinn -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/19/2008 4:05:06 AM)
Personally i would take the "fake" Dominant over the "true" if One has to "try" at being a Dominant that He isn't a "true" Dominant. Truly a "true" Dominant is secure in His own self being and knows what He wants and how to get it. i have been on this site for a while now and have heard all kinds of b/s in email. But i have also met some amzing Dominants here that are truer than true and stand out above all Others. If a Dominant demands that you capitalize the Y and always call Him Sir after every sentence then it is more than likely a power trip for Him.

subtee -> RE: what makes a "true Dom" (8/19/2008 12:23:17 PM)
~FR quote: what makes a "true Dom" god does. (duh)

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