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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 2:41:07 AM

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It shouldn't be hard to believe. Maybe it's just not something you can become aroused from...or maybe you should try it and see what happens.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 2:46:40 AM

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I will join in with a resounding YES!

Though I would have never have thought it until being introduced to it. Now I can not live without it!

Giggles and toddles off!

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 3:27:55 AM

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dang , Camille ...I don't need to read that at 6:30 in the morning when I am stuck all by my lonesome without my Dom...gets the mind going....

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 4:22:42 AM

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You didn't know some people get aroused by spanking?
I find that hard to believe.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 5:38:40 AM

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Is is true you can be aroused by a spanking?
I find it hard to believe.

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if it's barehand spankings, yep - instant arousal for me.

i'm due for another one soon after yesterday's session

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 5:45:29 AM

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uh-huh...god that's hot.

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Ohboy yes. Resounding yes, happy yes!
Imagine being over his lap, your legs are pinned by one of his legs and a hand rests upon your back. The first swat isn't much of a swat but more of a heavy caress. That moves around a bit, different areas but still fairly light.
Then it begins to build a bit, the hand comes down heavier on your asscheeks while his other hand still runs up and down you back. If you start to squirm then his leg tightens over yours making you immobile. If you even try to reach a hand back to your ass, his is already there and waiting to stop your hand.

With a shift of his legs he pushes yours apart just a bit. The heat from his hand that has been spanking you fills you, it goes deep into your belly making you warm all over. Another sharper slap on the bouncy cheeks of your ass then without warning his hand slides between your legs gently. His fingers find your wetness and you can hear his deep chuckle. Now the heat has changed, a mix of arousal and embarrassment because he knows you're wet. A finger slides over your pink wet bits, sliding lightly from your clit up the crack of your ass.

Another sharp slap and you begin to writhe on his lap, feeling needy and wanting wanting more please more. Arching your back you don't even care that he knows you feel like an animal in heat. Alternating between slapping your ass, occasionally the tender insides of your thighs and that devious finger still teasing and arousing you... but not entering you yet. Squirmy, hot inside, wet.. wet so wet that you can feel it on the inside of your legs.

**Um okay yeah I am stopping now. Its 5am and I got up to feed the cat. Now I'm going back to sleep and continuing this in my dreams. Damn it got hot in here. Needy oh boy yes yes yes uhhuh.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 6:53:21 AM

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Spanking and other forms of pain make me very aroused and even orgasm. So believe it, it does happen.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 6:56:12 AM

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There are spanking groups. There used to be a good one here in Mich till they changed it to a pay site.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 7:31:53 AM

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A big old YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS....lol...I was going to go into detail, but I see that camille pretty much covered it already!

Really it depends on the people, and the type of spankings. I am not a masochist, nor is Master much of a sadist. A punishment spanking is miserable- for both of us. I have only had one infraction so great that such was required; and that was over the course of six years. For my Master to use corporal punishment I have to really do something that disappoints Him terribly (something He considers truly harmful to myself or the relationship). It's not nearly as much the physical pain of the spanking, as it is the emotional pain of knowing I have missed the mark so badly that He has to do something He finds unpleasant; as He has no desire to have to punish me- and since I love to make Him happy, displeasing Him is the very last thing I want to do.

However, my Master is a virtual artist when it comes to a sensual spanking. I'd say it's like playing a violin. The results come from both the person doing the playing- and the instrument itself. A Dom that loves sensual spankings, takes the time to do them right, and really enjoys Himself can become a Maestro. Yet, He needs the right instrument to get the full potential out of it. A submissive or slave that does not have a certain mindset will never make the sort of music for Him that one with similar desires can produce. But, when it all comes together....*fanning myself* it's one of my most favorite things in the whole world!

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 7:47:01 AM

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This is now officially my "wanking" material thread.

Thanks guys
be back in ten.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 8:07:16 AM

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oh yes i get very aroused!
i love the afterburn!!!!
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 8:08:41 AM

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Is is true you can be aroused by a spanking?
I find it hard to believe.

For just about anything you could name, it seems there's someone who get aroused by it.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 9:16:13 AM

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Is is true you can be aroused by a spanking?
I find it hard to believe.

I keep getting the feeling your a tourist in BDSM-land.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 9:35:24 AM

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I will agree with most of the others. is is 100% posible to be aroused by a spanking. For me in particurt it has to be by hand and a play spanking. A discipline or punishment spanking just plan hurts, and not suppose to enjoy those anyway, A play spanking with a little sting does it for me every time. It is not the pain part that does it to me i is the submitting part. Submitting to him even though i know he is going to spank me is what gets me wet.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 10:43:18 AM

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I was never spanked as a child, I sometimes wonder if I would still find it arousing today if I was. If you (the OP) were punished that way as a child, I guess I could see how you wouldn't understand the pleasure of it. Now I get them for being a "good girl". :D

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 11:35:17 AM

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Is is true you can be aroused by a spanking?
I find it hard to believe.

Me personally?? HELL YES!!! I'll get excited faster if you spank me (etc) then if you rub my back and kiss my ear (nice but YAWN)

Whether or not you can get aroused the same way?? Not a friggin clue. Try it and find out.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 12:01:33 PM

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I was spanked a few times as a child, and the situation surrounding the spanking, and after the spanking were pretty abusive, and I still find spankings hot. So, again, like so many answers on here it depends on the person. Some people won't some people will.

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I was never spanked as a child, I sometimes wonder if I would still find it arousing today if I was. If you (the OP) were punished that way as a child, I guess I could see how you wouldn't understand the pleasure of it. Now I get them for being a "good girl". :D

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 12:37:35 PM

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Is is true you can be aroused by a spanking? I find it hard to believe.

That's understandable. All of us start with the same ingrained response to pain. Pain, when you think about it is simply the body's signalling system telling you that damage is occurring. By default, all of us are wired to avoid that signal and for very good reasons.

However, consider this. In the end, pain is nothing more than an electro-chemical stimulus engendered by a specific type of excitation of the nerves. It doesn't really become "pain" until hits the brain and gets interpreted. Up until then, it's simply a signal. Now, consider how much you know of people and how widely they can interpret the same things. Cold, for instance, is a lot like pain. It's an ingrained response and we automatically avoid too much of it. However, I grew up in Wisconsin and 30 degrees for me is t-shirt weather. For some of my california friends, 30 degrees is parka time.

Now, give a little thought to what it means to train someone. Can you setup a situation which would encourage someone to re-interpret the pain signals as somethign else? Absolutely. Just one way to do so is to get them so hot and bothered that pretty much anything will be considered as erotic, then introduce some light pain (very light). Rinse/repeat.

In the end, once you really pick it apart, it's not nearly as mysterious or unbelievable as it might seem. Heck, I workout and experience pain routinely and register it as a good thing. Those sore muscles are definitely a pain signal in response to some light damage that's been caused. Yet I (and zillions of other people who workout regularly) interpret them as satisfying and good.

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 12:47:45 PM

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*chuckles at the tourist comment as I toss some kibble to the monkies. . .

Some of us get aroused by GETTING a spanking, and others by GIVING one, and still others, by BOTH!

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RE: Is it true you can be aroused by a spanking - 7/28/2008 3:56:30 PM

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I was never spanked as a child, I sometimes wonder if I would still find it arousing today if I was. If you (the OP) were punished that way as a child, I guess I could see how you wouldn't understand the pleasure of it. Now I get them for being a "good girl". :D

i was downright abused as a child....i used to get 10 licks with a belt for every grade-point below an A. one time i brought home 4 C's.

and i *still* get off on being spanked, and TheEngineer and Daddy have both enjoyed giving them to me.

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