RE: So, you are a "slave"

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MadRabbit -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:24:46 PM)
FR Jesus, elitism REALLY is a kink of it's own.

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:26:22 PM)
So is waving an umbrella in outrage, it would seem.[:D]

MadRabbit -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:28:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist So is waving an umbrella in outrage, it would seem.[:D] Boy, you sure make a point to respond to my comments. I didn't get to ya, did I? [:D]

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:29:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist So is waving an umbrella in outrage, it would seem.[:D] Boy, you sure make a point to respond to my comments. I didn't get to ya, did I? [:D] I DO mention in the profile that I come here for the comic relief.[;)]

MadRabbit -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:29:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist So is waving an umbrella in outrage, it would seem.[:D] Boy, you sure make a point to respond to my comments. I didn't get to ya, did I? [:D] I DO mention in the profile that I come here for the comic relief.[;)] Thanks for contributing to it as well.

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:31:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist So is waving an umbrella in outrage, it would seem.[:D] Boy, you sure make a point to respond to my comments. I didn't get to ya, did I? [:D] I DO mention in the profile that I come here for the comic relief.[;)] Thanks for contributing to it as well. I can always count on you-I do appreciate your consistency-many thnks.

MadRabbit -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:33:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Featherist I can always count on you-I do appreciate your consistency-many thnks. If your done attempting to posture yourself and keep up with your ego, maybe you should go back to ignoring me and continueing with your thread.

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:43:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: Featherist I can always count on you-I do appreciate your consistency-many thnks. If your done attempting to posture yourself and keep up with your ego, maybe you should go back to ignoring me and continueing with your thread. Whenever you are ready to do the same. [:D]

MadRabbit -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:46:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: Featherist I can always count on you-I do appreciate your consistency-many thnks. If your done attempting to posture yourself and keep up with your ego, maybe you should go back to ignoring me and continueing with your thread. Whenever you are ready to do the same. [:D] Come on, man. Was that the best you can do? You let me down, Leatherist....you let me down, man. I was sitting here in anticipation, waiting to see what your comeback would be in this enjoyable exchange of insults....and I get something equivalent to Pee Wee Herman's "I know what you are, but what am I?". Do you have any idea how much of an anticlimax that is? I feel like I just took a plunge off a cliff. I don't know about you, but if Pee Wee Herman starts serving as inspiration in my battles of words, then I KNOW it's time to throw in the towel.

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:49:23 PM)
Are you still here?

MadRabbit -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:50:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist Are you still here? Yeah

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:53:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist Are you still here? Yeah I'm not, I need to get up early to do some productive things. Enjoy the usual degeneration into yet another futile debate over semantics and why is nilla not us...yaddda yadda ad nausem. Seems to be the most popular kink on here.

ResidentSadist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 7:57:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness This is not an attack .. merely looking to clarify something. RS ... are you saying that in the example of nipple piercing a girl who refuses to have it done, or enters into "slavery" with a limit upon it is a submissive a girl who has no degree of control whatsoever on the situation is a slave I don't require a long answer .. just a little clarity for my own understanding I feel you’ve all most nailed it. The core aspect that I see as the cause for some of the mistakes and miscommunications in this thread is found in a quote by Leatherist: quote: People come up with a lot of excuses and misdirection whenever you smack down their fantasies, and insist on seeing some sacrifices and work. I don't let it bother me, it only shows that they don't get it. Not worth arguing over. … and to your point I say: “a girl who refuses to have it done, or enters into "slavery" with a limit upon it is” acting out a fantasy (role play) not acting as a submissive. Role play is GREAT but she could be vanilla, a kinkster, a D/ser, a bottom… we all do role play to some degree so being an “un slave” doesn’t get you a subby patch because you just might be vanilla kink. It is just called (slave) role playing. Slave – no control, non negotiable surrender but basic human rights. Think of it as being in the military service, you have the same anti cruelty rights as livestock would. Submissive – negotiated control or “joint custody” of control.

gypsygrl -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 8:33:01 PM)
I have to wonder to, only I come at it from the other direction. Other than play, D-types often don't seem to have given much thought to what they want a slave for. Seriously, play's nice, I like it, and its fun. But, even with daily or twice daily play there's a lot of hours left in the day. What am I supposed to do with those hours? I wouldn't make a good pleasure slave, so I ask these kinds of questions. Its rare that anyone has an answer. I just got back from a week long visit with a poly-house hold which went very well. When I got back here to my local community, people were concerned that there was no play during my visit, and took that as a sign that I should re-think my assessment or go for a second visit which included play. Personally, I don't see the problem. I'm not looking for a play relationship--I have that where I am and, if I were satisfied with it, I wouldn't be looking.

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 8:40:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gypsygrl I have to wonder to, only I come at it from the other direction. Other than play, D-types often don't seem to have given much thought to what they want a slave for. Seriously, play's nice, I like it, and its fun. But, even with daily or twice daily play there's a lot of hours left in the day. What am I supposed to do with those hours? I wouldn't make a good pleasure slave, so I ask these kinds of questions. Its rare that anyone has an answer. I just got back from a week long visit with a poly-house hold which went very well. When I got back here to my local community, people were concerned that there was no play during my visit, and took that as a sign that I should re-think my assessment or go for a second visit which included play. Personally, I don't see the problem. I'm not looking for a play relationship--I have that where I am and, if I were satisfied with it, I wouldn't be looking. Which is my point about being specific,rather than vague,what are you both going to do with the REST of your life-the other 98%?

CruelDesires -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 9:01:40 PM)
Maybe we can start an "idle slave time" home business start up kit? We can sell them to the newcomers to the M/s world where they can have their idle slaves knit booties or tea coasters for other bdsm lifestylers... C-D

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 9:06:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CruelDesires Maybe we can start an "idle slave time" home business start up kit? We can sell them to the newcomers to the M/s world where they can have their idle slaves knit booties or tea coasters for other bdsm lifestylers... C-D Or dream up more castle realmy sites-where they can go and share tales about the easter bunny,and cornholing? Or cornholing easter bunnies?

ResidentSadist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 9:34:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist quote: ORIGINAL: CruelDesires Maybe we can start an "idle slave time" home business start up kit? We can sell them to the newcomers to the M/s world where they can have their idle slaves knit booties or tea coasters for other bdsm lifestylers... C-D Or dream up more castle realmy sites-where they can go and share tales about the easter bunny,and cornholing? Or cornholing easter bunnies? [sm=eeew.gif].........Ack.. my eyes, my eyes... they are wounded, I thought I saw the words castle realm... halp [sm=onphone.gif]..... Hallo? ......... Hallo? Doctor, halp me please. I’m starting to see things and I’m getting very concerned. I thought I saw the words “castle realm” posted in a thread by Leatherist. I am pretty sure he would never commit such blasphemy so my eyes must be failing. I am afraid if my eyes get worse I won’t be able to recognize the ERA a flag waving lesbians from Orlando posing as submissives while searching for the "perfect true" Dom so they can trick him into getting up on their impossibly high pedestal where the air is so thin a man is sure to grow faint, pass out and fall down. Falling down will of course reaffirm the man hating lesbian poser’s belief that men are failures and reinforce her hatred for them. … I fear for my eyesight, powers off perception and acute awareness living so close to a time like that.

Leatherist -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 9:38:15 PM)
Hopefully they will fall far enough to burn up on reentry, confusing the lesbians about whether they actually fell-or grew wings and are now hovering in wait, to pounce on them at some secluded bus stop..[:D]

LadyPact -> RE: So, you are a "slave" (7/29/2008 10:52:58 PM)
Oh, for heaven's sake. Can we, please, not bring the Castle Realm debate into this as well? Castle Realm had it's place, if for no other purpose than to introduce some folks to the BDSM lite view. You can't argue with something that made want folks want to explore their thoughts, feelings, and desires. In all seriousness, I think there was a point made that warrants further discussion. Personally, I didn't list any particular "skills" in My profile for over a year. I don't talk at length about what I am looking for, nor do I list many of My expectations. In fact, for My first six months here, I had a profile that said I'll get to it later. What can I say? I had better things to do and I don't particularly care about writing about Myself. At this time, I have a few key phrases in My profile that I think might interest certain bottoms, submissives, or slaves. I could go on and on about My skills, but unless someone sees Me in person, My writing doesn't matter much. I would think it is the same on the other side of the kneel. The in person discovery means quite a bit more.

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