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eyesopened -> RE: Why after 8 months can't I meet the family (8/7/2008 5:23:11 AM)
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It would appear that the OP was looking for a different relationship than her Dominant wanted. It's pretty simple really. You broadcast on one frequency and are surprised when you receive on the same frequency. It's like a walkie-talkie or CB radio, you will receive on the same wavelength that you transmit. It you don't recieve what you desire, it is your clue that you are transmitting on the wrong wavelength and it's your clue that you need to change channels.
Or another analogy.... People have a habit of writing internal scripts. The screenplay in their mind might read "I will be available at his convenience, be a perfect piece of meat, and ask nothing in return and THEN he will fall madly in love with me because I gave all this to him." HIS screenplay might read "When it's convenient, I will go get my dick sucked and then go home to catch the ballgame." Since you don't have a copy of his script and he doesn't have a copy of yours, it's no wonder the drama becomes a disaster.
You CAN have the relationships you want. That relationship probably won't include this particular Dominant, but I've found that when I focus on the relationship I desire, the correct partner will appear. Sometimes we focus too much on this man and think if we change and modify him and ourselves enough we will have the relationship we want. Forget that. Focus on what kind of relationship you want first and then broadcast on that frequency and things will be much better for future relationships.
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