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CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 11:20:35 AM   
Mauigurrlxxx


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Status: offline 		Have you ever been restricted from masturbating? For how long? Were you told why and what was the reason? How did you feel during and after? I hav been restricted from masturbating for almost a year now and just wanted some feedback from other subs/slaves.
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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 12:04:26 PM   
KatyLied


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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 12:05:02 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Rarely have I had my masturbation restricted. It doesn't do well in the short term- I don't sleep as well, I don't focus as well, I'm less fulfilled in general. And in the long term, it makes it even harder for me to orgasm when I'm allowed.


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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 12:09:20 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		As I said on the other thread, never without permision.

Longest without orgasm? Five months. Short, but stupid story of misscomunication.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 12:13:40 PM   
sub4hire


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quote:

Have you ever been restricted from masturbating? For how long? Were you told why and what was the reason? How did you feel during and after? I hav been restricted from masturbating for almost a year now and just wanted some feedback from other subs/slaves.


No, I've never been restricted but I've never had the need to masturbate either. Mind control does wonders. To orgasm without touch of any kind. Just a thought in my mind.

And no, nobody has ever told me I could not do that either.

I know a few people who claim if they go without sex for so long..they have no desire to have it anymore. I've no clue how long. Nor if it is a fact or not. But, maybe that is the case if you're restricted for too long?

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 12:14:13 PM   
sixseven


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Status: offline 		i've not been allowed to either masturbate nor orgasm for almost a year now......Master intends to revise this on the 1st January next year.
i've found though that being taken time after time right to the edge and not being allowed to topple over into orgasm has me in a state of constant excitement.......!!

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 12:42:07 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I think you should masturbate every day for the next year.

Reverse the Curse!

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 12:44:08 PM   
sixseven


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ORIGINAL: fastlane

I think you should masturbate every day for the next year.

Reverse the Curse!


i will be sure to pass on the idea to Master........though i can guess His response after the fit of laughter!!!

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 12:57:10 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I'm always good for a few laughs........but my strength is my ability to Masturbate in a public place and no one knows it.......except for that one time in church......I blame the Priest for that one though....Nosey Bastard!

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 1:15:07 PM   
slavejali


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I know a few people who claim if they go without sex for so long..they have no desire to have it anymore. I've no clue how long. Nor if it is a fact or not. But, maybe that is the case if you're restricted for too long?


i lived without sex for about 4 years (due to my partner being ill) and during that period i lost all desire for it and didnt think i missed it at all. When i became sexually active again however, it was as though a part of me that was closed up had opened again and i realised that there was a deep part of me that had missed it, i had just been disconnected from it somehow.



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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 1:27:08 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		The longest i was restricted for was 2 weeks and that is cause my late Master wanted me going crazy when i saw him (he was away) he was right when i saw him again i was going crazy. he eventually took care of it. I wuould be in the nut house if i could not cum for a year.

littleone

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 3:09:46 PM   
fyreredsub


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Status: offline 		oh no,, sir encourages me to be free w/ myself totally.

i wouldn't be able to stand it for a year.i'ld be getting punished all the damn time,lol.


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ORIGINAL: Mauigurrlxxx

Have you ever been restricted from masturbating? For how long? Were you told why and what was the reason? How did you feel during and after? I hav been restricted from masturbating for almost a year now and just wanted some feedback from other subs/slaves.



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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 3:26:33 PM   
Mauigurrlxxx


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Status: offline 		Thank you for your input thus far, I do feel like I am going nuts and wish that sex controlled me so much but alas it does. I do not go a day, a morning, an evening without thinking/wanting it. I had hoped for a lessening or a quelling of need and desire but it hasnt happened yet. I am still hungry for it and feel controlled by my nymphonic libido.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 3:33:34 PM   
Chaingang


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Status: offline 		Well, the other thread was deleted instead of rolled into this one - somewhat inelegantly, I'd say. Here was my reply to something over there...

Well, you can dig deeper yourself if you like.

Some mystics believe that any release is a negative. Again, not the sex per se - just the orgasm part. Some people claim not to have orgasmed for years. Some practitioners of tantra say that "each drop of semen is equal to ten drops of blood" - by which I believe that they mean that precious life energies are thereby expended or wasted, that one should do so only with careful consideration. More here:

http://www.luckymojo.com/tktechniques.html

It's entirely possible that masturbation restrictions are entirely for disciplinary purposes, intended only in the case of reward for desirable behavior.

It's a hugely wide open question actually...


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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 3:44:44 PM   
Mauigurrlxxx


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Status: offline 		Thank you chaingang, I was able to read your post before they as you put it inelegantly removed it stating that it was a redundant query. It actually was not because I wouldnt expect a sub or slave to tell me the same answer a Master would. Thank you ever so much for your courteous response and comments. peace - Mauigurrl

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 3:59:29 PM   
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The longest I've been restricted was perhaps 48 hours, right before a session/scene. Every dominant I've been with have been of the the more she comes the better I like it mindset.

I'm not sure what would be the benefit of denying orgasm for a year. I know I wouldn't personally be capable of playing with a dominant who expected that of me. It just wouldn't be healthy for me.

Cin

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 4:00:30 PM   
FTopinMichigan


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

I'm always good for a few laughs........but my strength is my ability to Masturbate in a public place and no one knows it.......except for that one time in church......I blame the Priest for that one though....Nosey Bastard!


Hey, Fastlane...I was beginning to miss you. Glad to see you posting more.

I never understood the fasination with masturbation being used for punishment, or restricting it for pleasure. Oxymoron, isn't it?

When a man contacts me with "I need to be punished for mastrubating"...I usually say, unless you're doing it on the bus, I don't have issue with it. I guess I'll have to include "not doing it in church" now too.

I don't see using a self pleasure as anything...but self pleasure. I would think there are better was to exercise control, than depriving someone of something so very natural.

K

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 5:58:21 PM   
Mylee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

I think you should masturbate every day for the next year.

Reverse the Curse!




Fastlane..i LOVE ya man...nothing like having a hard day at work and comming home to see one of your posts! Thaaaank you thank you!

~my'lee

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 7:24:35 PM   
Mauigurrlxxx


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Status: offline 		how cute fastlane has some serious groupies, this is the first post i have ever done so im new to all of this. Glad to see its making some people smile.

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RE: CANT TOUCH THIS - 11/17/2005 7:36:08 PM   
KittenWithaTwist


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Status: offline 		I am required to ask permission to masturbate, but I cannot cum. I am not permitted to, but I cannot anyway, so that's easily fulfilled.
The reason? It's erotic and enjoyable for both of us, to keep me restricted in that way. I usually have one-four orgasms a month, usually all at once (during one session).
Masturbating helps me sleep and release stress so I kinda feel a possessive need to do it.


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