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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 9:50:47 PM

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Oh I see , maybe you should ask a question...like what everyday qualities will help me find a good DOM??

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 9:51:44 PM

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What then did you come to see? A reed shaken by the wind? you can philosopy or not with the peoples. But.... Pop by the house, I will gladly slap the dogfuck outta you. You don't get a 'my'. Well; maybe on your birthday, I am not a hard man.

Let's have a moment of silence to mourn appropriately this admission.

OP, were you just making a general announcement, or what?

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 9:54:46 PM

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open your mouth and close your eyes and I will give you a big surprise.....LOL

living your life with your hands tied behind your back, and not being able to wipe properly...........

That has got to build character, in my view, it caint hep but do.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 10:03:18 PM

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Not here to philosophy with people.

That's fantastic... cuz you can't philosophy with people - it's a noun - not a verb... someone can HAVE a philosophy but you'd have to philosophize over the philosophy.
i'm just sayin.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 10:06:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: NumberSix

... slap the dogfuck outta you.

Ron

Lmfao!

Best. Phrase. Ever.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 10:07:26 PM

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I can understand where she is coming from however. In my experience when you talk to most of these "Masters" out there about structure-they think you are talking about a house.

Don't know a fucking thing about order and discipline-they can tell you ALL about how they want thier cocks sucked tho.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 10:08:02 PM

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I can't really think of anything of substance to offer up other than: Next time around, perhaps ask any prospective master/dom for a few references so you can find out of the guy likely has it together and is what he says he is. This is one of those crazy ideas that the older folks who pioneered BDSM cooked up to cut down on exactly what you have run into. It's of course not a 100% guarantee you have found yourself a winner, but its something more substantial than having nothing but what seem now to be empty promises...

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ORIGINAL: NumberSix

....Pop by the house, I will gladly slap the dogfuck outta you...

My guess is, that's gonna leave a mark.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 10:10:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: restlessdreamer

quote:

ORIGINAL: NumberSix

... slap the dogfuck outta you.

Ron

Lmfao!

Best. Phrase. Ever.

Dreamer, you know you are a dreamer
Well can you put your hands in your head, oh no!
I said dreamer, you're nothing but a dreamer
Well can you put your hands in your head, oh no!
I said "Far out, - What a day, a year, a laugh it is!"
You know, - Well you know you had it comin' to you,
Now there's not a lot I can do

Dreamer, you stupid little dreamer;
So now you put your head in your hands, oh no!
I said "Far out, - What a day, a year, a laugh it is!"
You know, - Well you know you had it comin' to you,
Now there's not a lot I can do.

Well work it out someday

If I could see something
You can see anything you want boy
If I could be someone-
You can be anyone, celebrate boy.
If I could do something-
Well you can do something,
If I could do anything-
Well can you do something out of this world?

Take a dream on a Sunday
Take a life, take a holiday
Take a lie, take a dreamer
dream, dream, dream, dream, dream along...

Dreamer, you know you are a dreamer
Well can you put your hands in your head, oh no!
I said dreamer, you're nothing but a dreamer
Well can you put your hands in your head, oh no!
OH NO!

Just sayin'

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 10:31:54 PM

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Hi slavheart,

Nice to hear you are a confident, submissive woman

it definitely sounds like he was giving you the run around. Unfortunately it is true that many so called Masters have no clue about real control, for them it is purely BDSM sexually. Which is fine if they don't pretend to be anything more than that, the problem is unfortunately everyone is not honest. It would be a much better world if everyone was, i have a need for control in and OUT of the bedroom and have unfortunately came across "sexual" only Dominants claiming to be more than that.

I really liked the post were she said something to the effect of "structure or discipline they didn't understand, but they knew how they liked their cocks suked"

It would be so great if people could just be upfront and honest and say what they are looking for and prepared to give, then we wouldn't have to kiss so many frogs to find our prince.

Hope you find yours soon

~shanaya~

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RE: Left my Master - 8/2/2008 10:38:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: restlessdreamer

quote:

ORIGINAL: NumberSix

... slap the dogfuck outta you.

Ron

Lmfao!

Best. Phrase. Ever.

i have to agree

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 2:17:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: SirWAX

In response to your question, yes.

There was a question??? I've read it more than once, and I missed the question. Where, oh where, oh where is the question?

Cali

No there was not, I was sarcasm philosophy with people.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 6:54:50 AM

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Ribbit. Ribbit.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 6:59:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: SlavHeart321

Well I stay with him for four mos. And the whole time he kept saying opposite things, and it was the same thing over and over for 4mos. So I got tired of it and left. Now I'm at a point where I can make progress in my own life by myself. I'm not a mouse on a wheel, I don't like going in circles, doing same thing over and over with the same results. I know that if you want something to change you have to acutallly make a change. That guy was already married anyway.

just a thought, if you want a man to give you 100% then you probably shouldn't seek it from a married man. just sayin.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 7:01:20 AM

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just a thought, if you want a man to give you 100% then you probably shouldn't seek it from a married man. just sayin.

Can't argue with that logic.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 9:55:50 AM

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While I think I would enjoy phlosiphying with him, remind me never to stop by Ron's house

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 10:00:41 AM

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OP...not sure if you came here for validation so everyone would jump in and say ohh poor you and bad Doms who have no control...bla bla...? In any case Dominants do not come in molds or cookie boxes all the same...we are also human and prone to mistakes as some have mentioned. In any case it seems you came to "stir the henhouse" as you are not even interested in responses...judging by the little you have written I see an insecure person who thinks Dominants have to fit a perfect mold...please, get over yourself, its not all about you.

Ron, excellent quote by the way, I second it.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 2:20:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: NumberSix

What then did you come to see? A reed shaken by the wind?

you can philosopy or not with the peoples. But....

Pop by the house, I will gladly slap the dogfuck outta you.

You don't get a 'my'. Well; maybe on your birthday, I am not a hard man.

Ron

Please please Ron, can I have your address? I'll get a GPS and everything... follow my nose, whatever... *whimpers all dog like.... and looks at the calendar for my birthday.

And um... kitty?
Did we see you on the Grammatical Annoyances thread? Hmmmm? Sounds like you would fit in justtttttttttttttttttt fine.

peace and passion,
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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 2:34:16 PM

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Personally I feel referances are about as useful as someone recommending which movie I should go see. Most people will not give you the name of a person who'll speak badly of them, and tell you all the individuals faults. Most people would only give referances that wll speak highly of them and who like the individual.

Just like most people will not tell you to go see a movie they themself hated. And also just because the referance had glowing wonderful things to say about the person doesn't mean I personally will.

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ORIGINAL: E2Sweet

I can't really think of anything of substance to offer up other than: Next time around, perhaps ask any prospective master/dom for a few references so you can find out of the guy likely has it together and is what he says he is. This is one of those crazy ideas that the older folks who pioneered BDSM cooked up to cut down on exactly what you have run into. It's of course not a 100% guarantee you have found yourself a winner, but its something more substantial than having nothing but what seem now to be empty promises...

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 2:36:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: SlavHeart321

I recently was with this guy as his slave, but It didn't work out because he kept showing me that he wasn't in control 100%. It's either all or nothing: I'm either gonna be a slave to the right guy, or not at all. I don't want to waste my time.

If you want to be a slave then I suggest you consider why you chose this guy in the first place. Chose more wisely next time. Then you must be prepared to give him 100%........all or nothing.

It's been my experience we get exactly what we asked for when it comes to relationships.

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RE: Left my Master - 8/3/2008 2:39:14 PM

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Actually no - i can usually accept a lot of grammatical mistakes... but goodness... can we PLEASE keep nouns and verbs straight??? lol

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