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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 2:04:39 PM   
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I have generally found it to be true that the men who are the most inept at handling a woman are the first to blame the "irrational nature" of a woman instead of their own shortcomings.


I have to agree with this
And they tell us we whine.....


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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 5:18:19 PM   
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So, Smithyboy, if you find us so intolerable, why bother with us? If you just want something to stick your dick in, you can always hire a whore or buy a blow-up doll. Not to mention the hands God gave you. Why the need to put up with such irrational, out of control dimwits?



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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 5:35:29 PM   
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So, Smithyboy, if you find us so intolerable, why bother with us? If you just want something to stick your dick in, you can always hire a whore or buy a blow-up doll. Not to mention the hands God gave you. Why the need to put up with such irrational, out of control dimwits?


Excellent point. I couldn't have said it better myself. Those are the words I've been living by for sometime. And I have to tell you, I am MUCH happier for it.

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 7:13:24 PM   
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... I have to tell you, I am MUCH happier for it.



lol... I daresay that the women you might otherwise have been with are, too. 

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 7:14:51 PM   
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"Understanding women?"
GOOD FUCKIN' LUCK!

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 8:06:00 PM   
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lol... I daresay that the women you might otherwise have been with are, too. 


Well that would be your opinion. However, you don't fall into that category so your opinion doesn't count for very much.

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 8:43:54 PM   
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Well that would be your opinion. However, you don't fall into that category so your opinion doesn't count for very much.



Let's see... I don't fall into the category of an intolerable, irrational, out-of-control dimwit who might have been with you except for the fact that you prefer a whore, a blow-up doll or your hand...

Hmmm...

Works for me. 

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 8:57:03 PM   
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What advice would you give him on  how to understand women?


A woman friend told me this, and I think it gives some insight:-

Cheating spouses; the man feels guilt and remorse, the woman worries about being caught.


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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 9:15:30 PM   
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So, what...you're batting for the other side now?! Outstanding! Make it a whole lot easier to seperate the wheat from the chaff.

Or is it that you're single, so therefore women are irrational?



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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 9:18:35 PM   
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So I was writing a dominant that I know. He said that he had been thinking of getting a mentor because he feels he doesnt understand women.

What advice would you give him on  how to understand women?


Just slap them really hard on the ass, bust a nut on their face, and roll over and go to sleep.

They seem to like that.

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/9/2008 9:40:33 PM   
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What advice would you give him on  how to understand women?


A woman friend told me this, and I think it gives some insight:-

Cheating spouses; the man feels guilt and remorse, the woman worries about being caught.



If you mean insight into your misogyny, then it was very insightful.

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 12:15:14 AM   
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What advice would you give him on  how to understand women?


A woman friend told me this, and I think it gives some insight:-

Cheating spouses; the man feels guilt and remorse, the woman worries about being caught.



If you mean insight into your misogyny, then it was very insightful.


Diddums

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 12:36:57 AM   
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I don't fall into the category of an intolerable, irrational, out-of-control dimwit


I never said you don't fall into that category. In fact, your repeated attempts at attacking me would appear to place you squarely into that category.

What I meant was you are not, nor could you ever be the type of girl I'd be interested in.

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 12:42:59 AM   
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So, what...you're batting for the other side now?! Outstanding! Make it a whole lot easier to seperate the wheat from the chaff.

Or is it that you're single, so therefore women are irrational?


I never said that either. I simply don't need a woman to make me happy. In fact, the times I have been with one were much more miserable than the times spent without one. I will say this though: the attempts made by you and "treasure" to attack me have done wonders for proving my point. Somewhere, somehow, each of you got the impression that I was attacking you both directly, when in fact I'd never said word one about either or you. Yet despite the fact that I don't know either of you and haven't said anything about either of you, you've both attacked me in a quite irrational manner.

Irrational, but not unpredictable. Like I said in my third post: "Dealing with a woman is essentially the same thing. Expect her to do the most off the wall, senseless thing and no matter what she ends up doing, you'll be prepared."

I'm always prepared, rarely surprised.

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 1:01:17 AM   
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Watch this, grasshopper.  It will answer all your questions.  ALL of them.

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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 1:54:10 AM   
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So I was writing a dominant that I know. He said that he had been thinking of getting a mentor because he feels he doesnt understand women.

What advice would you give him on  how to understand women?


Just slap them really hard on the ass, bust a nut on their face, and roll over and go to sleep.

They seem to like that.


*snort*  Is it wrong for me to be laughing right now?


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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 2:26:21 AM   
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There is a simple trick to trying to understand women.  Don't try to understand them all.  Focus on understanding the one or ones you are involved with, it is a much smaller sampling, and easier to get a grasp on their motivations, feelings, likes, dislikes, needs, desires, and individual quirks.  Sure there are some vast generalizations that can be made, but as with all generalizations there are most definitely exceptions to them.

Then even with understanding the surface things that one can get a grasp on, there is no way to completely understand the innermost thinkings or reactions, without interacting with the individual, if it is even possible to understand another person completely.  Hell, most folks have issues with understanding themselve, so is it any wonder they can't understand an entire gender.

Just my thoughts,
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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 4:26:32 AM   
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So, what...you're batting for the other side now?! Outstanding! Make it a whole lot easier to seperate the wheat from the chaff.

Or is it that you're single, so therefore women are irrational?


I never said that either. I simply don't need a woman to make me happy. In fact, the times I have been with one were much more miserable than the times spent without one. I will say this though: the attempts made by you and "treasure" to attack me have done wonders for proving my point.
Yes and your replies to their posts are making theirs.


Somewhere, somehow, each of you got the impression that I was attacking you both directly, when in fact I'd never said word one about either or you. Yet despite the fact that I don't know either of you and haven't said anything about either of you, you've both attacked me in a quite irrational manner.
You make negative judgements about women and are surprised when women take that personal because you didn't name them specifically? Sounds kinda irrational to me, but your a man so I expect it.


Irrational, but not unpredictable. Like I said in my third post: "Dealing with a woman is essentially the same thing. Expect her to do the most off the wall, senseless thing and no matter what she ends up doing, you'll be prepared."

I'm always prepared, rarely surprised.
Me too.



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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 4:37:15 AM   
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There is a simple trick to trying to understand women.  Don't try to understand them all.  Focus on understanding the one or ones you are involved with, it is a much smaller sampling, and easier to get a grasp on their motivations, feelings, likes, dislikes, needs, desires, and individual quirks.  Sure there are some vast generalizations that can be made, but as with all generalizations there are most definitely exceptions to them.

Then even with understanding the surface things that one can get a grasp on, there is no way to completely understand the innermost thinkings or reactions, without interacting with the individual, if it is even possible to understand another person completely.  Hell, most folks have issues with understanding themselve, so is it any wonder they can't understand an entire gender.

Just my thoughts,
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RE: Understanding women???? - 8/10/2008 5:30:26 AM   
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I hear this all the time.  Men telling me that just don't understand women.  I have only ever suggested one thing to solve the problem.  It worked for me and for any friend of mine who actually took my advice.  Try listening to them.  I know it is a bizzare concept, but it works.  I do not mean for a few minutes at a time, or skimming the surface ot the conversation for obvious meaning, I mean really listen, and worse (gasp!) think about the words coming out of their mouths.  Ask yourself why they are using those words.  How to understand any one idividual woman.. well that is another thing entirely, but then feminine gender is far from a requirement for being obtuse.  Anyone can be incomprehensible.

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