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porcelain26 -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 1:46:47 AM)

I've never kissed my Owner. Not that I wouldn't or He wouldn't, I guess it's just never been a part of our dynamic.



silkncarol -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 2:24:48 AM)

Oh my...i can't imagine a relationship without kissing!   I consider myself a good kisser and enjoy doing it often.

Evility....i have had my ass kissed by a Dom <weg>  bitten too.......lol

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ORIGINAL: Evility

I see doms kissing sub's asses all the time. I think it does occur.



kallisto -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 3:06:27 AM)

Like replies before me, I can't imagine a relationship without the kissing.  [:)]

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RCdc -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 3:22:54 AM)

Yes kissing is cool.
 
I would be a little wary of incompatability in your scenario however.  Kissing is intimate and this obviously rocks for you.  I wouldn't second guess him, but ask him on his views on intamcy.  Some people are very afraid of itand some avoid it altogether and he may have some background as to why.  It might be wise to ask him and get down to the issue.
 
the.dark.



gypsygrl -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 3:31:29 AM)

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I am a freak. I will let someone beat me before I let them fuck me. And I will let them fuck me before I want them to kiss me. Kissing is intimate, scent, taste, pheremones and style combine up close and personal. I can be on my belly bent over a counter for a fuck with no other imput needed. But for kisses that are a relationship on their own, I really have to want you in my face.
Freaky I know.


Omg!  I thought I was the only one like this! 



Dnomyar -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 3:50:06 AM)

You women need to be more aggressive. I hate asking for a kiss. But it is  a good way to see where the relationship is going if it is going to go anywhere at all.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 4:03:55 AM)

I couldnt have a D's relationship without kissing. But then again, I couldnt have a D's relationship that wasnt a  romantic relationship also.



beltainefaerie -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 4:13:16 AM)

My Master doesn't kiss often and he kisses his wife far more often than he does me (as well it sould be).  That said, the striking intimacy of it is a great way to throw me off balance.  I love it when he does kiss me, but I suppose if he decided he wasn't going to ever again, it wouldn't break out dynamic.  I think D/s can work well with or without kissing, though I don't think I'd be happy if no one was kissing me.  Good thing my husband kisses me all the time : )



Rayne58 -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 4:26:24 AM)

*fast reply*
My Dom is also my Husband, so we kiss a lot [:)]  I don't think I could be in any relationship that did not involve kissing...



MistressRuthXXXX -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 4:33:42 AM)

I kiss My boyslave uno on the mouth when greeting and departing..and sometimes inbetween,especially when he has bravely taken a severe caning.  My gorgeous new girl slave zero arrives this week....I shall be kissing her a lot!
and as for being kissed by Master Klaus....that is utter bliss!!



slaveluci -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 5:16:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Cuffkinks
...I love to have My mouth locked on My little girl's mouth as I hurt her or let her cum, using My own mouth as a gag on her. The muffled yelps, whimpers, and /or moans sound hot as hell. I not only hear them, but I can feel them going from her directly into Me. To Me, it's another way of taking what is Mine...which is everything about her.

Master does this exact thing.  He has always loved to cover my mouth with His and feel the moans and screams.  It's so intimate and close and bonding.  As far as general kissing, we do it all the time and enjoy it very much......................luci



Ferns -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 5:19:50 AM)

Kissing if done right is like great sex without the sex. 

You get the playing, softness, hardness, teasing, denial, penetration, intimacy, hurting, control, all that.  Delicious. 

I would never do without it.




Sandyshores29718 -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 5:22:19 AM)

*fast reply*

I like kissing in my scenes, but at the moment I'm not collared to anyone nor am I in a relationship where I can not do my own thing at the moment and both people I scene with mean a great deal to me. Now, if it was just BDSM play thats it...I would not want someone to kiss me at all. A kiss is a connection for me. I dont go around kissing everyone. [;)]



Missokyst -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 5:30:32 AM)

I think that is why I limit my kissing to men I really want in my face.  For me kissing is more intimate than sex.  When I really like a man, I want to caress them, I want to sense them, I want to look into their eyes before the intensity makes me lower my lids in submission.  Kissing is what I miss most.  But it is also something that for me, is reserved for people I need in my emotional life because it is intimate, close and bonding in a way that surpasses sex, for me.
and psssssst.. Gypsy.. thanks.  LOL 22 posts later I was getting really nervous for being a freak.
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

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ORIGINAL: Cuffkinks
To Me, it's another way of taking what is Mine...which is everything about her.

Master does this exact thing.  He has always loved to cover my mouth with His and feel the moans and screams.  It's so intimate and close and bonding. 



DarkSteven -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 5:40:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I hate asking for a kiss.


I don't ask.  I take.

I've got a quirk that I have a hard time playing if I haven't kissed first. Kissing begins foreplay.  And sometimes I just kiss her because I feel like it and I can.  I also swat her ass sometimes for the same reason.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 5:48:22 AM)

fast reply

there's no set official rules in BDSM - so if you want to have kissing, pucker up and lay a big smacker on his lips.

kissing, mho, isn't reserved for "dating". it would suck (pardon the pun) to be in a D/s relationship if there wasn't any kissing. how boring it would be.



lally3 -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 6:05:14 AM)

there is something incredibly overpowering about having a hand entwined in your hair, your head held back, and to be swollowed up in a kiss - submission to a kiss is powerful, depends how they kiss though - having my mouth ravaged is totally hot for me! - and soft, sensual kissing and hmmm, i just love kissing.

but kissing is intimate, and i have had a couple of D/s relationships where kissing just wasnt something that felt right - as others have said, it totally depends on the dynamic.



cagedmonster -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 6:25:19 AM)

Out of two D/s relationships I've had, kissing has always played a major factor. Not only does it set boundaries to begin with it rounds of 'play' time wonderfully. I think going without kissing would be a cruel punishment



Dnomyar -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 6:39:38 AM)

Ok no one has brought this up so I will. Kissing. Open or close mouth. Tounge in or out. Long or short. Me I like to grab a hand full of hair tilt the head back and have my other hand on her neck and kiss her soft and long.



SimplyMichael -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 6:44:30 AM)

To me, if I wasn't interested enough in someone to kiss them why would I bother playing with them in the first place.  Kissing has everything in it, deep eye contact as you look into some one's eyes you can see what is going on in their mind, intimate physical contact as you overpower their mouth and force your tongue deep into theirs, and thhe ability to hold them firmly to you as you become one connected being.

Or you get so close where you can see the longing on their lips for that embrace and you deny it to them because YOU can.

Yeah, kissing is very very hot.



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