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LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 7:04:17 AM)

When I first played with my boy, before an intimate relationship was established, I did not involve kissing.  For me, kissing was was something that lead to deeper intimacy, and I wasn't ready for that at the time.  The first time we did kiss during play, I knew things would never be the same.  We've been together for 3 years now.  [:)]

LadyJulieAnn



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 7:19:22 AM)

There are plenty of people who fear intimacy, so they prefer to keep something as intimate as kissing out of their D/s dynamic.

We're not those people!

He kisses me whenever he wants, and will often grab me in a parking lot or the grocery store, hug me tight and kiss me.  Kissing is always a part of our greeting and parting.  We kiss during sex and we kiss during play.  He kisses away my tears and I just love kissing him all over.

And sometimes he likes to tease me and lean in for a kiss, then just as we're about to make contact, he turns his head.  [8D]

Yay for kissing!!  [sm=cute.gif] Muah!



gypsygrl -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 7:35:25 AM)

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There are plenty of people who fear intimacy, so they prefer to keep something as intimate as kissing out of their D/s dynamic.


Oh dear.  Must we go there?  I mean, seriously, while there may be a connection between 'fear of intimacy' and a preference for keeping 'something as intimate as kissing out of their D/s dynamic' the two are not necessarily causally related as this comment might imply.  A D/s dynamic doesn't always have to involve that kind of intimacy.



Lordandmaster -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 7:38:31 AM)

I kiss.

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ORIGINAL: chuckypet

How many others in D/s relationships kiss?



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 7:43:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: gypsygrl

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There are plenty of people who fear intimacy, so they prefer to keep something as intimate as kissing out of their D/s dynamic.


Oh dear.  Must we go there?  I mean, seriously, while there may be a connection between 'fear of intimacy' and a preference for keeping 'something as intimate as kissing out of their D/s dynamic' the two are not necessarily causally related as this comment might imply.  A D/s dynamic doesn't always have to involve that kind of intimacy.


It wasn't meant as a blanket statement or a judgement of others preferred dynamics.

Maybe I should have added that in the 10 months I was owned by my previous owner, he never kissed me even once.  And yes, he had a fear of intimacy.  One of many reasons he is no longer my owner.

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SimplyMichael -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 7:47:16 AM)

Just as there are valid reasons to kiss, there are valid reasons to not kiss, same goes for intimacy.  It isn't the act, it is the motivation behind it...



marieToo -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 7:52:35 AM)

I'm not a huge fan of french kissing.  I prefer gentle, closed-lipped kisses.



KMsAngel -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 8:38:25 AM)

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To me, if I wasn't interested enough in someone to kiss them why would I bother playing with them in the first place. Kissing has everything in it, deep eye contact as you look into some one's eyes you can see what is going on in their mind, intimate physical contact as you overpower their mouth and force your tongue deep into theirs, and thhe ability to hold them firmly to you as you become one connected being.

Or you get so close where you can see the longing on their lips for that embrace and you deny it to them because YOU can.

Yeah, kissing is very very hot.


: puddle :



subsong -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 8:40:13 AM)

Missokyst - if you're a freak , I'm right there with ya !
 
" I am a freak.  I will let someone beat me before I let them fuck me.  And I will let them fuck me before I want them to kiss me.  Kissing is intimate, scent, taste, pheremones and style combine up close and personal.  I can be on my belly bent over a counter for a fuck with no other imput needed.  But for kisses that are a relationship on their own, I really have to want you in my face. "

  I adore kissing - in all kinds of ways , and all kinds of places   !!!!    They can convey so much , and to me , are so intimate .
  Rough , sudden, hard kisses -  slow, deep , sensual kisses -  loving, tender, meaningful kisses -  heavy breathing ,  tonsil tickling , totally turned on kinda kisses  -  even friendly little pecks on the cheek from my favorite platonic folks . 
 
    And then there's hugging - but that could be a whole 'nuther thread ...



AquaticSub -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 8:42:15 AM)

We kiss. He kisses my forehead, I beg for kissies, we kiss good-night....


Kissing is a huge part of our relationship!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 8:46:02 AM)

Hmmm.

I love to kiss, but I save it for certain submissives.  Casual playmates, no.  Romantic relationships, absolutely. 



BLKMADONA -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 8:46:28 AM)

I am also one of those who believe kissing is a very intimate thing. When I handle My bois(when I used to anyway..lol), I would kiss the forhead, nothing more-unless(and theres been only one boi) I knew by kissing him would throw him for a loop(and it did). But for the most part I do not kiss My boys lips unless he is going to be with Me for a loooooong time.


Blkmadona



Missokyst -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 9:06:49 AM)

Kissing, pecks, closed, small, all over nips and light touches are nice before and during play.  I don't need them, but they are doable for me if it is part of the dynamic.  I tend not to see those light pre-intimacy questioning pecks as kissing. 
Deeper, longing, suction, thrusting, then savored, and tilted back when taken..,, oh my.. yes.  But that is when I when he is so much a part of me I want to feel his soul.
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Ok no one has brought this up so I will. Kissing. Open or close mouth. Tounge in or out. Long or short. Me I like to grab a hand full of hair tilt the head back and have my other hand on her neck and kiss her soft and long.



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 9:21:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: gypsygrl

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I am a freak. I will let someone beat me before I let them fuck me. And I will let them fuck me before I want them to kiss me. Kissing is intimate, scent, taste, pheremones and style combine up close and personal. I can be on my belly bent over a counter for a fuck with no other imput needed. But for kisses that are a relationship on their own, I really have to want you in my face.
Freaky I know.


Omg!  I thought I was the only one like this! 



I'm there too. I can't deal with someone in my face. I kiss my husband, light pecks. I can't do the long winded make-out type kissing... not with anyone.

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A D/s dynamic doesn't always have to involve that kind of intimacy.


I agree, it's very possible to have a very intimate relationship without kissing. I think stroking their hair is just as intimate. I can be a very "touchy/feely" type person but I don't have to invade their personal space to do it.
 
Jewel



yourMissTress -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 9:38:26 AM)

I am a kisser.  Kisses of all kinds say or accomplish so many different things.  Lips are the most temperature sensitive parts of our outer bodies, I love to feel with my lips the burning flesh of the sub I am beating!



IvyMorgan -> RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? (8/11/2008 10:25:00 AM)

I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't really *do* kissing.  Pecks I can deal with, anything more than that, and chances are I will be trying to get away.  It's not a fear of intimacy, it's a bit more complicated than that, and I can count on one hand the number of people I've kissed.  My first girlfriend, my "sir", and T.  In that last case, he asked, and it just felt right.  None of these have been D/s relationships.

You will have to pin me down and force me to kiss you.  It's far more intimate than fucking, that being an act that has very little emotion attached to it, if you're me.



Daddystouch -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 11:00:50 AM)

Love it. Need it.



sweetpeasmiles -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 11:06:49 AM)

Withholding kisses would be a terrible punishment. I don't even want to contemplate that!



CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 11:07:37 AM)

Nope... no kissing... but I'll whisper six-syllable words in your ear--then make you go look them up in the dictionary! [;)]*grins*

CFB



scorpius80 -> RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? (8/11/2008 11:13:42 AM)

six sylable words?????  I would love to look them up what are they?



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