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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/17/2008 9:35:51 AM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		Be aware that there is a 'known bug' on CM, that they have not quite worked out yet, which causes some accounts not to be able to send out mail. The mail zaps itself out of your mailbox, a very short while later it shows itself marked as 'read' - but it never arrives at its destination.
Other than that, I agree with the no profile being a problem. A mistress may wish to know more about you, and to feel that, if she put herself out there for you to know, then you should return the favor with a profile of your own before she writes you. A profile includes some information that you simply can't duplicate in a mail - like a link to your forum posts.
Most of all, though - no matter how carefully i 'follow the instructions', or how polite i am, i do not feel that someone i am contacting with an inital contact - with whom i have never had any interaction at all - owes me anything. I do think it is rude if they take the time to write me just to be rude - but, short of that, it's okay. Why wold i even be upset or offended? Did you really want to be in a relationship or even friendship with someon who you find that rude - or, if i convince you it is, in fact, not really rude, then, with somone who has absolutely zero interest in you? esp. if they felt able to determine that they had zero interest from my 2 paragraph note and my profile - if they feel that way, why would i want to spend more time persueing this?
I don't think it's rude - i think it is their right. Like when you say 'How's it going?' the the person in the next seat on the airplane and they respond by opening their magizine. Nothing rude about it - just their right.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/17/2008 10:31:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Who are these women?  Has no one ever taught them that snark is much more fun than just auto-blocking?

Amateurs. 




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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/17/2008 10:32:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have SO been loving the snark this week!    Though I have been deleting in equal numbers, or my hands would be all muscular from the extra typing...

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/17/2008 10:35:06 AM   
Pyrrsefanie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I have SO been loving the snark this week!    Though I have been deleting in equal numbers, or my hands would be all muscular from the extra typing...


Oh, amen to that.  There are some that are literally so bad I feel like I'd get dumber just by taking the time to reply with my preferred method of their death.  Sometimes I manage to choke out a "WTF?" in reply though.

And don't you just love the ones you snark out, and then copy and paste the exact same letter two months later to you?  THAT'S when I auto-block.


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/17/2008 10:40:44 AM   
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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/17/2008 6:50:37 PM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		You want him to look at the profiles AND try to find someone who matches his interests. Boy you do ask an awful lot from these poor guys.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/17/2008 6:55:49 PM   
Leatherist


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

This kind of thread really makes me crazy.  Last week I had a guy write me, and since I was feeling snarky, I wrote back and said that his time would be better spent looking for women who matched his interests.  I got a little LECTURE on how the slave's job was to find the needs of the dominant out.  How about by reading the profile?    He didn't respond to that, though he did go back and read!

Those who feel rejected by me have come back to lecture, and call me a fake, and rude, and all sorts of things.  Oh well.  I don't spend any time worrying about the perceptions of those who will never touch my life. 


Slave's job to find the needs of the dom out?

The same way it's the male doms need to find out what the slave wants?

In other words,the same old, "I'll do whatever it takes to get into your pants?"



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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/17/2008 9:04:37 PM   
chiaThePet


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Gee brad, wish I knew the answer. I mean all this time I was under the
impression that email replies were quite the calorie burning workout
for those seeking to lose a few extra inches. And one and two and click.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/18/2008 12:54:25 PM   
MissLily


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Status: offline 		Well..... after complaining on not receiving replies, it looks like brad vanished after receiving too many....

Imagine that.... Perhaps Dominas must answer his messages AND tell him what he wants to hear???

(aawww I know, I'm mean...)

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/18/2008 1:19:05 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Perhaps he can't find his hidden profile and is lost out there... poor guy. It's gotta be hard to top unsuccessfully.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/24/2008 9:28:01 AM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		I think a Mistress should do whatever she wants, whenever she wants, for whatever reason.

Get over it, skippy.  Move on.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/24/2008 11:38:31 AM   
Briena


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Status: offline 		I send rude emails back to people who refuse to read my profile and email me looking for something based of my likes and dislikes.  I HATE getting emails telling me how great a sub you would be or how great a Master you would be to me, all the while it says right there in big ol letters that IM NOT LOOKING IM HAPPILY MARRIED!  Thats why I send "rude" emails.  I, personally, think its rude to email someone without ever reading their profile telling you what they want and what they are looking for if anything.  So with not reading my profile you get a rude response, you deserved it.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/24/2008 12:02:48 PM   
Pyrrsefanie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Briena
I, personally, think its rude to email someone without ever reading their profile telling you what they want and what they are looking for if anything.  So with not reading my profile you get a rude response, you deserved it.


Quoted because this is pretty much my theory on it.


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/24/2008 2:09:05 PM   
littlesarbonn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: brad56

What do other Mistresses think of Mistresses who give detailed intstructions on how to approach them through collarme email and then rather than simply checking the no thank you quick response button they block you for no reason (e-mails were respectful and followed her guidelines)?  


What I find fascinating about this post is the same thing I find fascinating about pretty much EVERY post that starts out saying something like: "I'm interested in what the WOMEN have to say about this" and then they ask a question that really doesn't affect any women whatsoever. That's the case in this question. He's asking, what do other Mistresses think of a Mistress who gives detailed instructions to a submissive and then blocks them. Why would any other Mistress care?

This is another case where someone really should be addressing the question to other submissives, or the question needs to be changed to something I believe he's really trying to ask: "Do any of you Mistresses ALSO do this?"


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/24/2008 2:10:07 PM   
littlesarbonn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

did you accidentally attach a cock shot?


Accidentally? You mean it's not standard procedure????


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 2:33:10 PM   
rick19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Briena

I send rude emails back to people who refuse to read my profile and email me looking for something based of my likes and dislikes.  I HATE getting emails telling me how great a sub you would be or how great a Master you would be to me, all the while it says right there in big ol letters that IM NOT LOOKING IM HAPPILY MARRIED!  Thats why I send "rude" emails.  I, personally, think its rude to email someone without ever reading their profile telling you what they want and what they are looking for if anything.  So with not reading my profile you get a rude response, you deserved it.


I am not trying to be a dick but you shouldn't say that you will give a rude response on your profile, because most of these guys who send these messages get turned on by that. A lot of the guys who send their dick shots to the women on here know they are going to get snarky and hateful responses, and it is exactly what they want. They aren't here to actually meet anyone. There is no need to give them free humiliation sessions. Just a bit of advice.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 2:48:54 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

did you accidentally attach a cock shot?


This had me snort laughing. What can I say, I am tired and feeling silly.


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 2:48:55 PM   
Pyrrsefanie


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ORIGINAL: rick19

I am not trying to be a dick but you shouldn't say that you will give a rude response on your profile, because most of these guys who send these messages get turned on by that. A lot of the guys who send their dick shots to the women on here know they are going to get snarky and hateful responses, and it is exactly what they want. They aren't here to actually meet anyone. There is no need to give them free humiliation sessions. Just a bit of advice.



#1: I don't need your advice, I've heard this argument made before.

#2: If a guy wants to jack off to being told I want somebody to skin him alive and then eat his liver with fava beans and a nice chianti, more power to him.

Actually since I posted that I will verbally fuck people up for bothering me, I've gotten about a quarter of the messages I usually get.  Being a complete bitch pays off!


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 5:32:23 PM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

quote:

ORIGINAL: rick19

I am not trying to be a dick but you shouldn't say that you will give a rude response on your profile, because most of these guys who send these messages get turned on by that. A lot of the guys who send their dick shots to the women on here know they are going to get snarky and hateful responses, and it is exactly what they want. They aren't here to actually meet anyone. There is no need to give them free humiliation sessions. Just a bit of advice.



#1: I don't need your advice, I've heard this argument made before.
Are you Briena?

#2: If a guy wants to jack off to being told I want somebody to skin him alive and then eat his liver with fava beans and a nice chianti, more power to him.
Actually I thought he had a good point about not feeding the trolls, however if it makes you feel better to vent, by all means have fun with it. Just don't come back and bitch about the emails you get.

Actually since I posted that I will verbally fuck people up for bothering me, I've gotten about a quarter of the messages I usually get.  Being a complete bitch pays off!
I imagine that would work, I certainly wouldn't bother.



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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 5:38:58 PM   
MissIsis


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Status: offline 		I really don't think anything either way about them.  I have more important things to muddle through, than worrying about what kind of interaction other mistresses are having with potential submissives. 

I think the more important question is to ask yourself, why are you bothering spending your time upset over someone you don't know & have had almost no interaction with

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