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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 5:45:01 PM   
rick19


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 5:46:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
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He mentioned in his original post that we shouldn't say we'll give rude responses on our profiles.  I am one of the people who has such a thing on my profile, as does Briena.

Sorry if I misunderstood, but I thought he was speaking generally about it.



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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 5:59:14 PM   
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I think the more important question is to ask yourself, why are you bothering spending your time upset over someone you don't know & have had almost no interaction with


Or an even more important question to ask yourself is, why do the majority of dommes hang on these sites for all this time while getting loads of offers? Could it be their expectations are dysfunctional for the majority and not particularly the fault from the subs? In all cases when I see this topic, its ALWAYS the men’s fault.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 6:12:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rick19

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ORIGINAL: Briena

I send rude emails back to people who refuse to read my profile and email me looking for something based of my likes and dislikes.  I HATE getting emails telling me how great a sub you would be or how great a Master you would be to me, all the while it says right there in big ol letters that IM NOT LOOKING IM HAPPILY MARRIED!  Thats why I send "rude" emails.  I, personally, think its rude to email someone without ever reading their profile telling you what they want and what they are looking for if anything.  So with not reading my profile you get a rude response, you deserved it.


I am not trying to be a dick but you shouldn't say that you will give a rude response on your profile, because most of these guys who send these messages get turned on by that. A lot of the guys who send their dick shots to the women on here know they are going to get snarky and hateful responses, and it is exactly what they want. They aren't here to actually meet anyone. There is no need to give them free humiliation sessions. Just a bit of advice.



I dont respond to dick picks, I automaticly block them.  As for the rest, I dont much get subs asking for things its mostly Doms.  If a Dom is looking to be humiliated... Maybe he has attatched himself to the wrong title.  Subs, normally I just ignore without a response or I tell them to go read my profile.  I mostly have issues with a Dom telling me how he wants to do this and that and how I would make such a great pet.  They are always the best emails.  I like how they take the time to write out a 5 paragraph email without ever reading my profile.  Normally I dont get responses back, and if on the few occasions I do, they have all been "Well youre a bitch" kinds of emails.  If thats them getting turned on, well I hope they enjoy their woody and "the stranger".

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 6:18:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

He mentioned in his original post that we shouldn't say we'll give rude responses on our profiles.  I am one of the people who has such a thing on my profile, as does Briena.



Yes... Yes I do... Its rather mean... People who dont read profiles and just send emails are irritating... I try to make it clear what I want... Or I should say what I DONT want... Because I dont want a lot of things... I say so right there in my profile if douche bags would just take 5 seconds to read it... Sad if they get offended by what I say... But atleast they get the point... I mean I dont know how much more clear one can be... If the words "FUCK OFF" are not clear enough than I dont know what is...

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 6:19:40 PM   
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If the words "FUCK OFF" are not clear enough than I dont know what is...


"FUCK OFF" in 72-point flashing red bold italicized underlined type perhaps? 

Who am I kidding, they'd probably ignore that too.


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 6:29:11 PM   
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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 6:30:57 PM   
Pyrrsefanie


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ORIGINAL: Briena

HAHA! No but it is in green???  Does that count for something?


Oh God maybe they're all colorblind! 


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/26/2008 6:37:00 PM   
Briena


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/27/2008 10:21:37 PM   
LadySunn


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 3:43:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

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I think the more important question is to ask yourself, why are you bothering spending your time upset over someone you don't know & have had almost no interaction with


Or an even more important question to ask yourself is, why do the majority of dommes hang on these sites for all this time while getting loads of offers? Could it be their expectations are dysfunctional for the majority and not particularly the fault from the subs? In all cases when I see this topic, its ALWAYS the men’s fault.


In case you hadn't noticed........most of the dominant women on this site already have one or two subs/slaves. At least those that I can think of here on the forums. We don't really neeeeeeeeeed another yet, horror of all horrors we actually have a life beyond torturing pooooor helpless little slaves. Even worse, we enjoy communicating with others. I know, tough concept for some but there you have it.

Perhaps THAT is a large part of the frustration I am seeing?

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 11:40:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
Summary: "he wasn't talking to you"


He mentioned in his original post that we shouldn't say we'll give rude responses on our profiles.  I am one of the people who has such a thing on my profile, as does Briena.

Sorry if I misunderstood, but I thought he was speaking generally about it.




Pyrrsefanie answered my polite message with a polite reply. As has every other lady i have sent a message. I really dont know how some of you guys are getting rude cmails.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 11:41:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: bottomboy81

quote:

I think the more important question is to ask yourself, why are you bothering spending your time upset over someone you don't know & have had almost no interaction with


Or an even more important question to ask yourself is, why do the majority of dommes hang on these sites for all this time while getting loads of offers? Could it be their expectations are dysfunctional for the majority and not particularly the fault from the subs? In all cases when I see this topic, its ALWAYS the men’s fault.


In case you hadn't noticed........most of the dominant women on this site already have one or two subs/slaves. At least those that I can think of here on the forums. We don't really neeeeeeeeeed another yet, horror of all horrors we actually have a life beyond torturing pooooor helpless little slaves. Even worse, we enjoy communicating with others. I know, tough concept for some but there you have it.

Perhaps THAT is a large part of the frustration I am seeing?


That is so true.  It never occurs to them that we might not be looking for anything, maybe we are just here for the forums, or the chat rooms.  They think that when you say "Just looking for friends" means that you want more.  They have issues accepting facts.  Just because I am here looking for friends doesnt mean I want to take on a sub, or a Dom for that matter.  Looking for friends means just that, I am looking to make new friends, and communicate with like minded folks.  Hard concept to grasp for some, I know, but still what I am looking for none the less.

< Message edited by Briena -- 8/28/2008 11:42:45 AM >

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 11:45:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
Summary: "he wasn't talking to you"


He mentioned in his original post that we shouldn't say we'll give rude responses on our profiles.  I am one of the people who has such a thing on my profile, as does Briena.

Sorry if I misunderstood, but I thought he was speaking generally about it.




Pyrrsefanie answered my polite message with a polite reply. As has every other lady i have sent a message. I really dont know how some of you guys are getting rude cmails.


SHHHHH!  Dont tell them that!  Youre going to destroy her image of being a bitch!!!  ;) 

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 12:58:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Pyrrsefanie answered my polite message with a polite reply. As has every other lady i have sent a message. I really dont know how some of you guys are getting rude cmails.


Indeed. I've really only received one message from a female here that I'd even consider close to being rude, but even with that one, I just don't think she realized how her comments came off, and I believe it was quite accidental.

I also get a surprising amount of unsolicited email from men who are searching for someone, and I can say that I've come to realize how aggravating dealing with some of those writers can be. They often either persist, change their wants and needs on the fly, or just become irritated when they are turned away, no matter how carefully you word it, and in my experience, many obviously do not read the profiles or simply disregard them before they send out a message. If this weren't true, then they surely would not be contacting me as a prospect.

I can't even imagine how the dominant women here deal with that, considering the sheer volume of mail they receive on the site.

I just think if anyone should be taking the heat (or at least a good portion of it) it should be the folks who are constantly being sloppy and annoying with their messaging habits. They are often times the cause of this issue.



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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 1:11:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: E2Sweet

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Pyrrsefanie answered my polite message with a polite reply. As has every other lady i have sent a message. I really dont know how some of you guys are getting rude cmails.

Indeed. I've really only received one message from a female here that I'd even consider close to being rude, but even with that one, I just don't think she realized how her comments came off, and I believe it was quite accidental.

I agree strongly with this.  I'll use the evilmean Pyrssefanie as an example, too.  I like wacky, world music, and she sent me some great ideas for Ukrainian bands to check out, and links to get their stuff for cheaper than, say, Amazon.  Of course, I failed to include the section in my letter where I told her to drop that loser fiance of hers and hit on me instead, omg mistress please please.

For guys who want to get noticed, the solution is "simple": do something above and beyond what other men are doing.  Online, post on the message boards and make sense.  In real life, volunteer at events, instead of just attending.


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 1:51:24 PM   
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... I'll use the evilmean Pyrssefanie as an example, too.  I like wacky, world music, and she sent me some great ideas for Ukrainian bands to check out, and links to get their stuff for cheaper than, say, Amazon.  Of course, I failed to include the section in my letter where I told her to drop that loser fiance of hers and hit on me instead, omg mistress please please...


I hear what you're sayin'!

There are a couple female dominants here that I'd very much like to cozy up to and clean a spot off of their floors with my backside, but they each live 1000+ miles away. In my moments of weakness, I'm often tempted to foward each of them my canned list of top ten lies... err, I mean reasons Ohio is a great place to start anew, but I always seem to come to my senses and refrain from hitting the "Send" button...



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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 1:57:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Pyrrsefanie answered my polite message with a polite reply. As has every other lady i have sent a message. I really dont know how some of you guys are getting rude cmails.


Indeed. I've really only received one message from a female here that I'd even consider close to being rude, but even with that one, I just don't think she realized how her comments came off, and I believe it was quite accidental.




I actually cannot ever remember getting a rude email. Moreso in the forums I've gotten the snarky "your just a woman and therefor not a "real" dominant" type attitude. Sadly it's usually the goreans females but again, I've learned to just ignore and move on.


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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 2:19:00 PM   
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Get over it, skippy.  Move on.

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RE: Rude Mistresses - 8/28/2008 2:19:23 PM   
E2Sweet


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I actually cannot ever remember getting a rude email. Moreso in the forums I've gotten the snarky "your just a woman and therefor not a "real" dominant" type attitude. Sadly it's usually the goreans females but again, I've learned to just ignore and move on.


Well.... You could probably twist my arm and talk me into sending you a rude email, but it would have to be consensual... There's always something to be said about being someone's first.... oh, and I also have a ten-point list I could attach that you might find interesting...


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