lilsubl
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**FR** i am like so many others who have responded...i've had my one & it didn't work out the way i thought would bring me that happily ever after...in fact i had 2 shots at it with him...like Level said, love can definitely last a lifetime...i know because i have loved the same man since 1974...our relationship has changed & evolved over the years until now we are much like sister & brother...we still love each other deeply & are integral parts of each other's lives... after he & i "broke up" the second time, i felt something inside of me had broken & it has taken me all these years to finally let someone else in...& this relationship isn't based on love at all...i've been alone more of my life than i have been in relationships with others, unless you count Mr. Cat & Spike the Amazing Wonder Dog...i suffer from chronic, lifelong depression & anxiety, but many who know me apply the Pollyanna label to me, because i nearly always choose happiness over misery, & insist on seeing the bright side of things...sometimes i forget & fall through a hole, but as soon as i can, i'm right back up again...i've had my share of trauma & tragedy, but i've also had more than my share of joy...i feel blessed for all that has been given to me in this life, including the trauma & tragedy, because out of that, i have become me & i will make every attempt to continue to be happy ever after with me & my family & friends who i adore......
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