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RE: Being Busy!! - 8/26/2008 9:15:17 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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Dang!!..I feel like such a SLUG!...I have no problem with relaxing (as in hardly doing much of anything but watching a movie or reading..napping is great!..)..But when I read about people who relax by doing things that need or they wish to get accomplished..I am kind of envious..I have so much I could do rather than relax and read or what have you..that I tend to beat myself up about it..but then I shrug and tell my self balance in all things...so essentially I guess I relax and beat myself up for it as well...does this mean I am mind fucking myself???..:0)..Tempting

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RE: Being Busy!! - 8/26/2008 10:17:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: ExSteelAgain

Knight, you and Creative Dominant are working way too much. Both of you need to reevaluate your careers and goals in life. A comet is on the way and going to blast us all sooner or later in any case.

Relax and find something that gives you more time to play. It may happen that if things work out right, the more time you have off, the more money you make.

But see, that is part of the problem Steel...for the most part, I LIKE my patients. I love having someone walk in bent over, begging "Doc...I can't straighten up" and seeing them go out with a big smile saying "Damn Doc...I love you". The sadistic but caring side loves hearing them groan when I hit that just-right spot in the muscle. The humorous side of me loves hearing "Sheeeeeeeeeeesh Doc, are you SURE I am supposed to stretch this way?" I HATE the friggin' paperwork and once I get my divorce debts paid off...next year, yea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...I am seriously thinking of bringing a girl in to do it again. I am also looking at teaching my own class so I can get away from the office and Colorado at least one weekend a month. Teaching DOES relax me and gives me the pleasure of interacting with other doctors and passing on what I have learned in 25 years. Plus, if I am lucky, I will be able to meet others from collarme when I go out to teach. It seems that there are dominants and submissives and switches from a great many states that I am acquainted with or am friends with and I would love to be able to go out to dinner and coffee and dessert with them after a day of teaching.

CD, it sounds like you are on the right track now. I worked very hard for a few years, academically and financially to get in a position where I don’t have to work so hard and yet make more. I work now, but I can pick my shots because of my knowledge and experience. Some on here who know me laugh at the few hours I actually go to the office, but I know what I’m doing to the nth degree.

In other words, as with you, I enjoy what I do now and don’t work that hard. I think it is okay, even desired, to work hard if you have a plan to put yourself in a position that gives you what you want as you are doing. Delayed gratification.

Just don’t get hung up in the feeling that you have to work harder than everyone else even when you don't have to. That’s an easy habit to develop.

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