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Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 9:54:56 PM   
WhiplashSmile2


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Status: offline 		I feel like ranting for a moment.  I've not been liking some of the horror stories I've been hearing about so called DOMs.  

In fact, I have changed my mind some regarding the real and true DOM debate.  Why?  Because when somebody shares with me details about somebody and what was don or is being done, and find it provokes anger within me.  Well, OK.. I honestly know for certain I'm not all that accepting about things.

Actually, it's perhaps this not a DOM issue.  It's perhaps more of an issue I have with Assholes, Idiots and those who have no fucking form of self control.  Worse yet, those that should excerise self control but don't give a rats ass.

I have spent a great deal of time in my life, using self control and keeping myself in check.   Even when I've been drinking, I am mentally working with self control.  However, I know this is not realistic for some people though.  That I can accept. But not really, I have very little tolerence for people that drink and can't maintain control of themselves.  They should not be drinking.

Anyhoo...  The Crazy Stalker Bastards that leave 100+ phone calls, dig deep into other people's family lives, and plot and plan.  Where you can't help your friggen selves.  You guys are fucking NUT JOBS..  Wake up smell the coffee.  Get some D in your D plan.  Meaning some friggen "Discipline"!   Personally, I'd just soon cage all your asses up, and engage in some Real True Torture.   You type of guys bring out a Deep Ugly Sadist inside of me.  The kind that dreams of Razor Blades, Lemon Juice, Plexiglass Cages filled with fire Ants.   This is how badly, I dispise you kind of DOMs out there. 

I also hate DOMs that find some Submissve with Children, and you start to FREE Load off from her.  Making her pay for your Cell phone bill, Pay for your Drug and Alcohol habits, Pay for your travel expenses and everything else.  While in the mean time, she goes without and her children go without.   I really hate people that don't look at the Big Picture of Cause and effect.   This includes submissives that support such friggen Dead Beat Lazy Ass loosers.  Even more so when there are children involved!   This form of D/s is simply BS in my book.

I'm not such an OPEN minded guy afterall.   Hell, in fact I refuse to be Open Minded about some of the crap that people Pull off and do in the name of "the Lifestyle".

There's more I could rant about... But I think this small little slice is enough for the moment.

This is the type of stuff that just makes me want to drive rusty nails through testicals.

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 9:59:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		unethical people regardless of orientation or lifestyle are people I prefer not to be around.

I guess I am rather close-minded on the issue

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:02:40 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		. This not a Dom issue............ this  is a character issue Some folks are dicks, some are not.

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:05:17 PM   
quinta


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Status: offline 		I agree that there are a lot of bad-fake Doms out there, that try to take advantage of people. I also agree that it's best not to associate w/ the stalker types (to much time on their hands) and thoses that don't think of others. If a Dom doesn't think about what's important to their submissive or slave's life-- they probably aren't thinking about the sub/slave's needs either.  Some people take self-centeredness to far.

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:05:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2

<snippage> 

This is the type of stuff that just makes me want to drive rusty nails through testicals.


Yeeeks!!!

I don't have any of the threatened bits, but the mind-pic, yowtchies!

Me gathers there be some behind-the-scenes which has provoked this particular rant?

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:06:55 PM   
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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:08:13 PM   
TiedDreams


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Status: offline 		Any predator is still a predator...some are parasites too. Add narcissim and a distorted view of themselves...voila disaster time. The sad thing is; a submissive shouldn't feel she failed because it isn't working.  She may have used good bait...just caught a turd fish instead of something more edible.
It does work both ways unfortunately...there are wounded crippled people who are desperate to attach themselves to a ray of hope...or a free meal ticket. Honeymoon's over all too soon when it isn't an honest pairing.
So I guess this might be one of those defining moments of trueness...? Motive, integrity, purpose, self control, independance, self control and discipline. 
Being adpet at WOW is not measure of success in real life; nor is the depth of lies and manipulation one uses to hide their reality.  Drug abuse is a disease of lies and deceit...as is predatory lifestyling.

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:11:47 PM   
DrFaustus


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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:13:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kiyari

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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2

<snippage> 

This is the type of stuff that just makes me want to drive rusty nails through testicals.


Yeeeks!!!

I don't have any of the threatened bits, but the mind-pic, yowtchies!

Me gathers there be some behind-the-scenes which has provoked this particular rant?


Oh, yeah, I am torn asunder.

Here's the fuckin' news, kiddies.  Everybody feels and everbody has heard stories, and before you get too fucking upset you should be able to spell testes and their various sorts of speech before you are given the black belt to rip them off, what you heard, may not be the exact deal, you testicle.

Don't be a pair.

Ron

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:15:25 PM   
sasseeNshy


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Status: offline 		Bad Doms...bad subs.......there is much more power and self-worth to be had when one takes accountability for their own actions....and that applies to both sides of the equasion.  There is not always someone to blame.....except perhaps oneself.  (speaking from experience)

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:16:34 PM   
kiyari


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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

This just in:  people suck.

Now here's Tom with the weather.



Hmmm.

Perhaps you might qualify that with (betimes) people suck, AND NOT IN A GOOD WAY.

Although, personally, I do not have a high regard for humankind just generally.
Mayhaps we are more in accord than not...

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:18:33 PM   
kiyari


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ORIGINAL: NumberSix
Oh, yeah, I am torn asunder.

Here's the fuckin' news, kiddies. 

Everybody feels and everbody has heard stories, and before you get too fucking upset you should be able to spell testes and their various sorts of speech before you are given the black belt to rip them off, what you heard, may not be the exact deal, you testicle.

Don't be a pair.

Ron


Umm... aighty, sweetie. Was that a criticism based upon spelling?

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:19:01 PM   
LAChristiansub


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Status: offline 		I also don't think it's just Dom men who treat women with kids that way -- taking advantage of them financially as described in the OP.  Plus, being sub is NOT equal to being stupid, IMO, and so I think a sub needs to know when she is being taken complete advantage of by a man, even if he seems to do it thinking calling himself her Dom gives him a get out of jail free card. 

I just have a problem with any kind of over generalizations or broad statements that can lead to assumptions if not pre-judgments.  Horror stories are not exclusive to Doms, men, or CM.

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:26:23 PM   
WhiplashSmile2


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ORIGINAL: NumberSix

quote:

ORIGINAL: kiyari

quote:


ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2

<snippage> 

This is the type of stuff that just makes me want to drive rusty nails through testicals.


Yeeeks!!!

I don't have any of the threatened bits, but the mind-pic, yowtchies!

Me gathers there be some behind-the-scenes which has provoked this particular rant?


Oh, yeah, I am torn asunder.

Here's the fuckin' news, kiddies.  Everybody feels and everbody has heard stories, and before you get too fucking upset you should be able to spell testes and their various sorts of speech before you are given the black belt to rip them off, what you heard, may not be the exact deal, you testicle.

Don't be a pair.

Ron


OH damn, I should slow down run things through spell check.  Perhaps I should have just said "through the balls" instead.  Regardless of the spelling mistakes, I think most people are smart enough to figure it out.

There's a difference between hearing a story third hand or after a fact, or when a friend breaks the news to you about what has really been going on.  Basically, when the Horror stories start to hit a little too close to home.   OK, some people simply lack common sense and judgement.

I'm sorry, I don't think Spelling is a friggen Prerequisite for obtaining a Black Belt, unless one wants to become a Master at Spelling Bee Competitions.   Does spelling in some way hamper or impair somebody from ripping balls off?  Mmmm.... faulty logic.  Some of us that don't alway spell correctly or use proper Grammer even have thoughts that are worthy.

The meaning of what is being written, verses passing it into to be graded for spelling and grammar mistakes.  Strange, I did'nt realize this was on online classroom.   If it is, the teacher sure ain't around half the time.   I used that dirty word "ain't"and it used to invoke Aneurysms in high school english teachers at one time.

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:26:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		What about "subs" who pull the same sort of shit?

Do you really think being an asshat is linked to a particular role?

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:32:58 PM   
E2Sweet


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Status: offline 		One way to often avoid being victimized (as described in the OP) is to not behave in a way that makes you an easy target. Keeping people and vices out of your life that inevitably lead to the situations described in the OP seems to be a wise thing to do.

Edited for grammar.


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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:33:43 PM   
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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:36:11 PM   
kiyari


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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2

OH damn, I should slow down run things through spell check. 

<snipped>


Don't be challenging Ron, he is the Court Jester here (and for all we know, in his cups at this hour).

Any twue CC poster, knows and luvs our... Number 6

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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:38:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kiyari

Don't be challenging Ron, he is the Court Jester here (and for all we know, in his cups at this hour).

Any twue CC poster, knows and luvs our... Number 6


He makes me laugh in a good way. 


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RE: Dom Horror stories - 8/22/2008 10:40:11 PM   
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Ron:  Oh, yeah, I am torn asunder.

Here's the fuckin' news, kiddies.  Everybody feels and everbody has heard stories, and before you get too fucking upset you should be able to spell testes and their various sorts of speech before you are given the black belt to rip them off, what you heard, may not be the exact deal, you testicle.

Don't be a pair.

Ron


Amen, brother.  Also, have an effing profile before you rant on about how awful the Dom world must be.  

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