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RE: Teenage Dommes? - 9/4/2008 1:55:36 PM

Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

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Of course a 19 or 20 yo wants to be spoiled with $$$ btu that surely doesnt mean that they are not capable of totally controlling a sub,most have been controlling men for some time and just not knowing it was topping.

Well, that's the crux: the vast majority of women that young who call themselves dominant are simply interested in milking a cash cow. There's no real dominance involved; they are simply providing a service. If men are willing to give them money knowing that they are buying an illusion, then everyone should go away happy.

There's a difference in being a pro domme who actually has an interest in domination, and just doing it because it's fairly easy money. As for there being more younger pro dommes than older women... it's because most mens idea of a 'dominatrix' is a young woman all in leather and latex and whips galore. *shrug*

Supply and demand and all of that mess.

Do I get paid for being a pro domme? Yes. I'm not going to run around providing free service for anyone who wants to play. Does it make me a spoiled silly little whore? I'd like to think not.

My point was that many of these women have no interest in domination, they just want to go through the motions to collect the cash. I wasn't referring to those genuinely inclined towards D/s, but who also provide domination as a paid service.

I don't know if anyone else called you a spoiled silly little whore; I know I didn't, and, quite frankly, I couldn't care less if you were. I have nothing against pro-dommes, I just have no desire to turn the thing I love into the daily grind. And my understanding from several of the pro-dommes I know is that it often does become a daily grind. Perhaps that is another reason why so many men find going to a pro to be unfulfilling on an emotional level.

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RE: Teenage Dommes? - 9/5/2008 1:26:24 AM

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Well, here's just another vote for the "Age is no guide to maturity" camp. Some people learn and mature as they get older. Some never do. Some people start out with a lot of wisdom and maturity, and/or get a LOT of experience of life from a young age.

And age is not guide to someone's motives when posting a "Domme" profile. Some people see acting dominant as a meal ticket. There's a long tradition of pretty young girls using older men even outside D/s, but it's not confined to one gender or age group - there are also a fair few vanilla guys happy to scrounge off a more affluent partner.

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RE: Teenage Dommes? - 9/5/2008 5:39:28 AM

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You can get experience at a young age but most are not mature enough to process that information. Many young Dom/Domme really don't have a clue to the consequences of their actions. We are on the subject of young not old here.

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RE: Teenage Dommes? - 9/5/2008 2:47:12 PM

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I dont know. I have been into BDSM since I first started having sex. I started to study, and learn about the lifestyle. I tried to better myself in it. By 19 I had much practice as not only a Domme but as a sub as well. By 19 I had already been in the military for a year, I had been self supporting since about 16. Living on my own and working, doing what I had to do to get by. Age is nothing but a number in many many cases. I agree that everything is on a case by case basis. You cant just group everyone together in an age range and say thats how they ALL are. Ive been messaged by many older folk who really havent got a clue. They are just as fake as the 19 year olds wanting financal support. Domination is a mind set, you either are, or you arent. Just as submission is a mind set. If there is a 19 year old woman stating that she is a Domme, who am I to say otherwise? Until I meet her in person, she is what she claims to be. I have no proof to the fact that she is a "fake".

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