Wolf1020
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From: Anderson, SC
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I'm 20 and I find women in their mid 20's to early 30's attract me most but I do try to cap myself at 30 for anything more then a friend or perhaps occasional play partner where I would be more open to women who are older then that. And a woman in her 50's? Sure there's a possibility I might find her attractive but someone that much older then my mother I don't think I could even be play partners with. Right now a woman who is say 40 might not make that much difference. But in ten years? Twenty years? When I am forty she would be sixty could the two of us live with an age gap that big then even if it isn't a problem now? I think in the long term when selecting a partner for a relationship and not just for play partners.
Why is it for me I find women older then myself more attractive? Two main reasons.
First being looks an 18 year old isn't always grown into herself. I like a woman who has some curves or a little extra padding and to me while I might look at a living Barbie doll and a few thoughts might come to mind, I find a woman that is a bit more figured to be MUCH more attractive. Is that to say slightly older women let themselves go? No, it just seems to me they grow into their bodies and fill out their curves much better then younger women who are 18 or 19. Is it to say I have never found an 18 or 19 year old woman attractive? Of course not I find many of them attractive. But in general, I find women in their mid 20's early 30's more attractive then a good bit of their younger counterparts. They just have better bodies in my opinion.
Second is intellect. I am a mature person and I like partners who are the same. I wont automatically disqualify someone of being mature for being young but in general I just tend to get along with better a few years older then myself. Why is that? Don't really know its probably a bunch of little reasons that just mesh better together. And I find that a lot of women my own age are still go out and have fun types. While the reverse can be true in that there are older women like that and younger women more like me in general that is what I find. I'm more of a homebody, or when I go out I prefer places like restaurants, movie theater, museum, etc. I despise clubs and places like that and in general I find more women a bit older then myself share the same interest's. Maybe that's just who they are? Maybe they have had their play time and want to be more settled? Who knows the reasons are as numerous probably as their are people it is just want I generally seem to find.
So to me I personally find women in their mid 20's to early 30's the most attractive both in looks and intellect when considering relationship potential.
As to the why cant they understand no no no...well that one is more complicated because there are many reasons. There are some of the more shallow ones though that come to mind. One is thinking they are the hottest thing this side of Satan's hairy nut sack, "there is no way this old broad is turning down me a hot young stud like me" type of thing. A lot of guys my age are that stupid and self absorbed. Another is they are used to being able to nag and eventually get what they want, sad as it is it's becoming the society that we live in that getting you in the sack is translated to that before dinner cookie mommy gave into after enough whining and gave it to them to shut them up. Can also be simply shallow you are older and presumably more intelligent on how to spot people who only want one thing from you, have a warm spot between your legs, and would make a nice addition to their list of victories. Then again maybe they just don't speak English.
Personally to me no is no. If we continue talking I might flirt a bit that's just how I am, but I'm not going to jump on you like a needy dog and hump your leg like some of these guys that can't take no for an answer.
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