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Are there any venues where you can meet available domms? - 9/2/2008 10:16:43 AM   
JackSlash


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Status: offline 		Is there anyway to meet available domms in person? Kind of like a social club. I am new to this and feel my intentions come off more in person, and would feel it is easier to eet people face to face first. So that intentions and stuff come across the right way. I am not suggesting one on one first meetings, I mean like a place where a person trying to get into the life style can introduce himself in person.
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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 10:31:38 AM   
Icarys


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would feel it is easier to eet people face to face first


Was that a Freudian, Dahmer..being that your name is JackSlash and all.

Try googling it in your area..Where are you from? How about contacting a Domme in your area on CM?

Good Luck

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 10:34:10 AM   
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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 10:54:41 AM   
UmbraDomina


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Status: offline 		you could always try local munches/events/meetings, and when you feel comfortable play parties in your general area. Those are all face to face venues, but they are not meat markets.
There are no "dom marts" or "DomsRus".
If you are strictly looking for just play, or to try out your kinks, not a developing releationship with a dominant woman, I would strongly suggest visiting a pro-dom who will provide a safe place for you to expiriment with your kinks, try them on for size, see if they are what you want to try, or just a erotic fantasy.



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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 11:04:17 AM   
Icarys


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't suggest you pay for what will be given. Go to the munches like she suggests but stay away from the money grubbers.

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 11:38:58 AM   
TwoNYCDommes


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Status: offline 		Your profile indicates you live in NYC.  There is a wide variety of BDSM organizations in the city, including http://www.tes.org/.  People of all genders, orientations, and statuses attend TES meetings and events, including "available domms."

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 11:39:41 AM   
UmbraDomina


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I wouldn't suggest you pay for what will be given. Go to the munches like she suggests but stay away from the money grubbers.


I would not call all or even most pro's money grubbers.They provide a service for funds.
The reason I suggested a pro is simple........ in a developing releationship with a dominant woman, you have no guarentee of play,( so you can explore your kinks.) while with a pro you do
In a releationship take a woman for a few dinners, and you have spent easy what a pro dom costs..... and with the releationship if you are brand new and have never had interactions with a dominant woman a couple things could happen......including but not limited to the first time she actually ties you up, snatches you ball sac up near your chest, beats you with a can, pisses on you or what ever...... you scream nooooooooooooooo and relize this was just a fantasy and not something you actual want in real life.
I am not saying everyone should visit a prodom, but if you are just looking to figgure out ok do I like a,b and c, or do I like q,r,s, and in what combo a pro session would work well for that as most non-pro ladies don't exactly let the sub choose what they want to try.

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 11:45:31 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		prodom=no sex, no orgasm, no jerk off.

non-pro=chance for all of the above...this is why guys often spend alot of money on said dinners and outings.   and chance for a relationship.


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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 11:52:55 AM   
UmbraDomina


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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

prodom=no sex, no orgasm, no jerk off.

non-pro=chance for all of the above...this is why guys often spend alot of money on said dinners and outings.   and chance for a relationship.



Very true Faery, I was refering to exploration of fetish/kinks, not sex. If sex if the expected outcome....... well thats a whole other "kettle of fish".
I was not saying someone should not explore a releationship, I was saying if you don't know if it is for you, and your not sure, try a pro, explore in a controled arena.... also it saves wasteing the time of a non pro dominant woman. :)

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 11:58:38 AM   
ElanSubdued


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prodom=no sex, no orgasm, no jerk off.

non-pro=chance for all of the above...this is why guys often spend alot of money on said dinners and outings.   and chance for a relationship.


I'm not meaning to bust your chops here Faery.  For me, I take a woman to dinner and for outings because I *like* her and because we enjoy each other's company.  It really has little to do with sex, orgasms, and masturbation.  (Alright.  I'll admit that "like" sometimes turns into mutual "lust" in which case there may be sex, orgasms, and masturbation for her... for me... for us both.  Just sayin'. :-)

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 12:01:02 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I go both ways on this.  As a pro and a non pro dominant, I have been the first bdsm experience for...oh, more than a few people.  Many of them still talk to me, so I guess things went well.     

It helps that I am a "casual" player---a scene is not a commitment for me, and I don't have sex with play partners, so I don't require a lot of wining and dining.  I DO require entertainment and attention, so I guess that's just as bad!  I don't mind helping a person I LIKE explore various bdsm activities, under my parameters.  (Pesky stuff, like I stay dressed the whole time... I am SUCH a spoilsport!)   I know that there are other casual players out there who will play with someone who is open and honest about his  interests. 

As  a pro,  I got dressed in the fancy outfits, and had use of lovely furniture.  I still stayed dressed the whole time!  But, the guy was not obligated to pay attention to me at all outside the session.  He got his fun, I got some aerobic activity, some fun, and defrayed my overhead.   Whatever works. 



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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 12:16:46 PM   
UmbraDomina


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Status: offline 		holy chit.......... my beloved hubbypet just called me and asked if he could take me out to dinner tonight........he wants to wine and dine me......... oh crap........ do you think he wants a little boomchikkawowow?
*laughs* it's just a joke, no one get freaked out....... plus he is on orgasm denial for a month for being a brat, so it doesn't matter.....lol

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 1:04:24 PM   
Icarys


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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 1:49:38 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Your darling hubby, a BRAT?  Imagine!

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 1:58:13 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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and for outings because I *like* her and because we enjoy each other's company.


thus why i said CHANCE FOR RELATIONSHIP.




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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 3:45:04 PM   
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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 3:53:26 PM   
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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 4:13:12 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 4:29:15 PM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		uhmm... you live in NYC -- if you can't find a venue there.. you're not walking out your front door...

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RE: Are there any venues where you can meet available d... - 9/2/2008 4:31:52 PM   
Madame4a


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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I wouldn't suggest you pay for what will be given. Go to the munches like she suggests but stay away from the money grubbers.


That's an ugly and uncalled for characterization.. you might want to get out more and you'll realize pro dommes are simply professional women who get paid for what they do.. and rarely enough, as far as I'm concerned...

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