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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 1:14:26 PM

LilWhiteWolf

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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

my Master is my only friend. because he restricts my contact/communication with the outside world, having a "vanilla" friend would be next to impossible as i do not go anywhere without him to meet such people.

i am sorry but i must say something...i was in a relationship like that and it lead to a lot of mental abuse...the first sign of mental abuse is to isolate someone from family and friends. and you said you are a slave so he not obligated to look out for your well being? im sorry but yes he is !!! please open up your eyes...
i might take heat on this post but it won't be the first time

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 1:33:47 PM

ErosPsyche

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ORIGINAL: candystripper

JMO..but i find this a red flag, not to mention detrimental to your general well-being.

candystripper

JMO..but I find your incessant, long-distance judgement and critiques of other people's relationships disgusting.

JMO though :)

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 1:39:05 PM

AbstractSavant

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I'm a member of a local TNG group, and that keeps me around people of all sorts of BDSM orientations...many of whom I am close friends with.

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 1:53:56 PM

plantlady64

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Hello There,
In ym eight month journey I've found people in general to be way more friendly and open about discussing who they are, what they think and what they're about. I've also found people in BDSM societies to be more balanced and accepting than a lot of other vanilla groups I participate in.
What I also am having a herd time finding is real day to day friends. You know the ones who just drop by and visit or go do vanilla things with.

I think it's due to us all being so busy in our own schedules that when we do have free time we go and play somewhere as our vanilla lives take a back seat to play time when free time presents itself.

I agree with you it's a hard crowd to really establish a long term real friendship in.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 1:58:16 PM

AbstractSavant

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I think these are hard times to really establish long term real friendship in, BDSM lifestyle notwithstanding.

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 2:08:01 PM

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Do you have several sub and/or slave friends that you visit with and have a good friendships with? , Just one good sub/slave friend? or have you had a hard time finding a close friend like me?

I have one sub friend. Though I have recently started attending local munches and hope to make more. I find it hard to meet other sub females online. Ophelia

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 2:15:33 PM

realophelia

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it would be nice to have a nice slave friend, close by, that i could see on occasion, have tea and cookies with and just girltalk or something, but the chances of that happening are just not that great. too many things would have to fall into place....

I hope that you will be able to meet someone like that someday and possibly make some friends here on the boards. Best wishes, Ophelia

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 3:14:01 PM

subbgary

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Hello, I have quite a few sub friends (mostly female) in the community. It helps a lot when you belong to a local bdsm club as I do.

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 3:18:10 PM

BeingChewsie

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Oscar...with all due respect to our lawyer Doms here....i dated lawyers and found them to be selfish, sissy, stupid Men. i burned up the sheets and still they neglected me or cheated on me. So, my motto was of course "don't let the door hit you on the way out".

Wow! I have had the total opposite experience with Atty's. I'm owned by one who is certainly not stupid nor a sissy. He can be selfish..but he is not self centered. He is actually very other people centered..he just wants to have as much control over all those *other* people as possible lol.

I have a true fetish for lawyers.

For some it is shoes, or furries, or food etc.

Just give me a sadist Atty with a need for power and I'm gone..

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RE: Lack of sub/slave friends - 11/30/2005 3:19:06 PM

LilWhiteWolf

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So my question to many of you subs and slaves is: Do you have several sub and/or slave friends that you visit with and have a good friendships with? , Just one good sub/slave friend

i would love to have a submissive friend but i think good friends, whether in the lifestyle or nilla, are hard to come by. a local Dom gave me a name of a local sub who he said was looking for a friend in the lifestyle. what he failed to tell me is that she was His sub and they were looking for a playmate. it was her job to try to convince me to be that with them
oh well...live in learn

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