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RE: sharing of subs - 9/7/2008 9:21:00 AM   
SoulPiercer


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

*snort*

Tell him if he can't get his own, he doesn't deserve a chance to play with other men's girls.

What an idiot.




Dang it Lynnxz .. Get outta my head! Get outta my head!!!!

Yeah .. what Lynnxz said.

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/7/2008 9:29:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: subcurious74

I had another dom tell my dom's not  confident cause he isn't willing to send me out to another dom on my own.
He said,"part of the dom thing,, is to send u out to serve,, and report details".  I'm looking to see what everyone feels and hoping I can rub it in his face as I do not agree most doms do that.  From the conversations I've had.  Please share your thoughts.


What a judgmental, passive-aggressive ass.  This 'Dom' who threw down the gaunlet for your Dom is evidentially laboring under the misconception that there is only one way, he knows it, and it's his mission in life to force everyone else to conform.
 
Surely you and your Dom can distinguish between the NY Times and litter on the street.
 
Do as you and he find the proper thing for you, as people, and ignore the chest-thumpers.
 
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RE: sharing of subs - 9/7/2008 9:38:05 AM   
cankles


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what I don't Respect: someone who doesn't share because they are AFRAID of loosing their partner.


haha, really? You don't think that's a legitimate concern?

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/7/2008 1:43:02 PM   
candystripper


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In reply to me?
 
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RE: sharing of subs - 9/7/2008 1:45:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: candystripper

Huh?
 
In reply to me?
 
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doubt it. It is not your quote.


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RE: sharing of subs - 9/7/2008 6:21:43 PM   
kittengirl8


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Status: offline 		I see nothing wrong with either choice. I do think the guy who was discussed in the original post was a complete idiot though. It's entirely up to the people in the relationship. Personally, I think that'd be a soft limit for me if/when I enter a relationship. It'd have to be pretty intensively discussed before I would ever agree to be shared. I'm a one person kind of girl. :)

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/8/2008 7:08:34 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		First the guy was an idiot. Second on the other side of the coin I probably would not be here if my Mentor did not share his subs. Sharing is not for everyone. I would probably only share with my Mentor. I have had subs and know of subs who want to be with more than one man. I do know some lazy ass Doms who keep asking me to fix them up. Thats not going to happen. I have a couple of Domme friends who ask me to come and play with them and their subs. I look at it this way. To each their own. What ever floats your boat.

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/8/2008 2:09:18 PM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		My Master is probably one of the most confident people I know.  He doesn't share.  A former patch-holder 1%-er doesn't get that from being insecure, but He doesn't share.  Why?  Right-of-Ownership, period.  He's not gonna let someone else drive His sled and He's not gonna let anyone else ride His slave.

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/8/2008 2:15:23 PM   
Lynnxz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

*snort*

Tell him if he can't get his own, he doesn't deserve a chance to play with other men's girls.

What an idiot.




Dang it Lynnxz .. Get outta my head! Get outta my head!!!!

Yeah .. what Lynnxz said.


But but... your head is a fun place to be...


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RE: sharing of subs - 9/8/2008 2:23:11 PM   
TwoNYCDommes


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ORIGINAL: kittengirl8
I see nothing wrong with either choice. I do think the guy who was discussed in the original post was a complete idiot though. It's entirely up to the people in the relationship.

What she said.

Personally, I am poly and tend to enjoy sharing.

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/8/2008 6:56:33 PM   
theq


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ORIGINAL: subcurious74

I had another dom tell my dom's not  confident cause he isn't willing to send me out to another dom on my own.
He said,"part of the dom thing,, is to send u out to serve,, and report details".  I'm looking to see what everyone feels and hoping I can rub it in his face as I do not agree most doms do that.  From the conversations I've had.  Please share your thoughts.


I don't send my girl out to others. I'm not the sharing type, but she is a swinger. I'd consider letting it happen if I was around.

On a separate note, I have heard of a "Dom" sending his girl out to pick up a man and telling her that she can't say no to any man. (Something she didn't like) If you ask me, that's just stupid, dangerous, and wrong.

I hope this helps.

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/8/2008 7:44:13 PM   
subcurious74


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Status: offline 		I agree I wouldn't mind being shared but I'd want my dom with me for safety reasons

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/9/2008 12:00:07 PM   
AMaster


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Status: offline 		I don't think most DOM's share their property.  Some do.  It's a matter individual taste.  There is nothing wrong with sharing and nothing wrong with not.  Don't let someone else impose His/her values on your relationship.

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/9/2008 12:07:31 PM   
NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: subcurious74

I had another dom tell my dom's not  confident cause he isn't willing to send me out to another dom on my own.
He said,"part of the dom thing,, is to send u out to serve,, and report details". 


That's just a dumb thing to say.  It's a "dom thing" for the dom to make his/her own decisions based on his/her personal preference.  Otherwise said dom is just submitting to an imaginary rule book. 

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/9/2008 12:17:52 PM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		subcurious,

Erm, by the tone of your posting, you knew exactly what the response to your thread was.  Why did you feel the need to validate your position with this kind of drama?

I enjoy sharing my slave.  I hardly expect anyone else to.  She's mine to share, or not, as suits my interests.  Nobody else's opinion on the topic (including the opinion of thousands of nameless, faceless netizens) mean a damn to me.

Stephan


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RE: sharing of subs - 9/9/2008 2:34:08 PM   
kinkypuppy2


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Status: offline 		I have no problem in "sharing" but there has to be more of a goal or purpose in my benefit or a perseved benefit for my slave.

I am not willing to even loan her with out a large trust level and something in return

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/9/2008 2:35:38 PM   
Mercnbeth


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I had another dom tell my dom's not  confident cause he isn't willing to send me out to another dom on my own.


Tell him his IS confident. Confident that the other dom is one handed, web surfing asshole, based upon the; "part of the dom thing" statement.

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/9/2008 2:47:08 PM   
somethndif


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ORIGINAL: subcurious74

I had another dom tell my dom's not  confident cause he isn't willing to send me out to another dom on my own.
He said,"part of the dom thing,, is to send u out to serve,, and report details".  I'm looking to see what everyone feels and hoping I can rub it in his face as I do not agree most doms do that.  From the conversations I've had.  Please share your thoughts.


I've shared my current submissive, and several of my former submissives.  Other Dominants have shared their submissives with me.  I am almost always present when I do share, but not always.  And when not present, I will lay down some guidelines and I will ask both my submissive and the Dominant to send me an email about the scene.

It is fairly commonplace, but of course, and as others have said, many don't share.  Its up to you and your Dominant. 

Dan

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RE: sharing of subs - 9/9/2008 2:55:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subcurious74

...I'm looking to see what everyone feels and hoping I can rub it in his face as I do not agree most doms do that.  From the conversations I've had.  Please share your thoughts.


my thoughts...
 
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RE: sharing of subs - 9/9/2008 3:08:40 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		~FR Of course it's good to share. Having said that I think it's only necessary if you have the footlong. If it's only a 6" you could offer a bite or two, but really, that's just enough sub for one, don't you think?

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