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RE: True Masochists - 8/23/2009 2:42:35 PM

LadyPact

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Rather ironically, I have always wondered whether there are real sadistic women out there. From what I have read I suspect they are very rare or non-existent.

Maso

Then you haven't bothered yourself to do even a simple bit of research.

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RE: True Masochists - 8/23/2009 2:52:30 PM

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*nom nom nom nom*

I like to chew people.

Aside from that....

I have never had an orgasm from pain. yet. I do enjoy the sensation... and I have asked friends if they could sate my want for pain.

"You want us to WHAT?"

As for the sadistic women not existing. Bullharkey! I know of many. One of my fondest memories was on my 20th birthday party. My good lady friend Wednesday held two chains up to my face and said ever so calmly.... "run."

Chasing me and whipping me with these chains she tackled me and choked me with one chain and whipped my ass with the other... 20 for each cheek she said.

That was an awesome birthday party.

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RE: True Masochists - 8/24/2009 3:19:03 AM

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I like pain. I like the chemical reaction that takes place in my brain. I like the altered state of consciousness I go into when receiving pain. It's like being tipsy or stoned. It's amazing. I love the way pain feels... which I think is a pretty obvious thing to say, really, lol. I like immediate pain and I like the after-effects of pain.

And not only do I love pain on a physical level, I also love it on a more emotional level, because taking pain... especially severe pain... makes me feel strong and empowered. I come away from most intense scenes with a real sense of pride and accomplishment... and a slightly fuzzy head, lol.

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same here i love it i need it if i havent had anyfor a while i get edgy. i can orgasm with pain its so wonderful. luckily my master loves to give pain also he loves the control he has over me so it works so wondefullly to both of us

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RE: True Masochists - 8/24/2009 1:59:12 PM

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Rather ironically, I have always wondered whether there are real sadistic women out there. From what I have read I suspect they are very rare or non-existent.

Maso

Then you haven't bothered yourself to do even a simple bit of research.

I have done quite a bit, both physcological papers and what one reads on various femdom websites. I guess part of the reason for possibly jumping to the wrong conclusion is that many dom websites use the word 'sadistic' in a flippant manner. Almost like a tick box in an advertising statement. As a result, the word appears everywhere without actually meaning anything.

Sadism is also a big word with many connotations. There are some people that enjoy inflicting pain, then there are some other people that get a sexual thrill from inflicting pain. The latter group are possibly rare? (and even dangerous?), but I suspect that most masochists would ultimately like to meet people of the latter group, even if it is only a liason that happens in some deep dark fantasy.

I guess when I made my comment I was probably relating to the latter category.

In some ways this thread has answered my question to a degree. Hopefully I helped answer the top poster's question too. :)

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RE: True Masochists - 8/24/2009 2:07:00 PM

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Nonsense. They are out there, I am also sadistic. I find many women to be sadistic,

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Rather ironically, I have always wondered whether there are real sadistic women out there. From what I have read I suspect they are very rare or non-existent.

Maso

I am sadistic in the 'true' sense, ie the de sade sense, I like to inflict real pain, not enjoyed pain, a masochist would be no good to me, I like to hurt people randomly normally, something since childhood. I would chuck people down stairs, slap people in the face, and now I will pinch randomly, one of my best memories was having the urge to bite down when kissing, I have had many people run up to me post bite and ask if I have punched their mate in the face

Hi Lilly,

I guess your statement answers my question :)

It also highlights a little irony in that a real sadist would not like to interact with a real masochist and would probably be caught a little off guard by one. Whereas most masochists I suspect would like to meet a real sadist. There is definitely a conflict of interests there, one which in some ways makes the two life styles incompatible.

Maso

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