Briena
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So I sat in my chair and read this entire thread... EVERY POST! It took me a good 45 minutes but I think I am ready to make my point now... As a woman who not only has a son, but has also had an abortion, I must say that I am 100% pro choice. Calling a fetus a baby is just the rights way of making their point. My son was a fetus until he was born. You cannot be a baby until you are out of the womb and take your first breath. When I look back at the situation, I would do exactly the same thing. I have a responsiblity to care for the child that I already have, and if that means I have to abort than so be it. What good am I going to do if I have a baby that I cannot afford, then the state takes my kids, I become homeless, unable to support myself, let alone any children? Id be worthless not only to the child I already had but to the child that I should have aborted. I love it when people say "Adoption is always an option"... Are you serious? Ok, how many adoptive children do you have? How many have you fostered? If the answer is none, than obviously adoption is not always an option. I dont know about any other woman, but I could not carry a child for almost 10 months and then turn around and give it up as soon as I pop it out. As for birth control... NOTHING is 100% effective. My sister is living proof of that. She took her pill every single day, never skipping, religiously. She made sure she took her BC because she NEVER EVER EVER wants children. Guess what??? She still got pregnant, and you know what she did? She drove right over to planned parenthood, puking out the window the whole way, and got an abortion. As for my abortion, all $400 that it cost came straight out of my pocket. As for now, if my BC fails, I have to have an abortion. That would be number two if it comes down to it. The medication I am on would severly deform any fetus that is inside of me. Abortions are a personal choice, and should be made after considerable thought. It should also be kept between a woman and her doctor, not the woman, her doctor, the protestors outside, and the entire country. Its a personal and private matter. As for if the women getting the abortions deserve to live... Well I say, Do you? What makes a person deserving of life? If we knew from the very begining if a child was going to grow up into a monster would you not destroy it at conception? Would you allow a child to become a predator? Do you think that if Charlie Mansons mother knew what he was going to grow up to become she would have kept him and carried him to term? I think not. So in what way do you have to decide if a woman deserves to live? She is already here, shes already established a life for herself, whereas a fetus has not. What makes a man deserving to live? What if its a man who is pushing for the woman to get an abortion? What if he is the one that edges her to the decision? Should he be allowed to live? The right to life starts at birth, not at conception. If it starts at conception let me go ahead and sue the state of Callifornia for unlawful death on my sons twin... I was only 6 1/2 months when I lost him, they should have saved my fetus.
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