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Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 2:37:29 AM

LadyPact

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That's it. Simple question.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 3:42:22 AM

MsStarlett

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I ALWAYS want the one I can't have!

Even though I'm very happy with the ones that I do have, I still want "That one! Over there!" Hubby figured that out ages ago.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 5:16:08 AM

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Indeed, knowing the one we want and having it are two different things. But yes, I do.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 5:24:43 AM

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I don't think that I have met the one I want yet. If Murphys law is right the one I want will be taken by someone else.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 5:28:17 AM

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Yes, i do believe i know the one i want. Unfortunately, he doesn't want me like i want to be wanted!

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 5:35:53 AM

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Not a chance i will ever have the one i want, but boy i sure do.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 5:36:43 AM

tsatske

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I want the one I am with.
Master is the most amazing person, the most fantastic man, the most incrediblt Dom, a truly GOOD man, absolutely FINE, and the best match for me i can even imagine in every way except that I certainly do not deserve Him.

Now, for a bit of extra soul searching on the topic. I have felt that way about almost every man who has ever been in my life on a reasonably long term basis. One or two were mistakes, but other than that, I ALWAYS feel that way.

Every partner in my life has been a vast improvement over every partner before them (skipping the aforementioned mistakes), and that is quite an accomplishment, because Hubby#1 was a truly great and wonderful man and human being.

So, then, honestly, if it keeps happening over and over, i guess part of it must be ME, right? if I keep getting these fantastic men that are so MUCH more than I could ever deserve, what part of it is my doing?

Here's what I think on that: First of all, I am patient and have very high standards when I am looking. I would rather go to be alone, unbeaten, for a few YEARS, then settle.

Most of all, however, it is just that I believe it. It is mostly an attitude. The right one for me, the one I want, is the one life, the universe, God, whomever, gives me to and puts in my life. (since I have had one or two huge failures, you may reassure yourself that I also don't settle when I am in a relationship. I know if it is bad.) I just keep the attitude that it is very, VERY good - unless it is, indeed, bad. I know a lot of people who don't. Every small problem is a relationship failing, an example of how much this person doesn't meet their ever increasing, whiny ass needs.

Knowing how to be happy is probably 75% of what happiness IS.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 6:30:31 AM

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I am also with my One. When we first started our journey I thought I would only be a play partner and had no idea how deeply he would touch me.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 7:20:54 AM

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Answer unclear....ask again later...

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 7:28:32 AM

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I know him very well. He sleeps next to me every night.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 7:32:22 AM

DiurnalVampire

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I knew the one I wanted the day I met him. And, in a year and a bit, I'll be marrying him.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 7:38:38 AM

LadyHibiscus

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Yes. Life is about managing disappointment, eh!

Honestly, there are a few "wants" out there, and it is my own fault for choosing a person first and orientation second.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 9:25:26 AM

thetammyjo

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No.

Not monogamous therefore my answer has to be "no" if it is to be an honest answer.

I do not believe in "a one" or "the one" -- I believe in good potentials that can turn into good partners.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 9:34:16 AM

Missykink

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Wow there are so many answers to this question !!!
Are we talking partners or things?

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 9:39:54 AM

JerryFrankster

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Oh geez. It's been about 12 years since I thought someone was "ZOMG, teh ONE!!!"

I'm not sure if my brain can even produce that emotion anymore.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 11:00:28 AM

LaTigresse

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One upon a time, yes. Then for a long time I didn't care. Now, I don't believe in "the one".

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 11:11:19 AM

chezzy71

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It is not difficult what i desire is a better word.But i am close to throwing in the towel.Why??I have money issues...i can't work anymore and my income while still being enough to help support myself in any Domme's house on the planet isn't enough for most.I am considering adding an addendum to my journal but i think it would be a childish attempt.So..the first Domme that understands that i need a roof over my head and no i won't take her to the poor house is the one i desire.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 11:17:25 AM

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I know the one i want. I've always known the type i wanted and what i was looking for. Will i get her? I doubt it. Will i get another like her type? I have no doubt about that, Just takes time. It'll happen one of these days.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 11:30:17 AM

sambamanslilgirl

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yes i know the one i want ...and i'm going to collar him soon.

on the flipside, i didn't think Daddy would be the one i wanted even though He knew i was the one He wanted.

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RE: Do you know the one you want? - 9/11/2008 11:30:46 AM

purelea2003

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I know. The question is whether I'm capable of taking malleable raw material and creating the final product. If not, the failure is My own.

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