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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 6:38:01 AM

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LOL apart from the fact that the book is a thesaurus lol
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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 7:03:09 AM

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 4:32:04 PM

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How does it follow that because you take cash, you are submissive? Do you feel dominated when people pay you for a good or service? When you pick up your weekly paycheck, do you do it from your knees? When you buy a hot dog, do you feel like you have placed a collar on the hot dog man?

A better term for the Domme Escort would be a Sadist Escort. If I pay the hot dog man for a hot dog, it better be the way I told him to make it. Otherwise he will not be making me another one ever again.

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 4:37:46 PM

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A better term for the Domme Escort would be a Sadist Escort.

This argument doesn't hold because not all domination includes sadism.

The service is domination. If a professional domme is lousy at what she does, she will not get repeat customers, that's for sure. But when she is dominating her clients, she is in charge of the scene that she designed with their "wish list" in mind. I've never had a man pay me a penny for dominating him and I've often designed scenes with their "wish list" in mind. And believe me, I was always in control of the scene.

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 7:27:40 PM

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Thanks Lady T :)

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 9:14:17 PM

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michaelMI. Just because someone is a Pro does not mean that we are less then someone that takes a slave/sub as their own. yes there are so called Pros out there that are only out for the oh mighty dollar.. but all of the Pros I have met and know are lifestyle Dommes. We offer a service and if you look around you there are Professional in every part of life. and I for one know that alot of my clients have used my services as a steping stone to move on to a FTR in the lifestyle. I also know alot of guys that like the idea of not being F/T in the scene, but once a month or 2 they want to give themselves over to someone elses control.so they seek out a Pro.. because there are no strings attached.. I would also like PPL to know that I am not on collarme to get clients.. so please don't bitch at me about not saying I am a Pro in my profile
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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 9:17:53 PM

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to each their own, Ma'am.

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 10:16:03 PM

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Just remember that by excepting payment, you infact are a submissive sadist following the guidelines of a dominant massochist. For the most part, you are following there orders/guidelines to what tourturious things they want you to do to them.

How does it follow that because you take cash, you are submissive? Do you feel dominated when people pay you for a good or service? When you pick up your weekly paycheck, do you do it from your knees? When you buy a hot dog, do you feel like you have placed a collar on the hot dog man?

A client will pay for a service, that service is dominance. The fact that he pays in cash, as opposed to affection, or a relationship, or some other sort of service, is irrelevant.

As for being submissive for following guidelines...all (law abiding) dominants do it. That's what makes this who consensual slavery/submission acceptable in modern society. If you are not following some guidelines, you are downright dangerous. Where those guidelines come from is rather irrelevant as well.

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 10:19:01 PM

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in my prefered occupation as a server, i not only do feel submissive...i "am" submissive...and i enjoy it very much.

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 10:26:55 PM

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in my prefered occupation as a server, i not only do feel submissive...i "am" submissive...and i enjoy it very much.

In my prefered occupation as a servicer, not only do feel dominant...i "am" dominant...and I enjoy it very much.

Sorry m, couldn't resist ;)

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 10:30:34 PM

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i don't get it, Ma'am. <smiles>

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 11/30/2005 10:51:03 PM

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How does it follow that because you take cash, you are submissive? Do you feel dominated when people pay you for a good or service? When you pick up your weekly paycheck, do you do it from your knees? When you buy a hot dog, do you feel like you have placed a collar on the hot dog man?

A client will pay for a service, that service is dominance.

Well Damn! I like this. I've never seen it put this way before on any of the money grubbing dominant women we hate threads before where people say if she's taking money, she's submitting.
Very funny!

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RE: What is your opinion on domme escorts?? - 12/1/2005 8:07:21 PM

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I'm still waiting for Katie to define "escort" before I pipe in here. Some have associated the word escort with prostitution, but when I looked at her profile, it indicates she's in South England. Perhaps the word "escort" is synonymous with "Pro Domme" here?

Katie, care to elaborate?

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