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RE: Why you need to pay a pro-domme - 9/19/2008 6:10:19 AM

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I loved that post! Made me laugh hard. and the additions too... were awesome! =)

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RE: Why you need to pay a pro-domme - 9/19/2008 8:59:22 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsSaskia

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ORIGINAL: Wheldrake

I suppose the short version is that you should go to a pro domme if you want to experience submission on your own terms - and a lifestyle domme if you're ready to experience submission on someone else's.

That implies that non-professional relationships don't involve negotiations that allow for the submissive partner's interests to be met and that it's all about the dominant's. It also implies that professionals only do what a "submissive" wants. Both are faulty assumptions.

I agree.

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RE: Why you need to pay a pro-domme - 9/20/2008 8:42:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsIncontrol

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I understand the breakdown and agree with the Author of this post and Her list of reasons to pay tribute to a Pro-Domme. I also agree with (Coupleofwhats) MissEliza who posted here and said "Some Pro-Dommes are also Lifestyle"...I for one am a Pro- Domme as well as a Lifestyle Dominatrix for over 17 years now. There are some that strongly believe you have to be one or the other and I have to strongly disagree. But that is for another topic....Spanks & Kisses, Domina Erotica

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Absolutely, most of my friends who are pro-dommes are also in the lifestyle. But I am guessing that your requirements for a client are much different than your requirements for a lifestyle submissive partner.

What I look for in a client especially is he is a repeat client is basically the same qualities that I seek in a lifestyle sub partner. I don't see every person that contacts Me for a session. I look for the following:

reliability
honesty
no b.s.
being in harmony
good intellectual conversation
like fetishes and seeking to push boundaries

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