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Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 4:35:45 PM   
bloodquail


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Status: offline 		I have a friend in the local scene that has been trained to cum on command.  This is incredibly hot.  I have asked her fiancé how in the world he trained her to do this.  He said he would tell my Sir what he knows.  But, I would like to research this more thoroughly.  Has anyone on this forum been able to train their girl (or boy) to cum when she is told to?  How?
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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 4:53:45 PM   
subbisherri


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Status: offline 		Oh gawd I wish! I'd record my steady top's voice and speed dial myself all day long! That would be so much better than putting my phone on vibrate, stuffing it down my pants and having someone else speed dial me all day long...

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 4:59:39 PM   
sfdrew


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Status: offline 		I can't say that I've been trained to cum on command, although She does know just the right thing to say in order to get me to cum if She wants. I have, however, been training not to cum when She is on top so that She can ride me as long as She pleases without worrying about me getting off and then going soft. Sometimes She will try as hard as possible to get me to cum when She is on top just so She can punish me. It usually works.

Then again, it doesn't take much to get a guy to cum. I imagine a similar trick or cumming on command for females would be much harder.

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 5:00:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bloodquail

I have a friend in the local scene that has been trained to cum on command.  This is incredibly hot.  I have asked her fiancé how in the world he trained her to do this.  He said he would tell my Sir what he knows.  But, I would like to research this more thoroughly.  Has anyone on this forum been able to train their girl (or boy) to cum when she is told to?  How?


Do you seriously expect them to give away their secrets ?
It's His voice. All i have to hear Him whisper is cum......and the earth moves.......

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 5:03:52 PM   
Masterdarkone29


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Status: offline 		I have actually trained an old sub of mine to cum on command or simply by the use of one word.. it took several months of pushing her to the edge and saying the word at the same time she was orgasming and also when I put her to bed each night. If I ever saw her or got to speak to her again she would do it just by simply speaking one simple word.

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 5:08:29 PM   
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Not everyone can do it and it can become a great source of frustration if it doesn’t work for you. 
And there are scoffers who believe it is all faked.
No one taught me, it just sort of happened.  Here is what I do.  I concentrate on a spot just above where my orgasms start.  I contract and relax my vaginal muscles (think Kegel exercises) which stimulates my g-spot. I picture that spot as a tiny, red-hot coal.  I listen to his voice and as the heat builds up, I have an orgasm. 

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 6:30:34 PM   
CruelDesires


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Status: offline 		Pavlovian responses.

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 6:46:40 PM   
bloodquail


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Status: offline 		Gee, thanks for your help.

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 7:04:36 PM   
LadyLupineNYC


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Status: offline 		Well S***! Screw training the submissives with this; this is just the sort of thing that Mistress's slave could use for effortless, non-arousing 'service'   That boy has cleaning & laundry to do and no time for much else


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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 7:10:40 PM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		Lucky you!  I have days when I can't reach even with double penetration and my own finger on the button.

No wonder I beat boys!


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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 8:07:09 PM   
TanukiChan


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Status: offline 		I'm kind of a cheat - I already come with a mere single, hard bite to the place where the neck and shoulder meet. No idea why, really, but I'm not complaining~!

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 8:16:20 PM   
beltainefaerie


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Status: offline 		Master would get me close and then tell me to cum when I was already about to, to link the two.  Now he can just tell me to cum and I do.

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 8:27:51 PM   
masterforRT


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Status: offline 		I have trained several subs to do this. It is partly Pavlovian and partly what catize says. It doesn't happen with all subs, but with many with enough time and patience it can be done.

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 8:47:10 PM   
HeavansKeeper


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Status: offline 		I've never looked over at Pet and calmly said "Cum." and had her squirming on the floor.

I know when I use the command with the dogs, when I yell "come!" with authority, she squirms a bit.

She does require my permission to cum. If I play with her a bit, I can do very little before my command will be sufficient. Getting to this point was a simple process. Not allowing her to orgasm without permission, her desire and expectation of of my command empowered the word. At this point, she has a strong desire to hear it... A need for it. Additionally, she feels very owned (something I "mock" her about frequently) when she remembers her place under me.

Once (and to date, only one) she has came without contact, but with ample AMPLE audio/visual stimulation.

So, in short, here is how I would go about training a slave to cum on command:

1) Keep them under chastity, but allow them to cum with permission/command. Be sure to say "cum" in a specific way... something they can learn to expect and depend on.

2) Be patient. Certain people take longer, but My Pet took months before she would whimper if I said "come" to the dogs or conversation.

3) Be understanding. Some people will never achieve that sort of reaction. Some will take very long periods of time.

4) Be realistic. Part of being understanding, wanting someone to go from "Mmm.. that feels good" to explosive orgasm at the drop of a word is realistic. Wanting to text message them the word "cum" and expecting them to fall out of their chair at work is another thing.

5) Try various methods. People vary in mental resistance. Some are better with hypnosis (suggestion), while others need to be given incentives and rewards. Some have only to overcome inner demons.

Good luck =\.

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/14/2008 9:05:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		google Pavlov ... it is a conditioned response. Happy reading.

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/15/2008 12:46:42 AM   
shiazn03


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Status: offline 		reading this post, once again, i wish i had or have a long term relationship with a Dom/Master, haha.  i WISH i can cum on command!  

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/15/2008 1:22:56 AM   
angelslave77


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Status: offline 		Stephan has posted a wonderful thread about this a while back it was a step by step how to. I did have it saved although it is on my old pc, hopefully he will pop in and post the link to it

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/15/2008 7:09:27 AM   
RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: shiazn03

reading this post, once again, i wish i had or have a long term relationship with a Dom/Master, haha.  i WISH i can cum on command!  


A very good point, that.
 
In my experience, having trained several girls to do this over the years, there are 2 major factors; one, the physical training of the response itself, which is a biological and psychological thing, but I’ve also found that the degree to which a girl is submissive to me seems to matter a great deal too (which makes sense when you think about it); the deeper she feels mine, the more likely she is to achieve orgasm on command.  That doesn’t have to be “long term” based, but it does (again purely in my experience) have to be a deep bond, and those don’t tend to happen overnight.

For some girls it’s also situation dependent, but I have managed to train a few to cum purely on command, regardless of where they are or how they’re feeling.  Very useful for nipping any arguments in the bud, that.

As well as making trips to the supermarket far more entertaining for me, and far more humiliating for them

 

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/15/2008 7:56:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: RapierFugue


For some girls it’s also situation dependent, but I have managed to train a few to cum purely on command, regardless of where they are or how they’re feeling.  Very useful for nipping any arguments in the bud, that.

***that....is cheating!!!! laughs***



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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/15/2008 8:03:29 AM   
zakkan


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Status: offline 		Maybe its because I'm a guy, but I can't imagine anyone getting males to do this. I know I could probably never achieve that. 

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