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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 9:25:26 AM   
Shortbow


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Hum.. another question...

How to untrain a sub when she can only reach orgasm on command and the relationship for whatever reason has ended?

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 9:48:32 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Shortbow

Hum.. another question...

How to untrain a sub when she can only reach orgasm on command and the relationship for whatever reason has ended?


I seen that happon once more or less lits just say it not like rideing a bike, and relearning can be much harder then learning the 1 time

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 10:18:09 AM   
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My experience is you can`t unless she stays with you then...over time you can condition her not....to.
 
If she has been released from the relationship...she will have to deal with the repercussions on her....own.
 
And...that takes time and can be very....hard.
 
It`s a sweet intimacy when they become trained....to. Anyplace you go the command can be given and....bingo....wet panties <if she has any on -L->

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 11:20:09 AM   
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my Master has trained me to cum on command, and when not to cum.
i'm to tell Him when i'm coming close to orgasm, and He will give me permission, or deny me.
it's all in His voice. in a low growl, He will say either, "Don't you dare cum yet", or "Cum for me".
there's something so commanding about it... it's almost impossible not to cum when ordered to!

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 11:31:03 AM   
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Maybe its because I'm a guy, but I can't imagine anyone getting males to do this. I know I could probably never achieve that. 

Just so happens there is a little device called a cum blocker, that i saw a Top use on a Male bottom, it is a tiny ring which fastens around the head of the cock, then a tiny plug into the utheria... worked like a charm to aid in training

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 11:48:17 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ThundersCry

My experience is you can`t unless she stays with you then...over time you can condition her not....to.
 
If she has been released from the relationship...she will have to deal with the repercussions on her....own.
***Been there...done that - and how strange it may sound - it was hell trying to get my control back...took me many tears and even slight panic - thinking i could not do this on my own again - but i am stubborn - and time always help***
And...that takes time and can be very....hard.
 
It`s a sweet intimacy when they become trained....to. Anyplace you go the command can be given and....bingo....wet panties <if she has any on -L->


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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 12:27:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: AlkemieJane

He will say either, "Don't you dare cum yet", or "Cum for me". There's something so commanding about it... it's almost impossible not to cum when ordered to!


Hot hot hot hot hot hot!!!!

If Master and I hadn't just spent the last week destroying each other in bed, I'd go jump him after reading this.

To quote Futurama, "The spirit is willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised!"

:::edited to add:::

Master: "I can't believe I'm saying this, but I've got to save some for my other girl. Cause I'd jump you first."

Poor Master. So many women, so little time.


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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 12:32:53 PM   
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The medication I'm on makes orgasms extremely difficult to achieve at all, much less at someone else's command.  :(  Once I get to the point where I can reliably orgasm under my OWN command, I'll move on to bigger and better things. :P

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 1:06:24 PM   
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hehehe! Master has "broken" me more than a few times lately... i'm His only slave, so i get jumped like whoa... not that i'm complaining! *winks*
have fun with your Master!

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 3:02:45 PM   
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My Master trained me to cum on command, and to not cum right when it's almost painful to stop. (that's frustrating lol) But I have to admit I'm curious now... After reading this thread I've realized I can't remember the last time I didn't have permission to cum before I did- He either tells me to or I beg to until I get permission. It's like there's a dam up until I get that permission from Him, and once I do the flood gates are opened. (bad pun, but it works) I don't want to hiack a thread but I don't see it leading to a whole other thread so I'll just toss it out there: Has any one found it harder or even impossible to cum with OUT permission after having been trained to cum on command?

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 4:05:38 PM   
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The reason I know how hard it can be to retrain ones mind after being trained is...
 
Because at one time I was trained that....way.
 
Not only could I not cum...easily...the guilt lingered on for many...many....moons. It was a few years...to tell the truth.
 
The girls I have trained in the past...did not seem to have much problem -L- as they jumped quickly back into relationships...
 
Anyways...enough thoughts on this subject -L-

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 4:17:31 PM   
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i was trained to cum on command... and only on command.. took him many years.. taking me to the edge... then denying... again to that edge.. sometimes with days in between... denied the right to masturbate... now.. its to the point i cant cum without the command... i can cum even when angry or in the middle of an argument at his command... and ~~grins~~ as long as trust is there, other men have enjoyed the benefits of that man's training

just out of curiosity, why would anyone want to untrain a sub from such a delightful experience?  imagine out of the blue, you hear his voice, his command, and suddenly your body reacts, flushing hotly, quivering with desire

~sighs~ its so good to be a slut!

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RE: Cuming on Command - 9/16/2008 5:39:58 PM   
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amen, girl! but honestly, i'm so glad my Master hasn't prohibited me from masturbating... i would be a sad, sad panda!

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