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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 8:56:36 AM

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Mine is all about me as a person. "Shifted" is because I've moved so many times in so many different states... thus "shifting" from one place to another. And "Jewel" because in the right setting... well... I shine.

It's a nic that I've used for a long time online and it fits me.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 9:44:00 AM

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Then agin, sometimes a screen name says it all.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 12:28:18 PM

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mal ...first 3 letters of my last name ...loves 69 ..because what guy dont ?

submissive or dominant 69 is awesome

have fun mal

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 12:36:03 PM

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The responses to this thread have been great. I never gave it a lot of thought about screen names, but the points brought out here make a lot of sense in most cases. I would have a tendancy to agree with just about everything posted. I hope this helps wimpslave2 get a name that will help him in his quest for an owner.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 1:33:26 PM

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wimpslave2,

As far as I know the only way to change your screenname is to create an entirely new profile, with the new screenname. that's why I said I'd love to see you come back to this thread in a new incarnation. I vote for strongslave, nobleslave, proudslave, worthyslave, or something like that, that will portray confidence and a sense of self-worth.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 4:24:10 PM

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If I receive an email from someone I have interacted with here on the boards, I will read the email. I will also communicate some thoughts in response to some forum posts privately. Otherwise, those with user names that shout no thought, no imagination, or interests that do not interest me indicate an author that will not as well. They get deleted. A "subject" introduction in the email format would be helpful.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 6:35:26 PM

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Ok, just to let everyone know, wimpslave2 has changed his name and moved on.

He opted for wimpslave3. Much, much better. Things should really pick up now.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 8:22:40 PM

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Maybe he doesn't feel or believe he's strong or noble or a worthy slave. If he believes he's a wimp and he wants to represent himself as a wimp, that's truth in advertisment and he should stick to the truth and not advertise himself as something he isn't or doesn't feel. Regardless if any one likes it or not.

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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

wimpslave2,

As far as I know the only way to change your screenname is to create an entirely new profile, with the new screenname. that's why I said I'd love to see you come back to this thread in a new incarnation. I vote for strongslave, nobleslave, proudslave, worthyslave, or something like that, that will portray confidence and a sense of self-worth.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/17/2008 10:14:46 PM

dreamerdreaming

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Point well made, YourhandMyAss.

How about it, wimpslave2: Are you really such a wimp, that you need to forewarn us all with your screen name?

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/18/2008 3:21:26 AM

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I'm just seeking cool Dommes

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/18/2008 5:38:52 AM

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Op what dreamer said. You have to post a new profile to change your name. cool123 the Dommes on here are all hot.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/18/2008 6:28:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: sadomasokisti

My screen-name (sadomasokisti or sadomasochist) dates back to before BDSM/fetish channels or forums here in Iceland and I was looking for BDSM related communications on vanilla sites. It just didn't feel right for me to change name which I had used for many years when I joined the sites like collarme.

If your name has a history, but all means use it.

When we came out of the closet we gave up our "old names of Ours and Ourse".

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/18/2008 6:44:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Steponme73

I just read AAkasha response to a the thread entitled "Should I Give Up". The op is a DJ and was asking if that was the problem.
AAkasha said that his screen name was a turn off, which is perfectly fine.
My Question is, do you really pay that much attention to screen names? Does a screen name make you look or make you shy away?
I guess I never looked at it that way, but I guess it could have a tremendous influence on the reader....am I right or wrong?

I'm of the same mind as a few others here. It does say something about the person but it's not everything they are. I do find i will read the profiles of the ones with a name like sweetslave4U versus immaho69, first.

This screen name reflects something that happened recently in my life that changed my view a little.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/18/2008 9:44:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Point well made, YourhandMyAss.

How about it, wimpslave2: Are you really such a wimp, that you need to forewarn us all with your screen name?

I have never met a woman, femdom or not, who would want anything to do with a man who readily and eagerily has his self worth and identity that low. I think this is primarily a male fantasy. I would enjoy hearing if I am wrong - if any women actually have the mindset: "I really want to find a guy who us worthless, a wimp, a loser, no self esteem, who believes he is pathetic and weak, so that I can dominate him - that would be very rewarding and exciting." I don't think that "type" of man is attractive to many women.

I do, however, think that "type" of man is very attractive to scammers (low self esteem = easily duped) and to professionals (it's a role they are familiar with and can cater to - at least they will do so honestly and ethically as an exchange of services).

Any ladies purpopsely search the "male market" for men that identify as weak, wimpy, or worthless? What is the attraction, if so?

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/18/2008 7:41:02 PM

Steponme73

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I have determined from what has been written here, I need to change my screen name to something more appropro...so I will.

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/18/2008 7:50:08 PM

LadyLupineNYC

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Steponme73

I have determined from what has been written here, I need to change my screen name to something more appropro...so I will.

Actually, I don’t agree…if trampling is your ‘thing’ that is fine; It’s ok to have a fetish…it’s just that the ‘weak helpless sub/slave’ is less than appealing. And let’s not get into the over the top sexual SNs. Quite a few women on her like/love trampling (such as myself). Like I suggested before, your profile should embrace your loves…

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RE: Question About Screen Names - 9/18/2008 7:59:30 PM

AAkasha

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Steponme73

I have determined from what has been written here, I need to change my screen name to something more appropro...so I will.

I think a description of a physical fetish (bondage, trampling, whatever) is a little easier to swallow than an identity that indiates the submissive's low self worth is tied directly into his personality and self image. That's just me though. A fetish is a fetish - you are still a man with your own personality, etc. - your surrender is not wrapped into a package that says "loser" with glee.

Still, I do recommend you balance in your profile at least though...if all you talk about is trampling and that's all you are interested in, that's probably not good.

And I am still more likely to lean in favor a sub having no fetish in his name, given a choice, and that he tone it down as best he can, unless really, it's so consuming that it's all he can talk about/think about. As an example, I am not that into trampling. I am somewhat neutral about it. So in my case, if I was *really* into a guy and had lust for him, I'd start thinking about how that fetish could come in handy - I would enjoy pushing those buttons and seeing the reactions. However, if he was totally into trampling and would not participate in any of MY fetishes, and really, I got a sense that all he wanted from me is to trample him and he had a one track mind, I'd be turned off and lose interest.

It's all about balance.

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