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Arastella -> About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:39:17 PM)
Master is on His way home and has ordered me to wait with the paddle to be punished. It's gonna be bad cause I made so many careless mistakes today. I'm really scared. I am accepting that I deserve it, and I willingly will take it, but nonetheless, I'm scared of what will inevitably come. Any advice?

Arastella -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:40:37 PM)
My heart is racing too. And I keep getting teary eyed.

Lynnxz -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:41:19 PM)
Get off the computer?

Arastella -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:43:51 PM)
Umm that doesn't help with me being afraid. He didn't specifically tell me to be on my knees. He told me to write here if I was nervous.

thishereboi -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:44:39 PM)
Don't make a lot of mistakes tomorrow.

Arastella -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:45:25 PM)
I've already vowed to do that. Lol. Still nervous...

thishereboi -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:46:19 PM)
Go watch tv and quit thinking about it.

Arastella -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:47:17 PM)
He didn't give me permission to watch tv

marieToo -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:50:43 PM)
Then just suffer. Anticipating how much it's going to suck is part of learning not to fuck up again.

Arastella -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:53:03 PM)
True. It still sucks though. lol

thishereboi -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:53:11 PM)
Well you can keep tracking this thread and dwell on it, or you can go do something else. The choice is yours. Have a great night.

Worldly1 -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:53:28 PM)
You chose you role and accepted what came with it. Quit whining and deal with it. It's gonna hurt for a short while, but you'll live through it and learn from it.

Arastella -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 6:55:07 PM)
Thanks... @worldly: I'm not whining, I'm looking for advice. And following orders.

Arastella -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 7:00:15 PM)
still looking for a lil help

Slavelary -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 7:08:20 PM)
Believe me I've made alot of mistakes in my housekeeping and have definitely been punished for them. It's not so much I don't want to be punished, I just want to do a good job. Punishment just gives you the drive to do better...

Lynnxz -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 7:20:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arastella still looking for a lil help You aren't getting punished for being demanding by any chance are you?

rook42 -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 7:28:46 PM)
laugh. Bake some cookies. They're good on many levels.

lizcgirl -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 7:29:57 PM)
Not sure if you're still on here or if you have already been punished but what the heck... One time I knew I was going to be punished, and badly, for a serious mess up. I knew there was no way out of it and I deserved it, but instead of focusing on that, I focused on pleasing Him. When He showed up I had dinner on the table, the house was filled with candles, and I was naked in submission. This was a fantasy He always had of His slave girl and I wanted to give Him that. I pleased Him so well He ended up taking it easier on me which was NOT my intention. It just helped me to be able to show Him that what I was being punished for wasn't the norm for me. I wanted to make sure He knew that even though I messed up, I still wanted to serve and please Him before anything else. Admitting you deserve the punishment, not trying to get out of it, and making it known that you want to do better really does go along way.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 7:48:59 PM)
I really don't think any one's going to offer any more advice than marietoo did and, it's really not other peoples place to comment on your relationship and his directives of you. Other than next time don't screw up. quote: ORIGINAL: Arastella still looking for a lil help

YourhandMyAss -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 7:53:01 PM)
I would actually second and third and fourth my agreeance with what liz said. Be productive, Maybe clean the house if it's not clean already, make it cleaner if it is clean, Do things you've always ment to do and didn't have time to get around to. Show him you can still function while upset and are still useful while upset , Use the time you have untill he comes home for something useful besides fretting the time away online. Take a bath make sure you're clean and pretty and smell nice perhaps.

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