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Aylee -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 8:12:26 PM)
Soooooo. . . Have you been punished yet? What advice did you take? How did it work? What happened? If you are going to put things like this out there, you need to tell us how the story ended.

subeos -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 8:16:09 PM)
The punishment has already been done, I am sure. I just wanted to say punishment before and after always made me think about doing better. I was actually scared when it happened, but thanked Him when it was over. It is meant AS a lesson. slave eos ~To Thine Own Self Be True~

subeos -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 8:23:22 PM)
Your profile is a bit confusing. You will not change for anyone and want someone to love you for you ( good) But never want you to change. Perhaps that is why the punushment is happening? And I agree if your going to post this and not come back and tell, then that sucks for people who are trying to give advice[&:] slave eos ~To Thine Own Self Be True~

submitchell -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 9:52:40 PM)
Take the paddle, learn from it. politey ask why you are getting it. Don't make that mistake again.

Arastella -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 11:23:40 PM)
For those of you who are so eager for the update, yes I've been punished, and my ass hurts like a mofo. But everytime I sit down, I remember. Once He had me bent over I tried breathing techniques to keep me calm, my head clear, able to focus on the fact that He loves me enough to remedy the situation. And for anyone who had read the other post about breaking down barriers and such... I haven't cried in 10 years, till tonight, because I was so ashamed, felt so bad, and was so desperate to please Him and knew I hadn't. Apparently I wasn't all bad though, as He DID reward me with more orgasms than I've had in my lifetime after. All good now. Red bottomed, and the problem has been solved, is over and I am high as a kite on post-orgasm. He was being QUITE generous as He simply happened to be really horny and wanted me. Hey! I'm not complaining! Thanks to all who actually gave me good advice instead of shit and bitching. Very much appreciated. Humbly Hilly

dreamerdreaming -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/17/2008 11:42:33 PM)
What did you do wrong, specifically?

DesFIP -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 6:07:51 AM)
So how did he help you to not make careless mistakes in the future. What was going on that you couldn't take time to do things right and how is he going to change that by helping you schedule better? Or was this just as excuse for him to beat on you in order to get a hard on?

daddysliloneds -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 7:24:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arastella For those of you who are so eager for the update, yes I've been punished, and my ass hurts like a mofo. But everytime I sit down, I remember. Once He had me bent over I tried breathing techniques to keep me calm, my head clear, able to focus on the fact that He loves me enough to remedy the situation. And for anyone who had read the other post about breaking down barriers and such... I haven't cried in 10 years, till tonight, because I was so ashamed, felt so bad, and was so desperate to please Him and knew I hadn't. Apparently I wasn't all bad though, as He DID reward me with more orgasms than I've had in my lifetime after. All good now. Red bottomed, and the problem has been solved, is over and I am high as a kite on post-orgasm. He was being QUITE generous as He simply happened to be really horny and wanted me. Hey! I'm not complaining! Thanks to all who actually gave me good advice instead of shit and bitching. Very much appreciated. Humbly Hilly in my opinion, punishment followed by reward isn't punishment; it's role-play.

OttersSwim -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 8:06:54 AM)
I am not sure what to think about this thread. Your phrase of "so many careless mistakes today" gives the impression of small breaches of protocol or tasks...and makes me wonder if you were being punished for trivialities. It seemed to cause a lot of anxiety for you... Did you neglect a significant responsibility or task? Were you disrespectful? Inquiring minds want to know. My opinion, punishment should be reserved for a serious breach of agreements, but to each their own.

rc4otkVA -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 9:17:09 AM)
Fear and nervousness are what you should feel when you await well-deserved punishment from your Master. You should be able to find some comfort in knowing you are serving someone who wishes to improve you, and is dedicated enough to the effort of bettering your performance that he will give you the strong guidance and correction that you need and deserve.

Aylee -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 10:46:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arastella For those of you who are so eager for the update, yes I've been punished, and my ass hurts like a mofo. But everytime I sit down, I remember. Once He had me bent over I tried breathing techniques to keep me calm, my head clear, able to focus on the fact that He loves me enough to remedy the situation. And for anyone who had read the other post about breaking down barriers and such... I haven't cried in 10 years, till tonight, because I was so ashamed, felt so bad, and was so desperate to please Him and knew I hadn't. Apparently I wasn't all bad though, as He DID reward me with more orgasms than I've had in my lifetime after. All good now. Red bottomed, and the problem has been solved, is over and I am high as a kite on post-orgasm. He was being QUITE generous as He simply happened to be really horny and wanted me. Hey! I'm not complaining! Thanks to all who actually gave me good advice instead of shit and bitching. Very much appreciated. Humbly Hilly Honestly, this sounds more like bragging. If I was your D-type, I would wonder if you had learned ANYTHING from this. Of course, I would have handled all of your "careless mistakes" in a completely different manner. You would have had NOTHING to brag or boast about.

lizcgirl -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 11:14:07 AM)
I don't know, it didn't sound like she was bragging to me. I felt the same way after my worst punishment. I cried like a baby for the first time ever and even had to take a breather to just be able to handle it. The release of it was extremely helpful- sometimes people just need a good cry and if it takes a whoppin' to get it- so be it. I thought she was just more relieved and I don't blame her. If she learned her lesson and took her punishment well, let her enjoy the rewards she got too. Can't hurt.

Aylee -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 11:37:36 AM)
quote: more orgasms than I've had in my lifetime I am high as a kite on post-orgasm He simply happened to be really horny and wanted me. Hey! I'm not complaining Thanks to all who actually gave me good advice instead of shit and bitching Liz, Comments like these just do not sound like sincere contrition to ME. Then again, I do not run a corpral punishment dynamic. I would prefer her brain hurt "like a mofo" from thinking about how to correct and prevent those mistakes than her rear. I also do not reward people for accepting the consequences of their actions like an adult. That is just expected.

lizcgirl -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 11:55:15 AM)
Very true. I don't get rewarded for taking my punishment either. I guess I tend to try and focus on the positive aspects instead of the negative- I would rather be motivated to please Him because it pleases Him, not because I'm afraid of punishment. Maybe she looks at it the same way, maybe on some level she wanted the punishment, who knows? But at least she picked herself up and moved on afterwards instead of lingering on it and whinning about it to every one.

RealSub58 -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 12:09:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arastella Master is on His way home and has ordered me to wait with the paddle to be punished. Any advice? [sm=abducted.gif] [sm=banana.gif] [sm=boohoo.gif] [sm=car.gif] [sm=couch.gif] [sm=fingers.gif] [sm=hardlimit.gif] [sm=lalala.gif] [sm=needahug.gif] [sm=noway.gif] [sm=paddle.gif] [sm=sigh.gif] [sm=ubanana.gif] [sm=welcomewave.gif] [sm=wtf.gif] [sm=yesmaster.gif] [sm=wall.gif] [sm=dunno.gif] Any of the above might do, I suggest [sm=wiggleass.gif] without pants

squ1rt -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 12:15:36 PM)
very pop-culture, yet brilliant advice that will work across languages and cultures!

NuevaVida -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 12:42:27 PM)
~ Fast Reply ~ Eh. Sounds to me like she screwed up, she was going to be punished for it, and was nervous about it. Also sounds like she got her punishment and after it was doled out, forgiveness was granted and they moved on. Hopefully a lesson was learned and their bond was strengthened. If so, more power to you both!

VivaciousSub -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 1:58:26 PM)
<fast reply> Not sure why the sex afterwards wasn't supposed to happen. She took her punishment well, has a sore, red ass from it - sitting for the next day or so would certainly remind me to behave - and perhaps it was her fear and anxiety awaiting the punishment that she should remember should she feel tempted to disobey in the future. Additionally, I've seen other posts on this forum that note that punishment can indeed be followed by lots of love and forgiveness. Keeping her in a state of "Master's still mad at me!" after punishment isn't "after punishment" at all.

windchymes -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 3:08:24 PM)
I think, deep down in, it was really "funishment" [;)]

Usako -> RE: About To Be Punished (9/18/2008 4:35:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VivaciousSub Not sure why the sex afterwards wasn't supposed to happen. Well, I'm no expert on punishment when it comes to BDSM, however, it seems counter productive to punish someone then reward them with orgasms. It's like spanking your offspring for being bad then giving him a candy bar after it. But that's just what I take from it.

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