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How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 7:29:31 PM

LadyLupineNYC

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So the other day the slave comes home dog-sick. Fever, malaise, the sleep-all-day-on –the-couch fatigue, headache anytime he sat up…you get the idea. Thankfully, it lasted about just over a day and while he is recovering, the signs of my own illness are becoming clear. So I ask- tongue in cheek- other than making him eat my germy tissues, what’s a good punishment for a slave who makes his/her Master/Mistress ill?

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 7:33:40 PM

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I used to be intentionally sleep deprived because my ex husband didn't like my breathing patterns; they were distracting to him. Maybe he can give you some ideas, as this seems to fall along the same lines.

I know you said tongue in cheeck. I seriously hope you were kidding.

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 7:33:47 PM

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Leave the house so you don't keep passing it between each other?

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 7:35:03 PM

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Good punishment... have him bring you hot soup, cold sprite, soft tissues, warm blankets, the tv remote, massage your feet, etc., all the while you glare at him and say "YOU did this to me".

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 7:39:43 PM

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Oh…he is punishing himself more than I ever could (and, no, I will not make him eat the tissue, just toss them out). As for the ‘service’ of the ill, seems more like everyday around here…this should be ’punishment’ not ‘reward’ lol

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 7:44:53 PM

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Good punishment... have him bring you hot soup, cold sprite, soft tissues, warm blankets, the tv remote, massage your feet, etc., all the while you glare at him and say "YOU did this to me".

*Wonders what it is about that series of rituals that makes it M/s as opposed to any other type of relationship*

Edited for very poor grammar.

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 7:52:23 PM

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You know, it’s funny you mention that I agree, it’s how I am (yes, even to my boy, he so deserves it…poor thing, sick as he was, STILL went out to run some errands for me that could have waited). When I was sick in the past my ex (vanilla) would ask me first thing in the morning if I wanted anything, tea etc and…that was it…if I had said ’no, thanks’ he took it to mean that meant, I don’t know, the WHOLE day or something. After so long with him I really didn’t think much of it but now I am so ‘spoiled’ it does seem like even the simples of human sentiment could have been more evident. To this day, I remain one of those Dommes who you have to tie down (figuratively) to serve, I really have a hard time letting him do all of it when I see myself as perfectly capable on my own. For him, that gives him all the more reason to ‘serve’. I wonder, how do you all feel about that situation as well?

ps..wOOt...this post should be a 2nd handcuff!!

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 7:56:39 PM

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quote:

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Good punishment... have him bring you hot soup, cold sprite, soft tissues, warm blankets, the tv remote, massage your feet, etc., all the while you glare at him and say "YOU did this to me".

*Wonders what it is about that series of rituals that makes it M/s as opposed to any other type of relationship*

Not a thing, which is often something I point out... alot of what goes on in a BDSM relationship is exactly what goes on in a "vanilla" relationship. We don't always have to have special terms for ordinary things.

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/20/2008 8:34:41 PM

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quote:

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Good punishment... have him bring you hot soup, cold sprite, soft tissues, warm blankets, the tv remote, massage your feet, etc., all the while you glare at him and say "YOU did this to me".

Cali

Sounds like the all too appropriate response to the miserable days of pregnancy!

OP, I am not much for punishing that which there was little to no control over, but as a fun lark you could always have a particularly nasty scene brewing for when you get all better.

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 12:48:29 AM

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i either don't see a purpose of punishing a slave because his Mistress (who is moving his ass wherever She wants by the way - my understanding of slavery) got ill thanks to his presence. She is the one in control and charge. However i was used to properly warn my Miss of possible illness and let Her decide whether i should visit the doctor and whether my daily schedule shall be reduced.

Of course, a duty of a healthy slave is to pamper his ill Mistress more than usual, if possible. :)

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 3:21:00 AM

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I did say 'tongue in cheek', dears

Though he was sent to the floor to sleep...

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 3:40:57 AM

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I saw the tongue in cheek, and love it. Lay on the guilt... As punishment-
make him watch endless hours of the campaign coverage or a loop of Hannah Montana & the Jonas Brothers.

Barney the Dinosaur, Suze Orman, the 700 club?

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 3:43:17 AM

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As punishment-
make him watch endless hours of the campaign coverage or a loop of Hannah Montana & the Jonas Brothers.

Barney the Dinosaur, Suze Orman, the 700 club?

oh...you beast!! The only way you could be more of a sadist is to toss a few Elmo tapes into the mix...

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 4:06:09 AM

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quote:

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As punishment-
make him watch endless hours of the campaign coverage or a loop of Hannah Montana & the Jonas Brothers.

Barney the Dinosaur, Suze Orman, the 700 club?

oh...you beast!! The only way you could be more of a sadist is to toss a few Elmo tapes into the mix...

How about Mighty Morphin Power Rangers and Dora the Explorer?

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 4:10:50 AM

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you are a modern day deSade

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 4:25:34 AM

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So I ask- tongue in cheek- other than making him eat my germy tissues, what’s a good punishment for a slave who makes his/her Master/Mistress ill?

Isn't it obvious? Look at him coldly, assume an expression of utmost contempt, and snarl...

"You make me SICK!"

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 8:26:04 AM

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I saw the tongue in cheek, and love it. Lay on the guilt... As punishment-
make him watch endless hours of the campaign coverage or a loop of Hannah Montana & the Jonas Brothers.

Barney the Dinosaur, Suze Orman, the 700 club?

What have I done? You would have thought I accidentally chopped Her arm off for that kind of punishment!!!! Wouldn't you all prefer a nice decapitation or something?

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 8:37:14 AM

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If he's sufficiently recovered, in addition to bringing you lots of hot liquids the house needs to be sanitized. New toothbrushes for all. Bleach to kill germs on all countertops, door knobs, telephone receivers. Tooth brush holders, soap holders, anything movable through the dishwasher.

What you don't want is to keep passing it back and forth by touching surfaces where germs will survive in air.

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 8:46:18 AM

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While I understand your concern, as someone employed in public health I feel I must tale the time to point out that this tactic wouldn’t work. This was a mild virus, once exposed, we have/will develop an immunity to it. The common cold is, in fact, hundreds of different viruses (which is also why there is no ‘cure’ other than just getting it and developing naturally antibodies). Clean the apartment makes sense if we were expecting company, but once he brought it home, it was all over- he would have been ‘infecting’ me even before he himself was symptomatic. Thus, once I saw he was sick, I knew I was ‘doomed’.

Now…who let sfdrw out of his cage?! Back, beast!

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RE: How do I ‘punish’ this? - 9/21/2008 9:54:21 AM

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I say a loop of the "I love you" Barney song for 5 hours straight will be sufficient. It will be stuck in his head forever

I love you, you love me...

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