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ericpup -> Not-so-happy Anniversary to me (9/22/2008 7:53:44 PM)
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Today is my first wedding anniversary. Yay, right? Not so much. You see, before I even met my wife, I had heard some good things about her, that she was "kind of" a freak. She was supposedly bisexual, (a big plus), had done threesomes, etc, etc. We met, and while we were dating, we did some neat things, public stuff, light handcuffing, nothing major. When I moved into her house, I showed her my "trunk o'funk", and she said that she wasn't interested in using the insertables because they had already been used. (I did clean them after use, they weren't dirty or anything, she just knew that they had been used before) I figured, fine, we'd go and get new ones.
We got married, and now... Nothing. Since May, we've had SEX a grand total of 5 times. And play? She recently told me that the only reason she even had me smack her ass was because she thought I was into it. WTF, over? Of course, now being bi is out, so is going to the store. It's like sex has become something that she doesn't even like, and I'm just supposed to deal with it.
And, I've tried to talk to her about it, and I get the response of, "Well, with our schedules and everything else, sex isn't something I'm too worried about."
I am. So, how do I address this? Suggestions would be helpful.
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