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RE: sub protocol - 12/9/2005 11:50:44 AM

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do need to discuss some issues that bothered me after our meeting-- i would like you to read more on protocol about Mistress /s relationships- You are not to use friendly gestures to me in public unless - you have permisson to do so-- Also you are not to talk about your erections and episodes of cumming unless you have been giving premission to do so -- I t is an issue of protocal - If you wish to be my slave - i must insist that you adhere to this-- while i know you are very new to the lifestyle - i feel it necessary to tell you-- when you don't comply - i am not able to help or direct you in the appriopate manner-- this is a must for me-- if you change your mind - i will understand- as your punishment for these infractions- you are NOT to call me this weekend-- i feel you you need to do this research in order to comply with our relationship-- If you want it to progress-- you can e-mail- if you wish to continue- but i will not be available to speak with you- this weekend

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My reply would be: "Get bent".

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RE: sub protocol - 12/9/2005 1:54:37 PM

arson982

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First of all sorry about the spelling and I am not married. do not worry I am still looking around may be she is not the one and who knows.

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RE: sub protcal - 12/9/2005 2:51:53 PM

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On the first day you meet him, you would like to know ... Hey I got a hard on...

It would appear to her that he is a player, looking for sex...

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RE: sub protcal - 12/9/2005 2:54:23 PM

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Am I reading this correctly? YOU are new and you are hoping to take direction and learn from someone who is....NEW? I'm confused.

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RE: sub protcal - 12/9/2005 4:22:42 PM

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communication is always key to all relationships ...i spoke to my Master for a long time before ever meeting him ... and even now we find that some time talking via the interent allows you to talk about thinks you might find it hard to express in person

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RE: sub protcal - 12/9/2005 9:40:39 PM

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I understand where you are coming form. I think to with all of this being so new to me I forgot to be a gentleman and now I can be more free in what I say to her. It was like the other day I told Her that I am starting not to get an erections unless I her her voice or when she writes me.

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RE: sub protcal - 12/9/2005 11:30:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: champagnewishes

Am I reading this correctly? YOU are new and you are hoping to take direction and learn from someone who is....NEW? I'm confused.

read back several pages and you'll see...time, precious time.

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RE: sub protcal - 12/10/2005 11:23:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: imtempting

On the first day you meet him, you would like to know ... Hey I got a hard on...

It would appear to her that he is a player, looking for sex...

When I said that I want to know how a potential submissive is feeling, that is exactly what I meant. Physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually. I spend much time online getting to know them through emails, chats and phone calls, so it wouldnt be like the first time that we have ever talked, just the first time we have met face to face. If I said to him, "how are you feeling" I would want the truth. Period. If I dont want to know, then I wouldnt ask and encourage him to tell Me. I wouldnt want him to lie or say something just because he thinks that is what I want to hear. How can you promote good communication if he feels like he cant say what he is feeling? As far as him appearing like he is looking for sex, I should think that they have spent enough time getting to know each other on the phone, emails and chat that she should already know by the time of the actual face to face meet what he is like and what he truly desires. We all do things differently. I wouldnt be meeting him face to face if I thought that is all he wanted was sex. But then again, I have enough experience to know a player when I meet one, either online or in person.

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RE: sub protcal - 12/10/2005 9:27:52 PM

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I do want to let everyone know that I have been to her home and we have talk over the phone and emailed so as of right now everything is going fine.

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