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What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 5:21:14 AM   
Duckiemine


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Status: offline 		    So, in the middle of watching my favorite internet BDSM show, BaadMaster's Dungeon, my phone rings... anoying yes, but this is life... So on the other lie is one of my good friends wanting to go out... and we did... well on the show, the host (BaadMaster) was like, guys you can find out if a girl at a bar is even semikinky by asking her, whats your fetish? ... so I thought it would be fun to ask this really simple question and put a female spin on it.
  Now, I'm not a beauty..lol.. my friends are, and I'm usually that one fat girl with the hot friends... such is life (and I just so happen to be a proud fat kid, but I digress.) anywho, so after asking a couple of guys, and getting an "I don't have any" or "whats a fetish?" I somehow struck gold...lol, it just happened to be in a guy who was intensely interested inmy bestfriend, who freaks out if shes NOT "in control"...lol..
BUT that got me thinking, and now at appropriate times, or if I'm bored (like now...) to ask,  Whats your fetish? What would you admit to liking? how far would you answer that question to a stranger?

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 5:24:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		If a stranger asked me that? I'd raise my eyebrows and move on. Sounds like a bad line.

Caveat, girls can get away with cheesy lines, guys can't.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 5:28:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		To a stranger, I'd probably admit to D/s if they were asking sincerely.  To someone I got to know online for a while or in person, I'd talk more openly about my sex life and other private aspects.  To someone I was good friends with and had known for some time, I would hope to be able to tell everything about myself.  I want to surround myself with people who accept me the way I am.  It's very freeing and rewarding to have someone you can tell your deepest nastiest secret to.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 5:28:36 AM   
persephonee


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Status: offline 		If the stranger is hot and if i felt comfortable i would prolly answer. i try very hard to not present my desires in a matter of fact way. i consider it a duty to the community to demystify and humanize the face of wiitwd in hopes that some learning could take place. Despite the polarizing opinions about mainstreaming or begging for acceptance of this thing we enjoy...i want to do my part to at least put a face to it...i do the same thing with the lesbian aspect of my life...i try to correct misconceptions in the straight world about homosexuality if i see an opportunity to do so. Same with this.

i usually admit to liking spankings because its a good common lead-in....i was getting spanked wayyy before i ever considered myself to be truly kinky. So its something the vanilla folks can identify with.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 5:33:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		i'd tell them i had a hardcore cuddling fetish.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 5:42:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		i've said this in other threads before, but, will post it here also..

i have several fetishes.. but one of my "stranger" ones would be..

i get turned on, watching a Man obviously enjoying a meal i cooked for Him, the sounds, watching Him 'dig' in.. i don't even care if i eat or not, i just wanna sit there and watch and listen, and begin to squirm a bit in my chair..

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 6:30:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Suhlut, I thought I was the only one who had that "stranger" sort of fetish...lol...

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 6:52:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Stranger?  I'd roll my eyes and move on.
Someone I wanted to answer?  "control"

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 6:53:09 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

If a stranger asked me that? I'd raise my eyebrows and move on. Sounds like a bad line.

Caveat, girls can get away with cheesy lines, guys can't.


greetings Aall
greetings duckie

i’m the opposite  :)  if a Man has the gumption to ask me a bold question early in a conversation, like “what’s your fetish?” not sound dorky, and of course assuming i have some kind of interest in Him physically, it’s a go for me!

my answer would most likely be “stranger sex with some pain around the edges.”  i totally love having sex with strangers.  and if He’s someone I’d actually have “stranger sex” with, and He’s not turned off by the “pain around the edges part,” then i’d most likely do Him.

well wishes,
gemmie

P.S. – although I wouldn’t do it now cause i belong to someOne  :)  at least without permission

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 7:10:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		*grins* I can get away with this in public pretty easily -- my fetish is body modification, fire, and vampire/blood play. And yes, before you ask, I admit to it in vanilla company.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 7:11:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's been a while since I've been out to a bar lol - and I do wear my collar publically when I go out, so to a stranger probably wouldn't be any different than anyone I knew - however I think it'd also have to be "control" - or rather the lack thereof 

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 7:46:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I seem to be very much turned on by the idea of staying at all times smiling, obedient, thankful and innocent towards women who commit disrespectful acts towards me...There are many situations in which i find myself totally compelled to please and serve. I want to be the perfect opposite to a woman who's bad. If she likes to abuse me, i will be totally passive and exposed to her attacks; i enjoy licking a woman's feet just before she makes me drink her golden nectar; i could go wash the bed sheets right after my Mistress has had sex with another man; i like to offer my prettiest smile to a woman who is mistreating me in any way..Pretty much like porn stars who are gang banged but always staying pretty, submissive and useful to others at all times, just to insure they are pleased with you, etc...The only fact that someone dares to use me, degrade and exploit me makes me very hard and i feel i am only a tool for excitement...I find i am extremely attracted by the idea of encouraging someone to exploit me to the bone. It's very erotic to me. I always feel obligated to obey, even if in some cases, i am totally aware that some nasty acts are performed against my dignity ans integrity..I don't care too much about that. For me, it's more important to please like a good little boy..A good slave. I guess i have the proper slave attitude to attract nasty Mistresses.

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 12:18:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am not sure this site has the bandwidth  for me to completely list all my fetishes .And if a random stranger asked me that  well depending on the line of questioning or conversation that got to the  inquiry , i would say "are you sure you wanna know " really ? ooh ok then . I warned ya ;) 

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 12:27:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		IF the question was asked sincerely and IF the person's knowing represented no danger to me or my loved ones, I would answer that I enjoy being bundled up snugly and decoratively and then suspended from a tree branch on a semi-cloudy afternoon.

Sybilla

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 12:32:23 PM   
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I would answer that I enjoy being bundled up snugly and decoratively and then suspended from a tree branch on a semi-cloudy afternoon.

Sybilla

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 12:43:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Fetish.... is it a fetish if you just like the way certain things look on a person? 

Is it a fetish if you bite when excited?

I guess I would reply with a question.. "Do you consider bound to be a liberating experience?"

Stefan

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 12:49:21 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Duckiemine

Whats your fetish? What would you admit to liking? how far would you answer that question to a stranger?


brutalizing a woman to the point to where rape would seem too polite a term...though I feel I'd need to elaborate that this is just one manifestation of a desire to completely possess and mold a woman into what I think is perfection.

and this marks the point in my life that I can no longer run for office.

would I give that answer to a stranger. maybe. if it were a straight male who was just curious, I'd tell him. if it were a female, probably not. would I ever ask this of someone...certainly not.


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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 1:15:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		If a total stranger asked me that I'd probably just look at them an smile. 

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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 3:07:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		If a stranger asked me that question, I would probably respond, "well, that depends...what's in your toy bag?"  And if his response showed that he really did HAVE a kinky toy bag, then I would be truthful.   If he stammered his way through, "uhhh, a whip and some ch-ch-ch-chains?" with a trembly voice I would probably then say, "had an EKG lately?  cuz you look like the type that would have a heart attack dealing with my fetishes."

Gosh I'm such a tart sometimes.


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RE: What is your fetish? - 10/2/2008 3:43:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I Simply say it's leather. Usually if they clue in then no further explanation is needed.

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