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RE: Have you ever questioned your submissiveness? - 10/4/2008 1:08:32 PM

DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead

WIITWD is illegal in many places. For instance, it's illegal to sell sex toys in some places. Also, the law doesn't always recognize consensual battery and can charge both participants with a crime. I believe sodomy is still illegal in places. What about indecent exposure and lewd conduct in the back seat of your car or back row of the movie theater? The thing is, this is an alternative lifestyle. We don't all play by the rules society makes regarding morals.

Now that this thread has been jacked.....back to our regularly scheduled posting.

We aren't talking about dildos here, we're talking about having sex with animals. Something that is not ever going to pass a court challenge.

I could challenge a no consensual assault simply by demanding the law then recognizes inequities and demand they abolish all football and wrestling matches.

Very basically, if it's okay to have sex without consent, then why do we have registered sex offenders? Because that's sex without consent.

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RE: Have you ever questioned your submissiveness? - 10/5/2008 12:19:54 AM

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You said it right here, hun.

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the right Dom will welcome my questions and confessions of fear or reticence and take pleasure in being able to comfort and assure me so that I can eagerly honor his request. Someone who will expect me to just trust and obey but doesn't lose patience with me when I struggle to obey in an area where trust hasn't been earned yet.

From all the things you say you want, you say you need... All the things that make you happy, satisfied, and comfortable... It all comes down to one thing...you are submissive. You just can't submit to just anyone. You need the right man, the right Dominant, who's a perfect match for you and your needs. That was plain selfish and irresponsible of him to demand phone sex in such circumstances. If that's not a flashing sign, I dunno what is.

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RE: Have you ever questioned your submissiveness? - 10/6/2008 12:06:21 AM

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Just my opinion, and nothing more, but happyfollower, you need a safeword. Then, when you're told to get "friendly" with the dog, or any other action that is NOT a part of who you are, or what your moral code consists of, things will all come to a halt to allow time for discussion. And if you're ever with a Dom who doesn't respect your safeword, that tells you all you need to know about that particular person.....just my thoughts on the whole situation.

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