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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/5/2008 8:12:53 PM

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Mmmmmm, meathooks.

No, chilled meathooks.

No wait, chilled meathooks coated with tigerbalm.

God I love this place.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/5/2008 11:04:57 PM

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For me, the "worst" punishment is mental.

Ditto. That cold, indifferent tone makes me cry.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 5:13:38 AM

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My problem with all the people talking about how mental punishment is the worst, is that, what we have here is a Dom who admits he is fairly new, who is honest enough to ask for help and advice.
For me, that cold,indifferant look, or any of the other things talked about here, are BIG. They better come out only when what they are disciplining is really WORTH it. I call them the 'nuclear bombs'. If they were overused, I would become a jumpy, frightened slavegirl, always afriad that my next move would displease him. He uses them almost never.
And, of course, as someone else said, the poor man is also getting a lot of symantics - he acknowldeged up front that 'favorite' was not what he meant. effective was what he said he meant, and, for me, being ignored is not very effective, unless I have really, truly done something that bad. I have never yet done something bad enough for Master to ignore me, although i have once managed, before moving to him, when we still had only our weekends together, to lose the privalage of contact with him for a few hours - and once managed to do something that he felt warrented scolding me but refusing to punish me, the worst punishment i have ever had, to be left to deal with his disappointment in me by myself.
Our punishments, as I said, the things that work very well are some things around them that make it clear that this is punishment, set it out from play in distinct ways. rituals, words, positions, certain implements saved only to be used for punishment. (well, one implement is saved for that). Most of all, the scolding, standing in front of him with him looking at me, seriously, speaking to me - he is not rude, he does not raise his voice, but there is not gentleness and endearments here. The scolding, the questions that come with it that must be answered to him, wich i have no answer for, of course - the tears start long before the punishment.
Being stood in the corner actually *is* a 'favorite' punishment for me. It is calming and centering to me, and I love it. After having done wrong, it brings me back to my slave space in a wonderful way.
But I do not think that I can answer him as best he wants, becuase I think he is looking for difficult to endure type of punishment, and in our dynamic, we save pushing the girl for playtime, so maybe others can give better advice on that - on punishments that are effective because they are harsh, painful, hard to enudre, ect.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 8:47:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: tsatske

My problem with all the people talking about how mental punishment is the worst, is that, what we have here is a Dom who admits he is fairly new, who is honest enough to ask for help and advice.
For me, that cold,indifferant look, or any of the other things talked about here, are BIG. They better come out only when what they are disciplining is really WORTH it. I call them the 'nuclear bombs'. If they were overused, I would become a jumpy, frightened slavegirl, always afriad that my next move would displease him. He uses them almost never.
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But I do not think that I can answer him as best he wants, becuase I think he is looking for difficult to endure type of punishment, and in our dynamic, we save pushing the girl for playtime, so maybe others can give better advice on that - on punishments that are effective because they are harsh, painful, hard to enudre, ect.

i answered the OP very honestly. i have never received a physical punishment from my Master. He also does not give me a "cold, indifferentlook". As i stated, i know when i have displeased or dissappointed Him and knowing that is the most effective punishment.....for me.

Then again, we do not have a "punishment dynamic". When something happens that should not have we do this really crazy thing.....we talk about why it happened and what WE can do to avoid it in the future.

Just my opinions, FWIW

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 9:08:49 AM

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Ugh for me it is the lecture followed by a no contact rule for a pre stipulated amount of time! i can't stress though how important it is for Him to be true to his word about the length of time.... otherwise the old abandonment issues start taking over and detracting from the purpose of the no contact....

to give me time to reflect on my actions or behaviour and to miss Him......

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 9:43:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

If punishment is done correctly it should not be a favorite thing.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 9:57:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: heyjohn56

Hello again. I'm SirLucas on CM. I posted a while ago asking about favorite assignments and tasks, and I got a lot of wonderful answers. I mixed them with some of the ideas I had and have already had My prospective slave perform them.

Now I'd like to ask about some of your favorite punishments. Of course you know I don't mean the ones that may have actually felt good. I mean the ones that were most effective. The ones you really learned and grew from.

Thanks in advance for all input. Peace and happiness to all.

SirLucas

Maybe others see discipline (punishment) as favourite but I do not.
The knowing I have displeased him is ruthless enough.

Personally, I think this whole notion of "favourite punishments" might lead a woman who tends to like to push limits into a "favourite punishment" just so that she can feel the pleasure pain of a crop or whip or belt or whatever as "favourite."

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 10:13:01 AM

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Okay, not favorite as in "oh yeah, I like that, mmmm" but as in "I really learned a valuable lesson" here. Yet another shining example of it's not what you say, but how you say it. Because punishments don't jive with favorite things in my mind, and I am not alone in this way of thinking, which is evident in the responses to the OP.

For me, it's not the physical side of things (only good girls get spankings in my house) but the mental things. Quiet treatment, that "look" that says "I am disappointed in you". Ouch. Luckily, this is a rare occurrence but when I get "the look" I know I fucked up big, and I better make things right.

Edited 'cuz I made words that made no sense!! *shuffles off to make more coffee*

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 10:20:45 AM

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i get the feeling these answers are not helping the wank....i mean...the op

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 11:23:48 AM

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I think a better question would have been what's your least favorite punishment, but that's just me.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/6/2008 9:55:01 PM

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Favorite and punishment just don't go together for me.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/9/2008 6:24:35 PM

Zechriel

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Good evening!
There is no favorite punishment, I think we can all agree on that . However, we can turn that to effective like someone said. Oh man....I hate being punished..I know I should be waaaayyyy more punished than I am but Daddy says that will come when he is ready. The one single time I was -was for..gosh I can't remember but I had to bend over, and not only get spanked but count it out. THAT was the clincher-counting it out, how embarrassing!!! 10 of the longest, most intense whacks of my 36 year old life. Good luck!
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P.S. ah yes, I remember, I was using my nails to tickle Daddy even after he kept telling me to stop. Needless to say, I have not done THAT again.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/11/2008 5:00:37 PM

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For me knowing that i have disappoint Him is enough. Depending on how bad i have disappointed Him sometimes i become physically ill, nauseous, a little shaky and just all around yucky. So i do my best not to disappoint, i am not sure why it has such an effect on me. Since my Master and i are a bit a part in distance sometimes a carefully worded text is enough, the words are not harsh, but used and placed in a manner that lets me know how disappointed He is in me, i have had a few that have made me cry.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/17/2008 12:05:58 PM

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wow, I love being punished...Master T thinks I do some things just to get punished! Those days are BAD because he uses the "no punishment is more punishment" idea. My fav would need to be swats with the middle sized wooden paddle :) Master T also uses a vibe on me to try to make me cum, but tells me I can't cum-works great, but makes me very tired! I've started posting my punishments on my blog daily (along with my random thoughts and things) at mtslave.wordpress.com if you want to see what I like (daily)

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/17/2008 8:11:06 PM

Arastella

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ORIGINAL: laura2161

Favorite punishment?

If its punishment then there should be no favorite, just dreaded.

to reiterate what the OP said, he mentioned not what you enjoyed but what ones were most effective and which ones you learned from the most. Nonetheless, I think he should not have used "favorites" as a word of choice

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/19/2008 10:04:48 PM

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Having to eat a french fry from the wrong end.

Meaning the wrong end of the french fry.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/19/2008 10:06:46 PM

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rofl....now that made me laugh!

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/20/2008 2:27:43 AM

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I'm a bit of a Word Nazi myself, but sheesh! Obviously, the question wasn't meant to be taken that literally. I mean, this is a BDSM site, for crying out loud! Do you really need "punishment" to be in quotation marks? Good freaking lord, people...

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/20/2008 4:54:45 AM

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Being ignored as someone said, is my worst punishment. I hate it when Master does that to me, it also humbles me really fast. he'll also take away my art stuff, or my favorite things to do when he isn't around.

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RE: Favorite punishments! - 10/20/2008 5:12:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: heyjohn56

Now I'd like to ask about some of your favorite punishments. Of course you know I don't mean the ones that may have actually felt good. I mean the ones that were most effective.

I hold good conversation in high esteem and I love dining in restaurants. It doesn't take a great deal of time for women to realise I place great value on these. There's no greater punishment than suggesting that because of a certain action I find disappointing, she has nothing of value to provide for the time being. Thus, I take her to a restaurant, where she doesn't eat, doesn't look at me, and doesn't speak, while I enjoy wine and food; and she is reminded that not only have her actions led to me being disappointed in the first instance, and her missing out on a good night's entertainment; but also that she has indirectly cut off the conversation at a restaurant that I appreciate it.

It certainly has been effective in the past.

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