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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/8/2008 8:40:46 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		Hmmm, a slave/Domme profile...looking for Domme's to cam with the slave while she's at work, and he's home with the baby?   Yeah, there  are Tons of women who want to spend all day working while their husband neglects their child, who is old enough to walk in on "daddy", while he's camming and playing with another woman.

Sorry, but I can't even pretend that this is not fake.


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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/8/2008 9:25:25 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		Not sure about the profile or pic, but this all sounds a bit like the Punch and Judy Show to me.

I think one of you gets a big stick and hits the other and says with a nasal voice,"That's the way to do it! That's the way to do it!"

Don't forget to toss the baby out halfway through, and don't forget the sausages, crocodile or hangman.

At least, that's what I remember.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/9/2008 8:41:54 AM   
RealSub58


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ORIGINAL: alcamslave

Hmmm.... I ask for ideas and I get insinuations and insults


You are a self proclaimed perfectionist (with thin skin if you cant take what this board is writing)...
so was my sister..... she owned one salon and 6 employees walked out on her, now she works alone...
 
I will stand my ground in promoting my first post in this thread.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/9/2008 9:00:53 AM   
dangerousangel


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Status: offline 		I'll give this a serious response, because hey, why not.

Punishment ideas? Ask him.
Instruct him to write down the chorse he hates doing, the little nit-picky jobs that make him crazy. Those make -great- punishments. He hates doing the dishes? Have him wash every pot in the house. He hates cooking? Have him learn to prepare at least one gormet-level dish, regardless of how much trial and error.

Find out his favorite type of entertainment. Watching TV, playing on the internet, video games, whatever. Remove that priviledge, or restrict it. Reduce time allowed for every infraction.

Forbid his favorite food/snack/beverage.

Limit alchohol consuption.

If he smokes, limit cigarette consumption.


If you're really looking for honest-to-god behavior modification, think outside the "hit him with a stick" box. From experience, it -really- makes you re-think your actions to lose computer time for a week.


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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/13/2008 6:26:04 PM   
alcamslave


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Status: offline 		Thank you dangerousangel. I have done things like that in the past and it hasn't had the response I would hope for. I am looking for a really unique idea that won't interfere or hinder him in keeping our daughter.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/14/2008 1:25:18 AM   
shewhoserves


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsAuthoritarian

Go see a Pro Dom she will be happy to assist you.


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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/14/2008 2:09:20 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		Are you looking for ways to make him more likely to do his jobs good or are you looking for ways to punish him when he fails? For punishment indeed take away things he likes...really take them away so he can not disobey, take the modem to work with you...don't leave him any money, stuff like that
As for incentives to do his work good...does he like rope? you can tie him, just his body under his clothes before you go to work so he can feel you all day. Does he like humiliation? he can take pictures of himself doing humiliating things for you to see when you come home...it will only take a minute when the child is at toddlers or having a nap and it'll keep him stimulated...have him write you sexy stories in his coffee break...
All the Dommes are right though...You have to find out how to play him so it benefits you all and your child does not suffer.
But somehow i don't believe you are really a sad man who is now smearing his own windows with butter...have faith girls (no disrespect intended)

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/14/2008 12:25:28 PM   
masterdstar


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Status: offline 		Gee so so many:
Cleaning is always good, bathroom, kitchen etc with a mouth brush gag, for shorter periods of time figging works very well as does a sandpaper jock or a metal mesh cock cage tied off good and tight with an ass plug to keep it working on him, and there is always thumb tacks in a rag tied up and around to hold his balls up good and tight and on and on and on….

Enjoy your wonder-filled day

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 10/14/2008 3:25:30 PM   
tweedydaddy


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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 8:09:22 PM   
alcamslave


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Status: offline 		figging? sand paper jock? Where can I get these? Or how would I go about making them?

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 8:15:46 PM   
coachjasonp


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Status: offline 		Is he locked in a chastity device?  That might help.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 8:20:48 PM   
alcamslave


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Status: offline 		Depends on if he is good... Normally he is kept in a one but with the baby I doubt he would be able to sneak off too much

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 8:47:50 PM   
steffie


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Status: offline 		Alcamslave, your profile says that you are a couple but your posts/profile/pix read as if they are coming from Al the male cam slave. 

Rather than providing you with ways to abuse yourself, i wish i could explain to you the value of being straight-up with people. 

For one, you'd receive a lot more sincere help and support.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 8:49:16 PM   
antipode


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quote:

I ask for ideas and I get insinuations and insults


Well... There are people who have conversations, communicate, are a bit sociable, and then there are the oneliners - no participation, not even a tiny bit of background, you put your order in, we have to cough up the goods, and on top of that all you are after is online stuff. It is what I would call a whole lotta one way traffic. I am happy for you you found a guy who fell for it - now you have two babies. Maybe.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 9:13:47 PM   
alcamslave


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Status: offline 		I am not willing to share my slut yet. Hence the online bit. I'm not sure about the two babies part... I am a travel nurse and he takes care of our baby. We move every 13 weeks. I make enough for us.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 9:20:59 PM   
MAMandSlave


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Status: offline 		I would suggest that if he is not completing his assigned tasks, he be ordered to stuff his anus full of Jalepeno peppers. I used this with my girl, having her stuff her pussy and anus full of peppers, and keep them there for 35 minutes.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 9:23:59 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: MAMandSlave

I would suggest that if he is not completing his assigned tasks, he be ordered to stuff his anus full of Jalepeno peppers. I used this with my girl, having her stuff her pussy and anus full of peppers, and keep them there for 35 minutes.



You know... it just seems like there *has* to be some health risk to that. Did you, by any chance, check with a medical professional about this?

But then again, my motto is: If sounds like the start to an ER's doctor's party story, it's probably not a good idea. And man does that sound like the start of a great one.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 11/16/2008 9:29:20 PM >

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 9:27:38 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Punishment is most often the least effective and least healthy way of effecting positive behavioral change, not to mention usually a waste of time.

Perhaps the issue isn't the behavior, but the standards?  If not the standards, perhaps your training methods?

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 9:44:40 PM   
babygirlkitten


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figging? sand paper jock? Where can I get these? Or how would I go about making them?


Figging? The grocery store. Ginger root's pretty cheap.

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RE: Help or suggestions training My husband - 11/16/2008 10:31:05 PM   
alcamslave


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Status: offline 		Ginger root? I'm sorry I don't get it. What am I supposed to to with a root?

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