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Taik -> RE: Ever think about these questions? (12/7/2005 2:19:37 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
" I want to serve"..
Q--Do you know how to make a bed with square corners and the Marine coin toss?
Can you clean a toilet?
Can you separate My clothes so My whites aren't pink?
Have you done litter pans?
Have you ever been a secretary?
What are your organization skills?
Have you worked in a vegetable garden?
What is your current diet like?
Do you have allergies?
Do you know your way around a grocery store, and not looking for cigarettes?
Do you currently have any debt or bad debts?
What if any is your spiritual orientation?
1) Yes =) Hospital corners are great, then the bed dosn't pull apart in rough activities.
2) Yes
3) Yes I even know when to use bleach and when not to, and I promptly fold everything out of the drier so it dosn't wrinkle (most of the time =* )
4) Yup Until I left the house at 18
5) Yes 11 months ish before I moved to current job
6) Finacial or physical? Everything is organized and I can tell you where anything is at any time inside my living area or work area.
7) Yes though with our short growing season growing up most I ever got was tomato's and carrots.
8) Cheese, Bread, daily Tea, soup, lots of water, and random junk food binges. I try to eat small healthy amounts.
9) Yes Dust/Pollen/Pets
10) Yes, I even worked in on for a year. I also know my way around German, Japanese ones too and now I'm learning Italian ones.
11) No Debt, I hate Debt.. if I can't afford it out of pocket I don't need it.
12) Christian (catholic to be precise) I partake in my spritual self through quite relaxing community worship in a local parish. I'm really picky though so I dont always go if I dont like the on in the area.
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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
"Use me as You see fit"
Q--Can I attach you to a Hummer by your CB for CBT?
Can I send you to the Czech Domme camp for a month to get trained?
I assume by that statement you aren't opposed to being branded?
A better statement for me would be "Use me as you see fit in the bounds we both agreed on"
Communication is important, so estabishing bounds of behavior and action for both you along with expectaions is an important thing before such a statement. But to humor your questions =)
1) You could... but I'd be missriable, scream a lot, and be really hurt afterwards. (I dont deal well with CBT after a recent hurnia surgery)
2) You could... but I beg and beg you not to. Plus I like to be trained to your standards and desires not someone else in a far flung camp.
3) Nope not really, though I dont really like such things I could deal with if she really wanted me too. Though I would try to make sure she had all avaliblr information on the subject before she makes a final choice.
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ORIGINAL: LadiesBladewing
We also ask things like:
Have you taken care of a living will?
What are your preferences for your body if you die?
What are your preferences if you are unable to tell the doctors about whether you want life support?
(If they have unmentionables) Have you arranged a will to assure that your "unmentionable" is taken care of if something happens to you?
(If they have unmentionables) Who do you want your unmentionable to go to if you are in an accident?
(If they live separately) Do you have homeowner's insurance and have you been keeping it current?
(If they have a car) What are the limits on your automobile policy, is it current, and is it sufficient to cover damages and medical expenses if you are in an accident?
(If they have a driver's license) Do you have any tickets, are they moving violations, and how many/how recently have you been ticketed?
What are your current practices in regards to things like drinking and driving?
Have you ever shoplifted or stolen from your job?
Ok... this is only a partial list... but most of these come up or are answered one way or another during our early weeks/months together (usually before the consideration collar, and always before the House collar.) We are also willing to answer these (and other necessary but unusual questions that have come up) for our servants.
Lady Zephyr
1) Yes I have one from work
2) Cremation if she wishes to keep my remains around, if not national cemetary.
3) Don't forcefully keep me alive. If I'm brain dead or my body wants to go.. then let it.
4) See #1 (unless we are talking about underwear... then she can do what she wants with it)
5) See #1 and 4
6) Don't own a home
7) Anyone over 25 can drive, yes, yes and yes
8) 1 speeding ticket in Germany, other then that none in 4 yrs. Before that 2 speeding tickets in VA, before that 2 car accidents at 16.
9) I refuse to drink and drive. If I am going to drink I take a bus/tazi/friend together.. not driving there means no temptations. If I drink I bum a ride.
10) No
Lots of very good questions to answer. I think I will be forwarding this list to my Better Half, though she has asked me a few of these some are ones we didn't think of. Thanks for the great questions =D
Edited to add: Many people impose limits (hard and soft) on themselves and things they are willing to do. Something I've come to realize latly is that no matter how many you impose when you find someone whom you love, and who loves you back, many of those limits go out the window once you submit. The statment of "Anything for love" comes to mind.. things I never thought I'd do or didn't want to do suddenly become bearable if she is the one asking me to. Basically her hard and fast limits became mine, not the other way around. So when asking questions of each other, try to follow the example of the above Lady's ask practicile questions that deal with every subjects, instead of about kinks and limits that might change once the relationship starts.
Just my 2 cents
Taik
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