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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/10/2008 3:30:04 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I have never had an average submissive male. The average, as it is presented by the males on here and most sites, is pretty spot on to the OP. We have these perceptions becasue that is what is presented to us , on AVERAGE.
Which is why I never settle for average. I go for the one who sticks out from the crowd.

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/10/2008 6:13:59 PM   
hopelesslyInvo


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ORIGINAL: Venatrix
And you've got an enormous . . . hallway.


actually it's pretty narrow, i can't even fully extend my elbows while walking down it, it's about the typical width of a doorway~

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
And you're sweet, too!


shhhh, it's best not to mention that right after 'a modest proposal' has been brought up! 

< Message edited by hopelesslyInvo -- 10/10/2008 6:16:34 PM >

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/10/2008 6:58:57 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hopelesslyInvo

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix
And you've got an enormous . . . hallway.


actually it's pretty narrow, i can't even fully extend my elbows while walking down it, it's about the typical width of a doorway~



That's all right.  Length does just as well as width.

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 3:46:31 AM   
cuckyboy4U


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Actually, most of your remarks describe most women's opinion of most men.  Go ahead.  Prove us wrong.


Men rule the world.

that was easy.

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 7:58:02 AM   
Rever


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Status: offline 		I don't have very good social skills, but that has to do with a medical condition I have called Asperger syndrome also I am a very shy and timid person to begin with. Yeah, its makes it really hard for me to get into conversations esp with Women. That Kinda explains why I probably have a hard time getting into relationships

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 8:05:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rever

I don't have very good social skills, but that has to do with a medical condition I have called Asperger syndrome also I am a very shy and timid person to begin with. Yeah, its makes it really hard for me to get into conversations esp with Women. That Kinda explains why I probably have a hard time getting into relationships


I'm sure it feels unnatural but for you it takes practice. Perhaps you were coached what to say when from your mom as I do with my 10 year old boy with aspergers. he also is taught in a social group. Perhaps if you had these types of help, you can refer back to it when trying to be social. Smile, Look people in the eye, dont just talk endlessly, let them speak and look for common ground. Are they looking at you intently as you speak or looking around? if they are leave them alone.

There are many happy and in love and married people with aspergers syndrome. Not being Neurotypical is not the worse thing in the world. You are just different.

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 8:22:16 AM   
malloves69


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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 8:26:57 AM   
LadyJulieAnn


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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

It's my perception
that the general female dominant's perception
of the average submissive male
is that:

He is a chronic masturbator
He has no social skills
He has no interest in "the Real World (tm)" and has no aspirations other than being a slave
  (Except for the fact that his concept of being a slave has nothing in common with your idea of what a slave should be)
Is willing to submit to anyone, anytime, anywhere. Possibly anything.
Has learned all he knows about human interaction from porn, apparently since conception

and critically

Outnumbers you by (conservatively speaking) roughly one hundred and fifty trillion to one.
(and did I mention that his entire existence consists of watching porn, masturbating, and annoying women on the Internet?)

As these "men" have zero value to female dominants, and (at least in theory) even less to "normal" women, what would you propose that society do with them all?


Perhaps the "average submale" should change his perceprtion of himself...

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 8:34:05 AM   
Venatrix


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ORIGINAL: cuckyboy4U

quote:



Actually, most of your remarks describe most women's opinion of most men.  Go ahead.  Prove us wrong.


Men rule the world.

that was easy.



They certainly do.  It's a good thing women don't have to take responsibility for the mess men have made of it.

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 8:59:19 AM   
Rever


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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: Rever

I don't have very good social skills, but that has to do with a medical condition I have called Asperger syndrome also I am a very shy and timid person to begin with. Yeah, its makes it really hard for me to get into conversations esp with Women. That Kinda explains why I probably have a hard time getting into relationships


I'm sure it feels unnatural but for you it takes practice. Perhaps you were coached what to say when from your mom as I do with my 10 year old boy with aspergers. he also is taught in a social group. Perhaps if you had these types of help, you can refer back to it when trying to be social. Smile, Look people in the eye, dont just talk endlessly, let them speak and look for common ground. Are they looking at you intently as you speak or looking around? if they are leave them alone.

There are many happy and in love and married people with aspergers syndrome. Not being Neurotypical is not the worse thing in the world. You are just different.



Yeah, Finding common ground and starting the conversation is the hardest, as well my vice can be monotoned, esp when talking to someone I don't know, i'm also very reluctant to open up to someone I don't know, because I afraid of offending them and blowing away my chances. Again, i think some times women get the wrong message from me because of it, or they think I just want sex from them.

ON and other dating site, here I spend about 30 minutes to an hour(this include picking apart there profile) trying to figure out what to say to a a Women I am interested in, and end up with two sentences, it mite be easier for me if their wont so many pesky do-me men on these sites><

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 4:32:33 PM   
OneMoreWaste


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ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

Perhaps the "average submale" should change his perceprtion of himself...


Oh, this is all external judgement.

If you like, I can go through some recent posts here and get supporting quotes... It's Saturday night, so I've got plenty of time to kill


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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 5:00:52 PM   
tweedydaddy


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Status: offline 		That's not my subs sweetie. But it does sound like the emails I've been getting. I think most of them will die virgins.

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 8:59:53 PM   
LadyJulieAnn


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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyJulieAnn

Perhaps the "average submale" should change his perceprtion of himself...


Oh, this is all external judgement.

If you like, I can go through some recent posts here and get supporting quotes... It's Saturday night, so I've got plenty of time to kill



Is it all external judgement?  I could probably get as many quotes from submissive profiles showing how some characterize themselves as the "average submale". 

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/11/2008 9:23:19 PM   
chiaThePet


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What do you think the "average submale" should do?

Go shopping.

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/12/2008 6:34:25 AM   
MmeGigs


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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett
Actually, the OP just did a pretty good job of describing the vast majority of the people who send me messages.  I seem to be a magnet for the type.  *shrug* 


Yes, that's pretty much my experience here and in other online venues, too.  I think that stuff is representative of what one is likely to come across in online venues, not of what real-life malesubs are like. 

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/12/2008 7:35:13 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste

He is a chronic masturbator - he was but now enjoys wearing chastity belts

He has no social skills - if he didn't, he wouldn't be my pet ...or have that new job promotion

He has no interest in "the Real World (tm)" and has no aspirations other than being a slave
  (Except for the fact that his concept of being a slave has nothing in common with your idea of what a slave should be) - oh really? he does have aspirations of being my subbie pet/lover/bf/husband - oh yeah i guess that's why we're planning a wedding.

Is willing to submit to anyone, anytime, anywhere. Possibly anything. - he might be submissive however he's mine and doesn't submit to others.

Has learned all he knows about human interaction from porn, apparently since conception - LMAO

and critically

Outnumbers you by (conservatively speaking) roughly one hundred and fifty trillion to one.
(and did I mention that his entire existence consists of watching porn, masturbating, and annoying women on the Internet?) -need to show me how you came up with that outrageous number.

As these "men" have zero value to female dominants, and (at least in theory) even less to "normal" women, what would you propose that society do with them all?   you might consider yourself having zero value however my pet is worth more than you imagine.


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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/13/2008 6:20:33 PM   
HotMistress22


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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/13/2008 6:26:17 PM   
RichieB


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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/13/2008 8:21:27 PM   
hardbodysub


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ORIGINAL: Racquelle

He's only a chronic masturbator until I make him order a CB 400 off Extreme Restraints.


Maybe I'm a bit slow, but CB 400 doesn't ring a bell. Am I missing something?

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RE: What do you think the "average submale" s... - 10/13/2008 8:29:19 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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ORIGINAL: OneMoreWaste
It's my perception
that the general female dominant's perception
of the average submissive male
is that:

He is a chronic masturbator
He has no social skills
He has no interest in "the Real World (tm)" and has no aspirations other than being a slave
  (Except for the fact that his concept of being a slave has nothing in common with your idea of what a slave should be)
Is willing to submit to anyone, anytime, anywhere. Possibly anything.
Has learned all he knows about human interaction from porn, apparently since conception

and critically

Outnumbers you by (conservatively speaking) roughly one hundred and fifty trillion to one.
(and did I mention that his entire existence consists of watching porn, masturbating, and annoying women on the Internet?)

As these "men" have zero value to female dominants, and (at least in theory) even less to "normal" women, what would you propose that society do with them all?


I don't know if this is a valid description of the average "online" male submissive, as I don't deal much with the "online" BDSM community.

As far as the r/l BDSM community goes, this description fits nobody I know.  In fact, I'd go so far as to say that in the real life community, there is no such critter as "the average sub male."

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