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JessieMe -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/23/2008 7:15:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrincessJ77 Sometimes people just don't like hearing, thanks, but we're not compatible. The dick pics, don't deserve a reply, however. Giggle, delete, move on. Personally I think it depends on just how big that dick in the pic is....some actually deserve an award as well as a response. [sm=bowdown.gif]

Beneathhumanity -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/23/2008 11:56:07 PM)
Now I haven't read through all the pages of responses, so I shall just be stating my honest opinion here, being this profile is quite new the moment I joined it seemed as if a great number of those interested in me started getting in touch of me wanting me being my desires remain with being reduced and dehumanized. I took time to write my profile and create the name so it could help me what I might be looking for, however I didn't count on getting 5 pages within the days I joined. Now I have several to return messages to, it feels like a job just to get in touch with everyone, I message each person who I may consider, however those who send me one liners I don't appreciate and ignore being if someone can't put there thoughts out literately. How am I suspose to expect them to be able to comprehend the subspace in my mind? I do understand if they have a learning difficulty or have problems putting their words onto the screen,being I have somewhat a learning difficulty myself. This doesn't mean message someone five times in hoping they will respond to you. It seems the moment I read or view someone's profile, they immediately send me five more messages to see why I haven't responded to them. I try my best to get back to everyone however its hard. I am real and I expect the same from the person I may be conversing with. From the few responses, I've read I agree with them,being I don't have a duty to anyone but myself and whoever in the long run I choose to allow hold my submission. Being my duty now is for those I care for,not for everyone who tends to message me. With that said, I shall mention that I am enjoying those I've spoken to so far, looking forward to partipating here more often as well.

kidwithknife -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 4:18:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OneSickFck I've said earlier on the thread I PREFER no response to a cut and paste "thanks but no thanks" email because if they are not interested it saves me 10 seconds of my precious free time to open, read and delete such emails. I get more than my fair share of no responses and my feeling (no doubt due to an overinflated sense of self worth) is "It's their loss, not mine!"! I agree totally. I really don't want to log in to check my mail, only to find out that it's entirely made up of "no thanks" emails. I'd rather that people who talk to me actually want to, strangely enough. In fact, I'd go further. If find "thanks but no thanks" emails pointless and formulaic enough to be close to spam. So I find them "rude". As rude as other people find not getting replies. The only real difference is that I don't expect other people to modify their online behaviour to fit in with my preferences...

LookieNoNookie -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 6:27:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Slavelary I've had one idiot on CM saying he was on a ship to Africa wanting me to mail some packages for him to start our 'relationship'. Stay away from such scams! I sent that chic $12,000.00.

SusieBlue -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 6:50:52 PM)
If someone is unenjoyably offensive, I won't reply at all but I do give the "I don't think we're compatible blahblahblah" responses if they're polite. My reasoning is that just because I don't want to play with someone, it doesn't mean we can't have an interesting conversation. That sentence is grammatically shaky and I can't pinpoint why.

persephonee -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 6:56:20 PM)
Yes you did and i thank you for it wholeheartedly....it came in handy. perse

DavanKael -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 6:56:54 PM)
Hi, MasterChip2008---- I don't know what you're sending them, but I'll work on the assumption that it's somewhat coherent and respectful. As an s-type individual, I don't view a stranger as anyone worthy of or having earned my service at all. Personally, it is my policy to reply to e-mails I receive on cm even if it's just to say "thank you, best wishes" or some such. Some lack social graces in terms of lack of reply but your presumption that by identifying in the s-realm, one ought reply strikes me as ratherpresumptuous on your part. Best wishes, Davan

HornyToadsMI -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 7:34:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterChip2008 I am growing deeply concerned about the sub's and slave's that do not ever reply/respond to message's sent to them by Masters/Mistreess's, not even a polite 'Thanks, but no thanks' would be nice. That is common courtesy. But if a person is being inundated with email, it can be hard to respond to every one! However, increasingly, I find that its virtually impossible to receive a response from sub's and slave's when they are contacted thru here. A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'. And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever. It is a sub/slaves responsibility to respond to their own Master, not everyone who comes down the 'Pike'. So, to be bitter cuz a slave/sub doesn't respond to you out of responsibility is just plain silly. She/he is no Your sub...... Another matter, on a different subject is...there has been a huge outbreak of 'supposed' subs/slaves sending message's to Masters and Mistresses from out of the USA, from Ghana for example. They claim they want a 'owner', but then go on to 'demand' extreme funds for plane tickets, visa's, and passports, making claims that all can be had within 72 hours time, IF they have the money. I have, personally, checked this out....the shortest time anyone can get a passport/visa from Ghana, or most anywhere else is actually 6 months or more, and even then, some governments require that the person requesting thses documents have a large bank account balance and real property in they're country, there-by assureing thery're return. I have not found any country willing to grant visa's and passports within 72 hours, and normally there is a long and detailed process by which said items are gotten anyway. My advise to all Masters and Mistresses, if you get a message from someone outside of your own country, simply do not reply, its most likely a 'con-game' to simply get your money. And for those who receive message's from those in your country, be sure that if you assist with transportation for these subs/slave's, you pre-pay for the ticket, so you can get a refund if the ticket is not used and it cannot be cashed in by anyone else... Thanks for the heads up! On a final note, I hope everyone here, Masters,Mistresses, slaves and subs have a wonderful day and night!! Master Chip 2008

HornyToadsMI -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 7:38:17 PM)
MMMM...big dicks get a response in my book!!! Just not BIG ASSES.......LOL quote: ORIGINAL: JessieMe quote: ORIGINAL: PrincessJ77 Sometimes people just don't like hearing, thanks, but we're not compatible. The dick pics, don't deserve a reply, however. Giggle, delete, move on. Personally I think it depends on just how big that dick in the pic is....some actually deserve an award as well as a response. [sm=bowdown.gif]

OrdernChaos -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 9:53:31 PM)
Chip, I am going to guess from the photo on your profile and by the words in it, that you live and operate in a very different world than most people do. Courtesy, respect, honor, hell..... civility, are all lost commodities in this world. Most people here are for the taking - whatever they can get out of life (especially from others) in the short time alloted to them. I have an expression I like to use, "a tribe of thieves", and this is common place in todays society and in watering holes like this. Think of it as the human equivalent to a pack of hyenas and yourself as the lone lion and you are good to go. As such, it should come to you as no surprise that subs, slaves or others do not extend the courtesy of a formal, "thanks but no thanks", let alone make it their priority to serve. The task at hand for Men like you, is to stay the course, be true to yourself, and a real one will surely present herself to you. It has happened to me before and it will happen to you again, Hang in there and thank you for posting, OnC

GreedyTop -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 10:20:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OrdernChaos Chip, I am going to guess from the photo on your profile and by the words in it, that you live and operate in a very different world than most people do. Courtesy, respect, honor, hell..... civility, are all lost commodities in this world. Most people here are for the taking - whatever they can get out of life (especially from others) in the short time alloted to them. I have an expression I like to use, "a tribe of thieves", and this is common place in todays society and in watering holes like this. Think of it as the human equivalent to a pack of hyenas and yourself as the lone lion and you are good to go. As such, it should come to you as no surprise that subs, slaves or others do not extend the courtesy of a formal, "thanks but no thanks", let alone make it their priority to serve. The task at hand for Men like you, is to stay the course, be true to yourself, and a real one will surely present herself to you. It has happened to me before and it will happen to you again, Hang in there and thank you for posting, OnC well, yanno, since you're such a paragon.. you don't have to hang out with us, yanno.. (don't let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya on the way out....)

masterforRT -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/27/2008 11:36:06 PM)
I dunno...perhaps no one here knows how to be polite?

susie -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/28/2008 1:57:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OrdernChaos Chip, I am going to guess from the photo on your profile and by the words in it, that you live and operate in a very different world than most people do. Courtesy, respect, honor, hell..... civility, are all lost commodities in this world. Most people here are for the taking - whatever they can get out of life (especially from others) in the short time alloted to them. I have an expression I like to use, "a tribe of thieves", and this is common place in todays society and in watering holes like this. Think of it as the human equivalent to a pack of hyenas and yourself as the lone lion and you are good to go. As such, it should come to you as no surprise that subs, slaves or others do not extend the courtesy of a formal, "thanks but no thanks", let alone make it their priority to serve. The task at hand for Men like you, is to stay the course, be true to yourself, and a real one will surely present herself to you. It has happened to me before and it will happen to you again, Hang in there and thank you for posting, OnC Hm how Prima Donna'ish

RainydayNE -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/28/2008 2:18:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DavanKael Hi, MasterChip2008---- I don't know what you're sending them, but I'll work on the assumption that it's somewhat coherent and respectful. As an s-type individual, I don't view a stranger as anyone worthy of or having earned my service at all. Personally, it is my policy to reply to e-mails I receive on cm even if it's just to say "thank you, best wishes" or some such. Some lack social graces in terms of lack of reply but your presumption that by identifying in the s-realm, one ought reply strikes me as ratherpresumptuous on your part. Best wishes, Davan agreed.

PhoenixAscendant -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/28/2008 5:57:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RainydayNE quote: ORIGINAL: DavanKael Hi, MasterChip2008---- I don't know what you're sending them, but I'll work on the assumption that it's somewhat coherent and respectful. As an s-type individual, I don't view a stranger as anyone worthy of or having earned my service at all. Personally, it is my policy to reply to e-mails I receive on cm even if it's just to say "thank you, best wishes" or some such. Some lack social graces in terms of lack of reply but your presumption that by identifying in the s-realm, one ought reply strikes me as rather presumptuous on your part. Best wishes, Davan agreed. Also agreeing to all statements.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/28/2008 6:12:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OrdernChaos As such, it should come to you as no surprise that subs, slaves or others do not extend the courtesy of a formal, "thanks but no thanks", why spend time answering every single hng's and domly wannabes' message ...especially if they routinely fill your mailbox daily. if you were in the shoes of most submissives/slaves and see the crap that gets sent to our in and spambox, you too wouldn't be deleting messages without responding. quote: let alone make it their priority to serve. it's our priority to be treated and respected as a woman, person, human being first. if owned, our priority is towards the one who owns us. it's *NOT* our priority to serve every dominant/master who slap said title on their uber domly name.

CarrieO -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (10/28/2008 6:31:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OrdernChaos As such, it should come to you as no surprise that subs, slaves or others do not extend the courtesy of a formal, "thanks but no thanks", let alone make it their priority to serve. I asked you a question in you own thread concerning this problem you have with assuming all sub/slaves are required to serve all who write, which you never answered. Why? You and the OP are nothing to me....why do I or anyone else need to show automatic submission to you or any other simply because the labels "dominant" and "submissive" are involved? While I agree there is such a thing as common courtesy...sometimes, as others have said, no reply is a reply. To the OP... I find the assumption of automatic submission to be lacking in manners. I do find it ironic that you complain about the lack of replies and then go on to suggest that Doms/Dommes not reply to email from overseas. A bit double standard-ish, don't you think? I've recieved some lovely emails from foreigners where the topic of money never was brought up. I'll offer the same advice to you that I offered to OnC.....pick yourself up, brush yourself off and start all over again.

ICEMAN55 -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (7/26/2009 11:52:01 AM)
Why no polite responses, cause those who don't the meaning of it are assholes!

sirsholly -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (7/26/2009 11:55:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ICEMAN55 Why no polite responses, cause those who don't the meaning of it are assholes! something tells me they are not the only ones[8\|]

subtlebutterfly -> RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? (7/26/2009 11:55:15 AM)
How fascinating you come across as..almost as fascinating as your picture. Amazing.

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