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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 11:59:08 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: ICEMAN55

Why no polite responses, cause those who don't the meaning of it  are assholes! 


So you really believe that (quoted from the OP)

"A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'. And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever. "

and that I should automatically serve the OP because he created a cm profile and stuck MASTER in front of his name?

and if I don't that makes me an asshole?

Let me know how that works out for ya.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 12:34:54 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ICEMAN55

Why no polite responses, cause those who don't the meaning of it  are assholes! 


You dug up a year old thread to give that gem?

I get polite responses all the time.  Mebbe you're doing something wrong.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 1:20:26 PM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		i often thought it was great back in the day
When men were top and men were in the pay
i often used to think
it was appropriate when Women were chained to the kitchen sink
oh those were the days of peace and serene
of male macho and strong teams
but then all of a sudden
there was some consternation
when the japanese started to shock the nations
they proposed an alternative
of female rule
they thought it would be ever so cool
men they argued had been complete tools
to try and play Women for fools
so out with the patriarchy
and all this malarkey
And in came Feminism
it was better than pessimism
But men would soon feel the pain
Particulary submissives
They would suffer Her cane
And woe to the man
Who was submissive
Who tried to lead the Lady up the lane
He soon realised that when his Woman got pissed
She would punish him with an iron fist
it was a shock to some guys
to see that Women were so strong
And the wonder is it took so long
Now man was the inferior
And Woman was the absolute superior
And the culmination was yet to come
In Ireland in the 21st Century men were being smacked on the bum
it was a time of great consternation
Female Dommes surprised the nation
They took over the taxis, they took over the schools
Men were left to fight in the pools
Suddenly patriarchy was nt cool
Patriarchy and all this malarkey couldnt be saved
It had died it s death in the Glendalough graves
And nobody questions Female Rule
And nobody questions Female Rule
It is seen in the Women wearing stilettos
It is seen in every Dublin ghetto
Trying to find a male grotto
Is about as easy as winning the lotto
And nobody questions Female Rule
Women all together
The Female Dommes wearing booted leather
kevin

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 4:44:30 PM   
janiebelle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ICEMAN55

Why no polite responses, cause those who don't the meaning of it  are assholes! 


Um, perhaps if you have trouble getting polite responses you might want to consider that it might be a reflection on your delivery.
Just judging from the few words I see here, it's a strong possibility.
Just sayin'
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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 6:33:33 PM   
HeavansKeeper


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Status: offline 		DesFIP and Katy wrapped it up pretty well.

There's no obligation to respond, but not responding does send out a certain signal.

I used to get frustrated when I'd send people messages and not get a response. Then I slowly pieced together a few possibilities.

1) Males go to junk folders, which rarely get checked. True, some diamonds get lost in the rough, but it cuts down on the manure shoveling day to day.
2) Some people take months to check their emails. They don't come to CM often, and when they do they have a mountain of letters (usually from men). They deal with 5-10, get bored, and come back next week. This infinitely long queue takes time to ride. Just today I got a response from a three month old question. It was a pleasant surprise.
3) They read them, and don't like you. Many people don't like me. While I strive for professionalism and poise in my letters, many feel they're not worth a response. Oh well.

Women who put up pictures and log in occasionally (hence on the recently active page), get overloaded with emails quickly. More so if they're nude. More so if they're pretty. If I send letters to pretty little harlots, I can expect 1 response in 50... Maybe. Probably closer to 1 in 75. As a rule, the sluttier a person appears in their profile, the more mail they get. Not to mention all the real life cock - I mean stuff - they have to deal with.

*shrugs*

Not getting called back hurts. Ah well.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 7:13:33 PM   
oldtimer74


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Strangers do not owe you a response or submission.

No response = no interest

See how easy this is?



Hi Katylied

You are wrong! Common courtesy requires you to respond.

You are just a ignorant sub.

Oldtimer74

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 7:18:01 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: oldtimer74
You are just a ignorant sub.

Thanks. I thought this thread hadn't gone on for enough pages yet, and I was wondering what I could possibly do to bring it back to life.  Fortunately, you obeyed my desire, and posted this.

You're a good boy.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 7:19:14 PM   
GreedyTop


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quote:

ORIGINAL: oldtimer74


quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Strangers do not owe you a response or submission.

No response = no interest

See how easy this is?



Hi Katylied

You are wrong! Common courtesy requires you to respond.

You are just a ignorant sub.

Oldtimer74




oops.. my bad, poor quoting..

Way to be taken even semi-seriously here,....

(fuck it, cant seem to make it work right at the moment....)




< Message edited by GreedyTop -- 7/26/2009 7:45:40 PM >

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 8:26:01 PM   
Archaes


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Status: offline 		Submissives and slaves do not serve all.  They serve only their master/mistress.  However I do believe that everyone should show each other respect.  It is respectful to respond to someone whether negative or not.  In real life it is rude to just ignore someone who says hi to you.  When someone messages me and I am not interested I will respond.  Please take this into consideration.  Without respect it makes things difficult.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/26/2009 11:16:18 PM   
susie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: oldtimer74


quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Strangers do not owe you a response or submission.

No response = no interest

See how easy this is?



Hi Katylied

You are wrong! Common courtesy requires you to respond.

You are just a ignorant sub.

Oldtimer74


Way to go Katy. You are now officially one of the "Ignorant sub  club"
I have a feeling the membership will grow quite quickly!


well quotes are all up the do dah but never mind

< Message edited by susie -- 7/26/2009 11:19:21 PM >

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 4:08:30 AM   
WyldHrt


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quote:

Why no polite responses, cause those who don't the meaning of it  are assholes!

Wow, that was SO worth dragging up a year old thread for... yay, you!
Word to the wise, cupcake, this has been covered... and your post is now supporting data...
quote:

You are wrong! Common courtesy requires you to respond.
You are just a ignorant sub.

Really... I just can't... LOL
quote:

It is respectful to respond to someone whether negative or not.  In real life it is rude to just ignore someone who says hi to you.

Sweetie... real life has nothing to do with here. If you think, "Sorry, I'm not interested" usually gets a reply of, "Well, good luck in your search", you are seriously deluded. If you want to know why most of us don't bother to reply, you should read some of the shit we get when we say "Thanks, but no thanks".


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 4:22:47 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Strangers do not owe you a response or submission.

No response = no interest

See how easy this is?



quote:

ORIGINAL: oldtimer74
Hi Katylied

You are wrong! Common courtesy requires you to respond.

You are just a ignorant sub.

Oldtimer74
Oldtimer....first,by calling Katy ignorant you are waving your true colors. She is NOT ignorant. She has stated the truth.

I owe a stranger nothing...i am under no obligation to even open  the e-mail, to say nothing of a response.

If you send an e-mail and do not get one in return, assume she thinks you are a dud and has no time to waste on you.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 4:29:28 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		I always try to give a polite response to all emails but of course there are many asshole that don't deserve one and no one owes their submission to anyone especially those keyboard cowboys that demand it..bounty

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 4:57:49 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: oldtimer74


quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Strangers do not owe you a response or submission.

No response = no interest

See how easy this is?



Hi Katylied

You are wrong! Common courtesy requires you to respond.

You are just a ignorant sub.

Oldtimer74


No oldtimer, your the one who is wrong. Oh and rude too, but you probibly already knew that.

< Message edited by thishereboi -- 7/27/2009 4:59:53 AM >

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 5:05:42 AM   
Apocalypso


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Status: offline 		My view on this subject is already well known, so I thought I'd get a second opinion.  Fortunately, that renowned man of letters, Professor Eminem is round for tea and crumpets.  So I shall get his learned opinion forthwith.

....

...

His considered verdict is as follows.

I don't know you and no I don't owe you a motherfucking thing.

I have to say, the good professor makes a strong case for his views there.  Although I am slightly shocked that such vulgarity should come out of the mouth of a prominent academic.





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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 5:06:26 AM   
GotSteel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterChip2008
A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'. And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever.


Have you considered that maybe it's just you? Perhaps your doing something that's causing these subs not to reply. Maybe your opinion that it's the duty of complete strangers to serve you is getting you off on the wrong foot.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

Could you be in danger by responding no thanks in an email lol. Don't start reaching.



Actually I knew someone on another of these sites who got recognized by her profile pic at a club and stalked by someone three times her age who was furious that she wasn't interested in him.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 5:07:46 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Folks, ease up on oldtimer.  He's 74 years old.  If he hasn't learned manners yet, he's not about to learn them now.  Just hide his posts and ignore him.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 5:12:28 AM   
SirLost


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Status: offline 		I think it's because people used to be kinder, subs used to respond any e-mails in his time. Good ol' 50's-60's...

< Message edited by SirLost -- 7/27/2009 5:13:24 AM >

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 5:14:33 AM   
Apocalypso


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ORIGINAL: SirLost

I think it's because people used to be kinder, subs used to respond any e-mails in his time. Good ol' 50's-60's...
It was easier then though.  The Internet was only five foot and everybody knew each other.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 5:15:31 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Folks, ease up on oldtimer.  He's 74 years old.  If he hasn't learned manners yet, he's not about to learn them now.  Just hide his posts and ignore him.
Out of respect for you, Dear Steven, i will refrain from stating that age in not a valid excuse for ignorance. I want to say it...but i will not.

Yer welcome


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