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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 6:59:58 AM   
SnareMage85


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First, just because they are submissives/slaves doesn't mean that they owe you a response just because you're a Dom.

Secondly, I have to agree to a small degree.  As often as I've seen slaves/subs complain about the messages that they recieve from Dom's, you would think when they get a polite one they'd be more inclined to respond-granted that's assuming that they're getting a polite message.

The reality is, they owe you nothing just because you sent them a message.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 6:20:25 PM   
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I try to respond to all messages. Some get sent to my bulk folder, but I still try to check that and say "thanks but no thanks". That's not to say I don't occasionally respond rudely. If I receive a message demanding I submit I usually try to make the person cry like a baby. Partially because I'm vindictive, partially because, frankly until I sign a contract to be a Master's girl, I am my own woman, and I am a person just like any Dom/me. I don't use the traditional caps in my messages anymore, I don't call people Ma'am or Sir in messages until I feel they are someone I can trust not to damage my already jaded person. That's all really.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 8:02:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: oldtimer74

You are wrong! Common courtesy requires you to respond.

Oldtimer74


Really?  Says who?  Who decided that was common courtesy?  Who wrote the rule that said "thou shalt answer all emails sent to thee, whether thou wanteth to or not" and then made it law for everyone?


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/27/2009 10:18:31 PM   
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I write polite responses to any polite inquiries. I am not mandated by any law or 'common courtesy' to respond to rude, thoughtless, or nasty emails.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/29/2009 12:15:21 PM   
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Does this Sound Familar to Anyone

<<<Scribble, Scribble, Write, Write>>>
Dominant writes lovely Email

<<< Zip, ZIP, Zoom>>>

Submissive looks it ovwr, but is not intereested
<<<Scribble, Scribble, Write, Write>>>
Sends no interested Email to Dominant

<<< Ssssccccrrrreeeccchhh>>>
Email delivered, but has time as box is filled with cob webs
<<< Dominant does happy dance as he see's "new" in screen>>>


<<<Scribble,Pout, Scribble, pout, Write, pout, Write>>>
Upset Dominant is hurt and keeps asking Why, Why,Why
<<< Zip, ZIP, Zip>> >
<<<Scribble, Scribble, Write, Write>>>
<<<Submissive, feeling pressured writes "I'm just not into you>>



<<< Zip, ZIP, Zoom>>>
<<< Ssssccccrrrreeeccchhh>>>
Dominant reads reply
<<<Face getting red, steam commiming out of ears, slams out mssage>>>
<<<Scribble, Scribble, Write, Write>>>
<<< Zip, ZIP, Zoom>>>
Submissive reads reply


Well, YOU are such a F*CKING B*TCH





This kind of treatment is why people
do not reply to emails

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/29/2009 1:31:32 PM   
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WHY ARE YOU SHOUTING???



1.) No response IS a response.

2.) A slave or submissive does not owe responses to all the strangers worldwide who message them. And neither do you. Block and delete.


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/29/2009 4:16:25 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterChip2008

I am growing deeply concerned about the sub's and slave's that do not ever reply/respond to message's sent to them by Masters/Mistreess's, not even a polite 'Thanks, but no thanks' would be nice. However, increasingly, I find that its virtually impossible to receive a response from sub's and slave's when they are contacted thru here. A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'. And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever.
Another matter, on a different subject is...there has been a huge outbreak of 'supposed' subs/slaves sending message's to Masters and Mistresses from out of the USA, from Ghana for example. They claim they want a 'owner', but then go  on to 'demand' extreme funds for plane tickets, visa's, and passports, making claims that all can be had within 72 hours time, IF they have the money. I have, personally, checked this out....the shortest time anyone can get a passport/visa from Ghana, or most anywhere else is actually 6 months or more, and even then, some governments require that the person requesting thses documents have a large bank account balance and real property in they're country, there-by assureing thery're return. I have not found any country willing to grant visa's and passports within 72 hours, and normally there is a long and detailed process by which said items are gotten anyway.
My advise to all Masters and Mistresses, if you get a message from someone outside of your own country, simply do not reply, its most likely a 'con-game' to simply get your money. And for those who receive message's from those in your country, be sure that if you assist with transportation for these subs/slave's, you pre-pay for the ticket, so you can get a refund if the ticket is not used and it cannot be cashed in by anyone else...
On a final note, I hope everyone here, Masters,Mistresses, slaves and subs have a wonderful day and night!!
Master Chip 2008


Thanks, but no thanks.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 7/29/2009 4:21:30 PM   
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My advise to all Masters and Mistresses, if you get a message from someone outside of your own country, simply do not reply
what...no polite response?

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 1:04:36 PM   
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im not even gonna read through all theres comments as im pretty sure i agree with most of them. Heres my rules for myself as a slave.
First my Mistress had to earn me calling her Mistress. when we first started i called her Miss until i felt we were stable enough for a fullblown title.
Second I wil Never call a many Sir or Master as I am first a lesbian and second just dont care what power a male has as far as im concerned hes just background noise. Now unless your a cop coming up to my window or judge its quite possible if your male and i dont like you or know you im just gonna say "oh yeah that jack ass" in reference to you or them.
For females i would be more inclined to call them Miss but most likely all theyll get unless weve talked some is a polite capitalizaton of their name. but even then thats only about a 1 in 20 chance.
As to email. men go in my bulk and anyone over my age limit goes in my bulk to. Sometimes i go thru and read it. dealeting whatever ones i dont want to deal with and when someone is particularly nasty or trying to be i look at their profile and then fire one nast email right back at them before deleating anything else they send. cause if you cant take what you give then dont give any.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 1:46:02 PM   
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Just because I'm a sub doesn't mean I owe anyone a response when it comes to messages, nor do I feel the need to serve anyone less than who I full heartedly trust. If I do not respond to your message then that should say something to you, especially if I write down I'm not interested in serving anyone other than my Dom.

That's what annoys me the most, when a self proclaimed Dom totally ignores what I write in my profile (saying I'm only looking for friendships) to take a shot at me, thinking that I'll serve him/be his sex slave because I'm a submissive; then gets pissed off when I tell him otherwise.

Those aren't Dominants, that's an asshole; HUGE difference. Besides, if you're so pissed off then go complain on the interne-....crap o_o.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 7:33:44 PM   
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Awww geeze. I thought this thread had been put into a lead lined container and buried under a landfill somewhere. 30 pages of



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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 7:36:59 PM   
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!



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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 8:14:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

My advise to all Masters and Mistresses, if you get a message from someone outside of your own country, simply do not reply
what...no polite response?




*howls*

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 8:44:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Awww geeze. I thought this thread had been put into a lead lined container and buried under a landfill somewhere. 30 pages of




Can't make everybody happy. Some people whine about an old thread being resurrected. At the same time, others whine about a fresh thread on a topic that was discussed ad nauseam back in the past.

< Message edited by SouthernSpankin -- 8/27/2009 8:46:56 PM >

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 9:45:36 PM   
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quote:

Can't make everybody happy. Some people whine about an old thread being resurrected. At the same time, others whine about a fresh thread on a topic that was discussed ad nauseam back in the past.

Count me in with the former, if you must; reason being that many will not see the date of the OP and will write out a thoughtful reply to someone who has long since left the site. That said, there is a difference between resurrecting a thread that was started a year ago (or 5 years ago) to reply to the OP, and starting a new thread mirroring one from last week.
JMHO


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 9:56:49 PM   
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To whomever:

No, you cannot make anyone happy.  Why?  Because we are evil.
No, there are no polite responses.  Why?  Because we are evil.

In fact, the answer to any inquiry is:  Because we/he/she are evil.  Deal with it.

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 10:06:29 PM   
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*lurves Aylee* 

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/27/2009 11:36:24 PM   
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OP, it's funny how you're so quick to place the rudeness on others.  Perhaps you should look into your messages for the answer to your own question.  

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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/28/2009 2:30:52 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

WHY ARE YOU SHOUTING???



1.) No response IS a response.

2.) A slave or submissive does not owe responses to all the strangers worldwide who message them. And neither do you. Block and delete.


Welcome to the boards, OP.

Have FUN!

Ditto


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RE: WHY NO POLITE RESPONSES??? - 8/28/2009 5:01:13 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mistressbinature

Does this Sound Familar to Anyone

<<<Scribble, Scribble, Write, Write>>>
Dominant writes lovely Email

<<< Zip, ZIP, Zoom>>>

Submissive looks it ovwr, but is not intereested
<<<Scribble, Scribble, Write, Write>>>
Sends no interested Email to Dominant

<<< Ssssccccrrrreeeccchhh>>>
Email delivered, but has time as box is filled with cob webs
<<< Dominant does happy dance as he see's "new" in screen>>>


<<<Scribble,Pout, Scribble, pout, Write, pout, Write>>>
Upset Dominant is hurt and keeps asking Why, Why,Why
<<< Zip, ZIP, Zip>> >
<<<Scribble, Scribble, Write, Write>>>
<<<Submissive, feeling pressured writes "I'm just not into you>>



<<< Zip, ZIP, Zoom>>>
<<< Ssssccccrrrreeeccchhh>>>
Dominant reads reply
<<<Face getting red, steam commiming out of ears, slams out mssage>>>
<<<Scribble, Scribble, Write, Write>>>
<<< Zip, ZIP, Zoom>>>
Submissive reads reply


Well, YOU are such a F*CKING B*TCH





This kind of treatment is why people
do not reply to emails



nope, not familiar

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